Wow. Thank you. That made me realize something about my own experience with it. I just did a test of it last night, and a few extra things came to mind as I read your report.
The guy who put his feet across my lap…long before he did so, I found myself studying his face every few minutes. Admiring is probably a better word. I remember noticing how attractive his facial hair was. And his features in general. The last time I’d seen him, I thought he needed a haircut. He still hasn’t cut his hair, but in that moment, I found myself thinking that maybe he didn’t need to cut it after all, that he looked very nice as is. Interesting.