# do YOU hear sex?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 11, 2006, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412 "2006-06-11T21:19:07Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2006, 8:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/41 "2006-06-18T08:12:26Z")

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> [@Dancing\_Joker](#):
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> I’ve been researching IOI’s for quite a while now since I want to be able to identify whether any mone mixes I come up with have any discernable effects. I’ve read up quite a few books regarding how women express interest in men both consciously and subconsciously, but it took quite a long time before I felt comfortable enough and became sufficiently aware of my surroundings and women’s reactions so that I could start getting a “feel” for IOI’s.
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> I’ve been doing some extensive testing over the past few months in venues such as restaurants, trains and the work place. At first, it took significant focus and awareness to observe how women were responding and to classify which reactions were due to mones and which were unrelated. The key is to be patient and observant and learning to sense a change in behavior or subtle shifts in responses. After a while, it almost became intuitive spotting all the different IOI’s that were elicited, although some of them were so blatantly obvious that a blind man could sense it 😉
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> The funny thing is before I started using mones and learning all about IOI’s, I used to never pay attention to how women would respond to me. It’s just amazing how much you can miss if you’re not tuned in to look for it! 😮

It sure is!

I think I need to start getting out to test my mixes alone again. I am usually so distracted by my lovely “assistant” that I don’t pay attention to other women anymore.

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**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2006, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/42 "2006-12-03T16:46:29Z")

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I found some information on the video codec used by that site. It’s called Vividas.

> **[Play/recode .viv Files - Doom9's Forum](https://forum.doom9.org/showthread.php?t=100382)**
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> Play/recode .viv Files Newbies

It seems to be a version of the VP7 codec.

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**Author:** ![smoothplayer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e0b2c6/32.png) [@smoothplayer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smoothplayer)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2006, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/43 "2006-12-08T07:30:47Z")

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At my work, this is what one girl has done to get my attention while I was wearing high -none, such as NPA or PI.

- When leaving my shift, she would stand in front of the door, pretending to be looking at some papers. I would have to step up to her and tell her to move, at which point she would give me a lot of eye contact, stand put, and slowly step a side, blushing.

- Other times, she would make silly excuses to come to my cubicle. For example, throwing something away at the waste basket closest to my desk, even when there are plenty closer to where she works. Walking around my work area literally 30 times and making silly/giggly comments to get my attention. Then, when getting close to me, she really likes to know I am looking at her. She will just come and stand 2ft away from me and start talking to herself or to someone else, and literally wait for me to start eyeing her.

What’s funny is that I don’t always wear pheromones. But I’ve noticed with some women, once they get “struck” by your signature, they will feel the effects even without the substance - kind of like Pavlov’s concept. Anyhow, I have never tried anything with this girl because 1) she has a boyfriend and 2) I don’t like to get involved with coworkers

As far as the signs, they may be subtle, but other coworkers definitely notice the sexual tension between us. My manager has given me and her several strange looks, like ‘what’s going on?’ when she has for example blocked my way, etc.

btw: thanks Jasmin and Dancing Joker for the extensive lists, and also thanks to ilsa

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**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2006, 12:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/44 "2006-12-08T12:19:33Z")

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> [@smoothplayer](#):
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> Anyhow, I have never tried anything with this girl because 1) she has a boyfriend and 2) I don’t like to get involved with coworkers

Okay, I was just about to ask why you haven’t asked her out yet… Now I understand.

> [@smoothplayer](#):
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> btw: thanks Jasmin and Dancing Joker for the extensive lists, and also thanks to ilsa

Your welcome.🙂

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**Author:** ![sweetsense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@sweetsense](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweetsense)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2007, 4:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/45 "2007-06-15T04:30:33Z")

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Two that I look for:  
(1) when my closed hand is near her on the table, she cups the top of my hand9 I’ve quite a few ladies do that  
(2) exposed hand palms

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**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2007, 3:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/46 "2007-06-15T15:04:33Z")

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So, any updates on an Androtics publication or video?

Anyone have any other suggestions for _good_ resource material on IOI’s? Books, ebooks, vids?

Any further observations? This tread has been dormant for a while… maybe there are some new opinions?

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2007, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/47 "2007-06-15T15:58:12Z")

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> [@Rbt](#):
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> So, any updates on an Androtics publication or video?
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> Anyone have any other suggestions for _good_ resource material on IOI’s? Books, ebooks, vids?
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> Any further observations? This tread has been dormant for a while… maybe there are some new opinions?

actually anyone here with access to the right equipment can create a video that would help us all out.

maybe many? string them all together? have a contest?

I told Jas I wanted a hidden camera I could wear on my shirt while bartending, to get IOI’s… I was wearing alot of pheros then.

Since Im nolonger bartending I have lost interest in doing it, but i would be interested in others experiences.  
🙂

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**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2007, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/48 "2007-06-16T01:23:48Z")

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I had this vision of a couple of camera lenses mounted on lor’s chest… you know… er… sorta Madonna cone-bra like…

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**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2007, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/49 "2007-06-16T06:27:34Z")

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> [@Rbt](#):
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> I had this vision of a couple of camera lenses mounted on lor’s chest… you know… er… sorta Madonna cone-bra like…

Then she could put the videos online on her new blog! Great blog, by the way!

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2007, 3:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/50 "2007-06-16T15:28:41Z")

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thank you,phoenix 🙂

believe it or not,Rbt, I am as non-sexual as you can possibly get visually while working 😃 .  
I never dressed up to bartend, and thats was the key to my being successful with both genders. No scary cone-bras for me!😛

If someone of either gender digs you, they will just _imagine_ you the way they would like to see you…

am i right? 😉

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**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2007, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/51 "2007-06-17T02:10:51Z")

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Bear in mind I have a warped mind…

My imagination can be strange…

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**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2007, 6:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/52 "2007-06-17T06:47:47Z")

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> [@Rbt](#):
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> Bear in mind I have a warped mind…
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> My imagination can be strange…

Well I can be very imaginative and creative too…

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**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2007, 5:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/53 "2007-06-18T05:06:44Z")

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A warped mind is a terrible thing to waste!

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**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [June 18, 2007, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/54 "2007-06-18T05:59:34Z")

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> [@EnchantedApril](#):
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> A warped mind is a terrible thing to waste!

exactly that’s what I say hehehe

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**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2007, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/55 "2007-06-19T02:37:14Z")

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> [@EnchantedApril](#):
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> A warped mind is a terrible thing to waste!

Not only warped, but wefted and woven too!

And a bit wrinkled as well…

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2007, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/56 "2007-06-19T17:18:40Z")

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The eyes always give a persons feelings away. ALWAYS!

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**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/57 "2007-09-16T17:36:24Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Biting Lips: Curling lips inward and tightly due to intense feelings

I really saw that, I wasn’t wearing pheromones this time.. probably a result of a memory of my pheromone signature.. interesting IOI..

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/58 "2007-09-16T18:46:41Z")

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> [@](#):
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> probably a result of a memory of my pheromone signature..

Now Now Maybe it was all you 😉

Tisha

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**Author:** ![snook\_assassin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snook_assassin/32/1107_2.png) [@snook\_assassin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snook_assassin)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/59 "2007-09-16T20:04:08Z")

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> [@countesszero](#):
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> I just intuitively know that the person I’m talking to is sexually aroused. I can look into their eyes and see that certain sparkle. Oh and when they become touchy feely that’s a for sure sign.

I think it’s a built-in processor. Not just in humans, but all animals. Birds do crazy dances, baboons show engorged backsides, and people smile, look sheepishly away til they think you’re not looking anymore, and look back at you again. whether consciously or sub-consciously, you just _know._

[quote=“MHarris, post:18, topic:412”]

Very perceptive, Phersurf!

You’re right, too. While IOI awareness is great and all, and something worth cultivating, it’s even more important to _assume attraction_.

[QUOTE]

Yeppers. Agreed all the way. When I was 14, there was this _gorgeous_ girl at the pool that I frequented with my best friend, and his dad. when his dad saw me gawking at her one day, he asked why I never talked to her. I responded with something about her being way out of my league. He then let me in on a great secret of my life since then, that has massively multiplied my game. He told me:

“She’s already attracted to you, she just doesn’t know it yet. It’s up to you to let her in on that little secret.”

I ended up dating her for a year after that day.

And since then, I came up with this little piece that, for lack of a better place, I think belongs here:

There is no such thing as a woman (or a man, for that matter)being out of your league. Look at it this way; If you are going out to try to pick someone up, automatically go for the highest class, best looking person available. High expectations bring high results. If they don’t like you for who you are, then don’t let it damage your ego. Let it build your ego, because you had the gumption to walk up to the most beautiful person in the place, talk your game, and leave with your head held high.You would be _ **AMAZED** _ 😮 at how often these beautiful people will respond VERY well to being approached by a regular guy (gal) who is just confident in who they are. (or at least appear to be confident. 🆒 It took me a while to convey confidence, even if I wasn’t feeling it.)

> [@Lor](#):
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> thank you,phoenix 🙂
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> believe it or not,Rbt, I am as non-sexual as you can possibly get visually while working 😃 .  
> I never dressed up to bartend, and thats was the key to my being successful with both genders. No scary cone-bras for me!😛
> 
> If someone of either gender digs you, they will just _imagine_ you the way they would like to see you…
> 
> am i right? 😉

Yep. I go to work dressed in a suit every day. I hate suits, but them’s the breaks… I’m not trying to put out a sexual vibe, but I get my fair share of phone numbers when all I’m trying to convey is politeness, while still being authoratative.

> [@Rbt](#):
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> Bear in mind I have a warped mind…
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> My imagination can be strange…

Welcome to my world. 😉

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**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 8:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-hear-sex/412/60 "2007-09-16T20:11:22Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> Now Now Maybe it was all you 😉
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> Tisha

You’re right, Tisha! It’s 95% me and 5% the signature memory!

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