# Does she like me? Or just the pheros? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 19, 2009, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098 "2009-05-19T04:11:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![johno5](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19b73/32.png) [@johno5](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johno5)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/1 "2009-05-19T04:11:23Z")
Say I’m using a combination of [synthetic pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) at a club. I meet a girl who is attracted to me, we chat, exchange phone numbers, etc. We go on a few dates with me applying my pheromones each time and we have fun. We begin a long-term relationship. How do I know if she’s actually into me, or just being attracted by the pheromone scent? If I stop using synthetic pheromones, will she stop beign attracted to me? I’m probably overestimating the affect of the pheros, but still, I can’t help but wonder. Any thoughts/experience? ---
**Author:** ![tfer15](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfer15/32/711_2.png) [@tfer15](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfer15)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 4:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/2 "2009-05-19T04:14:24Z")
well as it has been said countless times: pheros only enhance the person/character of the wearer. it is you who eventually portrays your own person/character. so they may have helped, but i doubt they created a long term relationship. if she only liked you because you smell good, it wouldnt make sense why she would want to see you many times. get what im sayin? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 9:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/3 "2009-05-19T09:04:10Z")
Its you. Mones just enhance and influence. They wont change who you are. If a person dosnt like you or feel even a tiny bit attracted naturally to you they wont respond to the signals. You have to consider all the other factors of attraction. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Lowtek](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lowtek/32/1788_2.png) [@Lowtek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lowtek)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/4 "2009-05-19T12:52:04Z")
Been down this path recently myself. Be yourself, good people will attract the same . . . The strong signals and effects she initially broadcast are now settled - there’s mutual attraction without the pheros at this point. Have fun. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 12:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/5 "2009-05-19T12:53:35Z")
LOL. What they said. It’s you. ---
**Author:** ![johno5](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19b73/32.png) [@johno5](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johno5)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 2:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/6 "2009-05-19T14:59:56Z")
Thanks for the replies 🙂 Sorry I’m new to this 😃 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/7 "2009-05-19T18:28:00Z")
> [@tfer15](#): > > well as it has been said countless times: pheros only enhance the person/character of the wearer. it is you who eventually portrays your own person/character. > > so they may have helped, but i doubt they created a long term relationship. > > if she only liked you because you smell good, it wouldnt make sense why she would want to see you many times. > > get what im sayin? Great answer. Couldn’t have said it any better 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![hangin420](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/35a633/32.png) [@hangin420](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hangin420)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/8 "2009-05-19T20:37:28Z")
Funny thing … I’m with this girl right now who I started going out with using [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) so I’ve been through this too. So I continue wearing it while we date and about a month in, needless to say … she accuses me of “wearing pheromones or something! 😮 Because … she feels so chemically attracted to me like whenever I’m around she is just happy in a different way.” Before she explained herself I thought to myself oh shit oh shit I’ve been caught. 😃 It would be interesting to BS your way through what your bottle of TUTH is. During this time I was wearing mixes and a variety of pheros including IS, IG, CTTM, IFM, AMMO, TUTH, mx292. I used to worry … What will happen when I wake up tomorrow morning with no more pheros!!! It turned all to be all good. She likes you. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/9 "2009-05-19T22:12:33Z")
> [@hangin420](#): > > Funny thing … > > I’m with this girl right now who I started going out with using pheromones so I’ve been through this too. > > So I continue wearing it while we date and about a month in, needless to say … she accuses me of “wearing pheromones or something! 😮 Because … she feels so chemically attracted to me like whenever I’m around she is just happy in a different way.” The only thing to beware of is that pheromones can massively accelerate the natural course of a relationship. You can have been going out with a girl for four months, and it might feel to you, to her and to others like you must have known each other for years. I think this is because it eases the need for testing on her part. And of course as she feels more secure, you start to behave better also. So if you’re not careful, you risk breaking a lot of hearts if you are not ready to settle. Even if when you meet she thinks she is not ready to settle down, after knowing you for a while (provided you really do have the right underlying qualities down) there is a chance she may not want to let you go having found the (close to) ideal man for her. So bear this in mind, particularly when using androsterone-based pheromones such as A314. ---
**Author:** ![hangin420](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/35a633/32.png) [@hangin420](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hangin420)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/10 "2009-05-19T23:48:47Z")
Thanks PheroQuirk. Just last night I joked about breaking up with her if she didn’t study to pass her CPA exams and she was very distraught and devastated at the thought. We’ve known each other for a long time but have only been going out for less than 3 months. I really like her and all but it scared me because I’m not ready to settle. 😕 Not looking forward to breaking her heart in particular. Has anyone tested [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) during breakups? Maybe IFM eases the pain. Or lots of IJ will show her that she’s been wrong all along. > [@PheroQuirk](#): > > The only thing to beware of is that pheromones can massively accelerate the natural course of a relationship. You can have been going out with a girl for four months, and it might feel to you, to her and to others like you must have known each other for years. I think this is because it eases the need for testing on her part. And of course as she feels more secure, you start to behave better also. > > So if you’re not careful, you risk breaking a lot of hearts if you are not ready to settle. Even if when you meet she thinks she is not ready to settle down, after knowing you for a while (provided you really do have the right underlying qualities down) there is a chance she may not want to let you go having found the (close to) ideal man for her. > > So bear this in mind, particularly when using androsterone-based pheromones such as A314. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 6:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-she-like-me-or-just-the-pheros/29098/11 "2009-06-04T06:40:52Z")
Funny you should say that: [My Girlfriend broke up with me.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-girlfriend-broke-up-with-me/27074)