# do pheros affect your personal perception of attraction? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 15, 2010, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046 "2010-03-15T23:33:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/1 "2010-03-15T23:33:17Z")
I ask because I have been testing out one phero for a few weeks now, and I know for a fact that it affects my perception of what I find physically attractive. I can think I look gorgeous before I wear that phero, and I will think that I look unattractive or ordinary at best just minutes after I spray it on. I also find most men physically unattractive and I really don’t care about how they look. I think that most people seem so plain and ordinary to the point of being nondescript. There is ONE man however who I think is the hottest thing I’ve seen in years. He has the brightest most piercing blue eyes I have ever seen, a killer smile, a very handsome sensual face, a very sexy walk, I love everything about him. Everything about him screams sex at me. It took all the strength I had for me to not sleep with him first time he talked to me. I will never fool around with him, but there are times when my body still reacts with such a strong attraction for him that it makes me very unhappy because I know I can never have him. Here comes the part that I’m concerned about. There were some people that when they noticed that I found him attractive, stared at me and him like they they couldn’t believe it, like there was something wrong with me. At first I didn’t think too much of it until I noticed that different people had the same reaction. Without telling my friends that I found him attractive, I asked them to take a look at him and tell me what they thought.. They told me that he is a THREE, or five at the most on his good days. They LAUGHED at the way he walks. They think he has a very rough looking face, that they found very unattractive. They told me that they barely even noticed how bright his eyes were because all they could see was how BLOODSHOT his eyes are. They observed him for days and told me that they didn’t see any women looking at him. They only noticed two very unattractive horny looking girls paying attention to him. One laughed at something he did, the other one watched him with interest. My friends and I have different taste in men, but it’s never been this extreme before. They have never rated anyone I liked a 3 before. That’s pretty bad. After getting to know him a little better, I find some of his behavior repulsive. I would never continue to like someone who engages in those behaviors, but I still have the hots for him. Any thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![Sugabee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugabee/32/432_2.png) [@Sugabee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugabee)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/2 "2010-03-16T01:47:47Z")
> [@Cindy11](#): > > I ask because I have been testing out one phero for a few weeks now, and I know for a fact that it affects my perception of what I find physically attractive. I can think I look gorgeous before I wear that phero, and I will think that I look unattractive or ordinary at best just minutes after I spray it on. I also find most men physically unattractive and I really don’t care about how they look. I think that most people seem so plain and ordinary to the point of being nondescript. There is ONE man however who I think is the hottest thing I’ve seen in years. He has the brightest most piercing blue eyes I have ever seen, a killer smile, a very handsome sensual face, a very sexy walk, I love everything about him. Everything about him screams sex at me. It took all the strength I had for me to not sleep with him first time he talked to me. I will never fool around with him, but there are times when my body still reacts with such a strong attraction for him that it makes me very unhappy because I know I can never have him. Here comes the part that I’m concerned about. There were some people that when they noticed that I found him attractive, stared at me and him like they they couldn’t believe it, like there was something wrong with me. At first I didn’t think too much of it until I noticed that different people had the same reaction. Without telling my friends that I found him attractive, I asked them to take a look at him and tell me what they thought.. They told me that he is a THREE, or five at the most on his good days. They LAUGHED at the way he walks. They think he has a very rough looking face, that they found very unattractive. They told me that they barely even noticed how bright his eyes were because all they could see was how BLOODSHOT his eyes are. They observed him for days and told me that they didn’t see any women looking at him. They only noticed two very unattractive horny looking girls paying attention to him. One laughed at something he did, the other one watched him with interest. My friends and I have different taste in men, but it’s never been this extreme before. They have never rated anyone I liked a 3 before. That’s pretty bad. After getting to know him a little better, I find some of his behavior repulsive. I would never continue to like someone who engages in those behaviors, but I still have the hots for him. Any thoughts? Maybe your friends are more visual than you, and his particular [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) signature attracts you (and not them). I couldn’t be attracted to someone who had “bright eyes” I prefer eye shape over eye color. I could never understand how someone could be attracted to an eye color or a hair color, but to each their own. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 6:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/3 "2010-03-16T06:38:30Z")
First, do you live in a small community or a big city? It sounds like you are not really interested in him as long-term relationship, mate material, and if this is so, here is what I would do. If you live in a big city or town, then seduce him, do him and get it over with and out of your system. If he turns out to be really yuck, or if he suddenly thinks he’s “in love” or becomes a cling-on, then its easier to not have to see him again. However, if you live in a smaller community, you might want to think twice about that, because people are more likely to know your business, and also you may be more likely to run into him when you’re out, which could be uncomfortable for you. In that case, just look at those awful things he does, and think about them. Look at him, and find something unattractive about him, and kind of magnify it in your mind. Your hots for him might take a bit longer to die, but they will fade, eventually. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/4 "2010-03-16T08:03:09Z")
> [@](#): > > I can think I look gorgeous before I wear that phero, and I will think that I look unattractive or ordinary at best just minutes after I spray it on. I can say without a doubt that is a highly unusual reaction and entirely in your head. If it’s due to self-medication effects it will eventually fade with regular use. I don’t feel a damn thing. I suspect it’s due to something else deeper within and has nothing to do with moan use. > [@](#): > > I could never understand how someone could be attracted to an eye color or a hair color, but to each their own. Attraction to particular eye and hair color is common. People talk about it but it’s never that simple and many other things are involved. But, yeah, I’m drawn like moth to flame by dark eyes and hair. I also prefer almond eyes but not too slanty and somewhat widely spaced. I guessing those types of physical traits calling to you are your genes talking. Of course that gets you across the room but there has to be something behind those beautiful eyes to get my heart pumping. > [@](#): > > If he turns out to be really yuck, or if he suddenly thinks he’s “in love” or becomes a cling-on, then its easier to not have to see him again. I love that term,“cling-on.” If I ever get married again I wanna get hitched in at the Vegas Hilton and dress up as a friggen cling-on. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/5 "2010-03-16T10:08:53Z")
> [@](#): > > I can say without a doubt that is a highly unusual reaction and entirely in your head. If it’s due to self-medication effects it will eventually fade with regular use. I don’t feel a damn thing. I suspect it’s due to something else deeper within and has nothing to do with moan use. Umm… Gegogi of course its in her head. Thats where her neurotransmitters are located. LOL 😉 > [@](#): > > I can think I look gorgeous before I wear that phero, and I will think that I look unattractive or ordinary at best just minutes after I spray it on. Cindy the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) in the product are foreign to your natural signature. Sometimes this will make you feel more confident and sometimes it makes you feel out of sorts. However as Gegogi mentioned after repeated use you wont notice it anymore because your body adjusts. Your pheromones can directly effect the way you feel about you not the way you feel about others. So your reacting to the feeling that you are feeling…arousal. His pheromones would effect the way you feel about him. In other words they dont signal you to become attracted or aroused by someone who you have no other interest in. Certain pheromones can make you feel more sexual and aroused on there own but you are still in control of the direction your arousal is focused. Something about this guy interests you so you focused those feelings on him. The pheromone only enhanced a feeling… you focused it. Your arousal is yours to focus. Focus it somewhere else. That’s why they make vibrators. My women friends and I seldom have the same taste in men. Whats a 3 to one person may be a 10 to the next so I would not judge your feelings by their scale or you will end up with a guy they love and you dont. On seducing him, well you just dont go around seducing any hot guy who catches your eye or arouses you to see how you feel about them on other levels. You see how you feel about them before you seduce them and if you feel interested and good about the person then you seduce them. You already said you feel repulsed by his behavior why would you lower yourself to sleeping with him. I find many people hot looking and even arousing but I dont bang them to get them out of my system. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Jean9](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c0e974/32.png) [@Jean9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jean9)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 12:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/6 "2010-03-16T12:36:58Z")
> [@Cindy11](#): > > I ask because I have been testing out one phero for a few weeks now, and I know for a fact that it affects my perception of what I find physically attractive. I can think I look gorgeous before I wear that phero, and I will think that I look unattractive or ordinary at best just minutes after I spray it on. I also find most men physically unattractive and I really don’t care about how they look. I think that most people seem so plain and ordinary to the point of being nondescript. There is ONE man however who I think is the hottest thing I’ve seen in years. He has the brightest most piercing blue eyes I have ever seen, a killer smile, a very handsome sensual face, a very sexy walk, I love everything about him. Everything about him screams sex at me. It took all the strength I had for me to not sleep with him first time he talked to me. I will never fool around with him, but there are times when my body still reacts with such a strong attraction for him that it makes me very unhappy because I know I can never have him. Here comes the part that I’m concerned about. There were some people that when they noticed that I found him attractive, stared at me and him like they they couldn’t believe it, like there was something wrong with me. At first I didn’t think too much of it until I noticed that different people had the same reaction. Without telling my friends that I found him attractive, I asked them to take a look at him and tell me what they thought.. They told me that he is a THREE, or five at the most on his good days. They LAUGHED at the way he walks. They think he has a very rough looking face, that they found very unattractive. They told me that they barely even noticed how bright his eyes were because all they could see was how BLOODSHOT his eyes are. They observed him for days and told me that they didn’t see any women looking at him. They only noticed two very unattractive horny looking girls paying attention to him. One laughed at something he did, the other one watched him with interest. My friends and I have different taste in men, but it’s never been this extreme before. They have never rated anyone I liked a 3 before. That’s pretty bad. After getting to know him a little better, I find some of his behavior repulsive. I would never continue to like someone who engages in those behaviors, but I still have the hots for him. Any thoughts? Well, I think you should ask yourself, how important is it for you to be with someone your friends admire you for being with compared to someone you find attractive? Be honest with yourself about this question, and there’s no need to judge. There’s nothing really “better” about choosing one over the other, just so long as your own values are supported. But you also said, “I find some of his behavior repulsive. I would never continue to like someone who engages in those behaviors, but I still have the hots for him. Any thoughts?” . . . I apologize that I took this in the context and thought maybe you were trying to justify not liking him to yourself because your friends didn’t like him… but in reality, if you don’t LIKE the guy, then you have to ask yourself if you want to seduce someone because you find him attractive, or if you’re interested in being with someone you like on many different levels, maybe for something long term, or even just for a night. Again, I would encourage you to just be honest with yourself about what you want, without judgment, and follow what your own values. However, if your friends think he’s creepy, or has a totally bad vibe, I’d listen to that and look more closely. If they just don’t find him physically attractive or something, and you do… then go for it. You’re the one that’s going to be cuddling up next to him, not them. –Jeannine [A Journey Towards Freedom](http://theloveoffreedom.wordpress.com) ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 10:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/7 "2010-03-16T22:14:53Z")
Thanks everyone for all your responses. I understand it a lot better now. I’m not used to having such strong sexual attractions. The guy turned out to be a jerk. He seemed so into me, if it wasn’t for my friends keeping an eye on him I wouldn’t have had an idea about how the thought of getting sex from strange women is affecting all of his free time. There was always something about him that intimidated me, and my friends have watched enough of his actions to think that he is creepy. We’re still observing him, but regardless of what the deal is with him, I will never sleep with him. Based on some of his behaviors and some things he has said, I have reasons to believe that he had been keeping an eye on me for at least three months, and I can see that he finds me very amusing. I really don’t need to be the source of some bored horndog’s cheap thrills. So if that particular phero makes me feel unattractive while my body adjusts to it… Does that mean that maybe it’s not a good phero for me? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 10:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/8 "2010-03-16T22:32:15Z")
I’m so glad you’ve gotten past that, it stinks, I know, I’ve been there myself. Attracted to someone and you have no idea why (hey, maybe HE was using pheros, maybe TUTH which can come off as horndog if used incorrectly). I’ve never acted on it though, (maybe because I am in a small community where if you practically just smile at a guy, then everyone assumes you must be dating him, lol). I either realized what a jerk he was, or just suffered til it faded away. That has only happened to me a couple of times that I can think of. And Tisha’s advice was spot on, I should not have suggested acting on it even if you were in a big city. Its just something that had occurred to me when I had a the similar situation. A slimeball is a slimeball, and the last thing you need is a stalker, especially these days. What phero is it that you are using that makes you feel unattractive? Knowing what it is may help us to figure out whats going on. Tisha would probably know, she is super experienced and knowledgeable when it comes to pheros. ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/9 "2010-03-16T23:10:09Z")
It’s funny you think he may have been using pheros because I thought the same thing. I just couldn’t explain the animal lust that made me want to jump him because that’s not like me at all. Now that I realized that he had been watching me all that time before he approached me, it makes more sense that I would have liked him because he knew just what to do to get me to like him, but still there was something else about him that made him irresistable to me. He knew it and it really amused him. He’s not just sending a horndog vibe, he is a without a doubt a pervert. The phero I’m using is pheromax. All I need is one to three sprays to get hits, but at those low dosages some women get catty with me. At 4 sprays, I feel happy but don’t notice too many hits. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/10 "2010-03-16T23:37:01Z")
Thats why I think maybe he was using TUTH or some similar thing. I don’t know a whole lot about Pheromax. I did have a little sample vial of it, and used it maybe once, not enough to really gauge reactions. So, Pheromax gets hits at low dosages, makes you feel happy without hits at a higher dosage, and makes you feel overall less attractive? ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/11 "2010-03-17T00:57:07Z")
So, Pheromax gets hits at low dosages, makes you feel happy without hits at a higher dosage, and makes you feel overall less attractive? Pretty much. I get some hits at higher dosages but I also think that it intimidates guys. It does make me feel less attractive, but I feel super confident. I feel so confident that I don’t put up with any crap from men. I don’t care how much I like them, it’s like I get inpatient with them and have very low tolerance for any inappropriate behavior. Even if it’s appropriate, if it rubs me the wrong way, I get annoyed with them and they can tell. I even make unhappy/annoyed to see them kind of faces when I see I guy who I was hoping to avoid, and that is NOT like me. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/12 "2010-03-17T02:18:21Z")
Your sure you have the womens pheromax ? The feelings your experiencing falls more in line with what you should experience using the mens product. The mens is anone anol and A1 The womens is reported to be copulin arone and anol. The arone could be effecting you and making you easily annoyed. This is a [male pheromone](https://phero.com/) and to much worn by a women can cause the user to become cranky and impatient but generally this is less likely with arone. If you do have the mens the anone will make you aroused pushy dominant and sometimes impatient if you use to much. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/13 "2010-03-17T03:21:27Z")
I think Tisha might be right about this, it sounds a bit like A314 if I wear it straight up, lol. And if I’m remembering correctly, you already naturally are a bit intimidating and unapproachable to others, and that was something you wanted help softening (and not strengthening!). If they sent you the wrong Pheromax, you should return it and make them send you the right one. Did you get it from Love Scent? ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 8:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/14 "2010-03-17T08:39:30Z")
> [@](#): > > Umm… Gegogi of course its in her head. Thats where her neurotransmitters are located. LOL Well, you know what I meant! She’s just as attractive with or without moans. Her imagination was merely running wild 'n loose, drawing her into a reality warp. If anything, moan users tend to feel more attractive after application. ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 12:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheros-affect-your-personal-perception-of-attraction/37046/15 "2010-03-17T12:43:44Z")
I got it from Love Scent, and they sent me the right one for women. I think men find me intimidating because of the way I carry myself. I have been making an effort to appear to be friendlier and it is helping me socially, at least with men. I think that some men are so afraid of rejection because the ones that do talk to me seem releaved when I respond back, so they’re not just intimidated by me. I think they just don’t want to make fools of themselves. Only bisexual or lesbians around my age seem to be interested in me. Most straight women around my age avoid me. Only older women in their 50s and up are happy enough to see me to smile at me. I have been wearing [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) lately along with my other sexual mones. It’s helped me to feel more at ease and relaxed, and I think that it affects the way men feel around me, women just keep acting the same way toward me. I tried Instant Openess twice and I had anxiety both times. Since the Pheromax for women seems to be affecting me the way a man’s phero would, do you have any suggestings on what I can do to lessen those negative effects?