# Doing something for myself on my birthday! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 24, 2013, 7:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/doing-something-for-myself-on-my-birthday/60084 "2013-09-24T07:22:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![moonplum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonplum/32/940_2.png) [@moonplum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonplum)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2013, 7:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/doing-something-for-myself-on-my-birthday/60084/1 "2013-09-24T07:22:24Z")
Hey all! I’m Annie, I’m 22 (as of today!) and simply put, I am looking to amplify my social life. 🙂 The past year has been a bit of a nightmare socially and academically…Following a series of health issues I had to quit college and move back to the town where I went to high school. I’m not originally from here, and when I transferred here all those years ago, I somehow managed to make no lasting friendships, so my network back here is pretty dismal. I’m establishing myself pretty well, though; I’ve got a job and an apartment and a couple people I can call casual friends, but I know I can do better. The town I live in has a college with ~16k students…that’s a lot of prospective friends! I’ve been poking around this forum for a couple months now. I’m pretty strapped for cash lately so I am hesitant to invest a lot of money in something like this even though I’m not necessarily, but I could definitely see this becoming a hobby for me eventually if I get some results. Even a slight confidence booster would be a godsend. Definitely considering [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Sexiness B (as opposed to A). I am 5’11 and I think a lot of guys (also, peers in general) find that intimidating, so I’m wondering if B could perhaps soften one’s overall image of me? I’ve been told that I come off as a sweetheart, so I _think_ B would be the more compatible choice for me. I’m very ready to have a guy in my life. We’ll see! Alrighty! This is pretty long as is…Wish me a bit of birthday luck! I’m so excited to start this! ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2013, 8:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/doing-something-for-myself-on-my-birthday/60084/2 "2013-09-24T08:06:43Z")
Hello and welcome to the forums, sorry you’ve been down on your health! How’d you come to find us? I personally can’t comment on the A and B as I’m not female and don’t like to comment on things I haven’t tried, I know the ladies around here love both though for various reasons. To soften yourself up I’d toss in 2-3 sprays of Instant Shine and then 2 of either [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) or Instant Honesty (I’d lean towards Instant Openness for initial meetings, once you’ve got a few hours with a specific person over a few encounters then I personally like to move to Instant Honesty, although I do like Instant Honesty over openness for some settings like my men’s groups at Church and just worship service). ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2013, 10:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/doing-something-for-myself-on-my-birthday/60084/3 "2013-09-24T10:11:32Z")
Hello Moon / Annie! The two mones that drive Sexiness A and B are pretty powerful and unusual. They don’t act quite how you might think. It really depends if you are naturally a kitten and that is the image you want to project. Some are naturally tigers and want to let the tiger out. They want to change perception. Some are perceived as kittens and want an alter ego. If you think yourself more kittenish and want to project that, **B** is for you. 🙂 > [@Instant Sexiness A vs B dilemma! :S](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-a-vs-b-dilemma-s/44483): > > I would like some help choosing between Instant Sexiness A and B for my first order. stuck_out_tongue I can only really afford two To-Go bottles at the moment (boooo), so the other one is going to be [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) X2. After reading the usual share of IS/A vs IS/B posts, B appealed to me more than A, but I think my personality is closer to A. I don’t know if I fit the ‘alpha female’ type, but I get quite competitive and I like to take charge. I’m loud, outgoing, talkative and am described as… > [@Any guys ever been exposed to Instant Sexiness A?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-guys-ever-been-exposed-to-instant-sexiness-a/38055/4): > > My friend had some IS/A when we lived in Savannah together. She and I are friends, and she’s not my type for more than friends, but whenever she would wear it, I knew because I would start feeling this odd feeling in my chest (which I have since come to know is a deep form of sexual arousal that is not physical, but I guess you could say “pre-physical”). I also found myself wanting to do things with (and to) her that I normally did not want to do. Depending on how much she wore and how long I… Me wearing A314 with a bit of TAL makes girls aggressive, but anything over 7.5 mcg makes me weepy and emotional. Girls can wear far more and are usually confident/spunky. Go figure! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2013, 4:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/doing-something-for-myself-on-my-birthday/60084/4 "2013-09-25T16:05:07Z")
Welcome moon, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) a chance. Your gc was issued!