# Do you keep pheromones a secret or tell people? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 20, 2009, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626 "2009-09-20T00:06:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![FunMike86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/8e7dd6/32.png) [@FunMike86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FunMike86)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/1 "2009-09-20T00:06:38Z")
I’m thinking if less people use them, we will have more of an advantage so its best to keep quite about pheros. Agree/disagree? ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/2 "2009-09-20T01:35:24Z")
This is a popular question and has been asked several times a year as long as this forum has existed. Usually a long thread… ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/3 "2009-09-20T01:43:29Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > This is a popular question and has been asked several times a year as long as this forum has existed. Usually a long thread… but no answer from you? LOL I’ve told a few friends… people who I actually think would benefit from this type of knowledge themselves. ---
**Author:** ![hohohate](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hohohate/32/2429_2.png) [@hohohate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hohohate)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 2:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/4 "2009-09-20T02:42:51Z")
I’ve told my best friend who goes to another college about them, but not that I use them. But anyone else I don’t tell because i think that it would ruin the effect of them, and they might be suspicious of their feelings around you. But other than him, one other person knows that I use them, and she’s the one who showed me. I think the real case you should tell someone is love. ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/5 "2009-09-20T03:28:03Z")
I prefer to keep them secret because I don’t need to many people “figuring me out”. I’ve sprayed a friend down with pheros but I didn’t tell him what it really was. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/6 "2009-09-20T03:31:29Z")
> [@Reclipse](#): > > but no answer from you? LOL > > I’ve told a few friends… people who I actually think would benefit from this type of knowledge themselves. Over the past 6 years, I’ve written pages on this topic! We explored every angle and nuance. Not much else to say. All those old archives live on forever in google. Nevertheless I adhere to the “don’t ask; don’t tell” approach. Realize in the workplace their use could lead to sexual harassment charges, lawsuits, termination and the like if any of your moan wearin’ horndoggin’ gets out. ---
**Author:** ![KnowledgeIsPower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/knowledgeispower/32/1201_2.png) [@KnowledgeIsPower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/KnowledgeIsPower)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/7 "2009-09-20T06:49:02Z")
I’ve only told one friend who attends a different college then me and he began using them too. But other than that I keep it to myself. I don’t want to have people thinking I’m “only” getting the girls because of the -mones especially when they don’t understand how they work. ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 10:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/8 "2009-09-20T10:10:20Z")
I’ve only told a few friends… and these are people I trust and have helped to spark their interest in -mones. My experiences coupled with the vast expanse of experiences detailed on this forum basically sealed the deal for them. These are people that I personally feel may be able to benefit from the use of the -mones… which is why I shared the knowledge. Everyone else… that’s on them to figure it out. ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 4:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/9 "2009-09-20T16:37:43Z")
Yeah in my personal life _absolutely_ _no one_ _knows_ that I wear [pheromones](https://a314.com/), I generally prefer to keep my use of pheromones as my secret “edge” over the competition. In fact I see little reason to tell anyone about my use of pheromones, I mean the second I tell someone I can no longer judge that persons reactions to any pheromones that I wear around them as genuine. I mean they might play up the reactions, or they might consciously or subconsciously fight their reactions to disprove the effectiveness of pheromones. Additionally since I never quite know exactly how anyone is going to react I’d rather play things safe than to jeopardize a friendship/relationship over someone’s misunderstanding about the nature of these molecules I have a propensity to spray onto myself. ---
**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 5:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/10 "2009-09-20T17:35:38Z")
I told one of my previous girlfriends. She was in a different scene than I, and had a different view on it. She thought it was pretty cool, and no big deal. Then again, this woman was very understanding and had an open mind. At the time I was completely secret about it, and had only told one or two friends. The next night I went to a party with her, and she introduced me to her friend. “This guy is really into perfumes.” she said to me. Then she said to her friend “You too should talk because my boyfriend uses pheromones!!!” I was aghast at first. I had tried to make it clear not to tell anyone, and yet she went ahead and told people anyways. Luckily this was a seperate scene than my own. The fetish scene. Everyone there is kind of weird anyways. This experience led me to think that maybe it’s not too bad for other people to know, perhaps I’m being too uptight about it. On the fetish scene everyone has these sorts of secrets… business men getting whipped and spanked then going off to run multi million dollar companies. Yet recently, her new boyfriend came up to me and asked about pheromones. “Do they work?” And then again on facebook her friend messaged me “Are you the guy with the pheromones???” ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/11 "2009-09-20T17:59:29Z")
Keep it mum, as a general rule. Since I see women in their late 40’s, I sometimes give them mixes with cops, oxytocin, and TAH in them to enhance our shared experience. I don’t go into details though. ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/12 "2009-09-20T18:08:46Z")
> [@evolver](#): > > The next night I went to a party with her, and she introduced me to her friend. “This guy is really into perfumes.” she said to me. Then she said to her friend “You too should talk because my boyfriend uses pheromones!!!” I was aghast at first. I had tried to make it clear not to tell anyone, and yet she went ahead and told people anyways. Another great reason not to tell anyone… because you never know if the person you tell can keep a secret. I can’t count how many times I have told someone something in confidence and then they proceed go around blabbing it to everyone. ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2009, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/13 "2009-09-20T21:37:08Z")
Yea I’m keeping it a secret so far… I’d rather not have all of my friends using the same stuff as me 🙂 That and I could see some people, girls especially, thinking bad of it… ---
**Author:** ![lukus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a88e4f/32.png) [@lukus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lukus)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2009, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/14 "2009-09-21T21:55:39Z")
One thing that crosses my mind. If pheromones can be used to attract the opposit sex, some what seduce them or make them do things they normally wouldnt, if that action results in sex then how does pheromones compare to something such as the date rape drug? Infact, I am interested in peoples opinions on this… I know thats slightly off topic, but i thought it was similar to the subject slightly… Personally I have not told anyone really. Not that I’ve really had the chance it’s a strange topic to bring up and discussand then mention your use of it. The reaction from your peers could so easily vary. ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2009, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/15 "2009-09-21T21:58:20Z")
I thought the same things… however it’s not really like that at all.. It wont make someone do something they wouldn’t ever think about doing normally… it can help others and yourself relax… but girls wont be drooling over you when you start to use them… and they certainly don’t do anything close to what one would define as a date rape drug. ---
**Author:** ![Turbo2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/cab0a1/32.png) [@Turbo2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Turbo2)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2009, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/16 "2009-09-22T05:53:15Z")
i havent told anyone anything its my special secret plus i have enough problems getting women i dont need to contend with anyone else using them lol ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2009, 7:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-keep-pheromones-a-secret-or-tell-people/32626/17 "2009-09-22T07:47:15Z")
> [@giantb](#): > > i havent told anyone anything its my special secret plus i have enough problems getting women i dont need to contend with anyone else using them lol Competition from mone users is the least of your problems. So a few losers gain a little edge with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) or NPA. They’re still essentially the same old but slightly enhanced. There are a lot of guys whom got it going on with some combination of money, education, status and looks. A few sprays ain’t gonna level the playing field if the total package ain’t jiving. Actually I’ve found the main advantage to mone use is not “getting women” but increased sociality, easier networking and enhanced status. Makes business relationships smoother and hence success easier if you got your ducks in a row. And a successful professional and social life means women automatically start dropping out of trees on your dumbass.