# Early 30s N00b Here

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/early-30s-n00b-here/59026>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [May 18, 2013, 3:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/early-30s-n00b-here/59026 "2013-05-18T03:09:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![INeedAnswers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/919ad9/32.png) [@INeedAnswers](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/INeedAnswers)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2013, 3:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/early-30s-n00b-here/59026/1 "2013-05-18T03:09:40Z")

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Hi Gurus,

I am a South-Indian male and am a pretty good conversationalist with an athletic body and rugged facial features with a dimple on my cheeks(some conversations had been entirely on them, so had to mention this 😛 ).

I make my teammates and girlfriends split with laughter and am a good rest-on-the-arm kind of a guy.

But, even when I make the moves towards it, the women/girls think I am making them feel secure. But, nothing happens ever. Looks like I am friendzoned forever 🙂

Can gurus here offer any suggestions on how and what I should use the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to make a good impact?(I have already started my research)

Thanks in advance.  
INA.

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**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2013, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/early-30s-n00b-here/59026/2 "2013-05-18T03:39:52Z")

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Welcome here,

Rapport/attraction ratio off, and too much attraction of a specific kind.

For one, I think you may or may not make the women laugh too much. Too much means they’ll not think youre a cool guy who can make them laugh once in a while, but “not a normal” guy who does nothing else (meaning you cant have a serious conversation). But I cant tell without observing a conversation of yours.  
Then the ratio, making them feel secure and at ease is part of rapport (comfort). Too much of it (and not enough attraction) and theyll think the conversation was nice, youre nice, but youre not a potential mate ==\> Friendzone.

Work on it if you think I hit the right point…

No suggestions on products from my side before I know your origin and the age range and origin of your targets.

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**Author:** ![INeedAnswers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/919ad9/32.png) [@INeedAnswers](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/INeedAnswers)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2013, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/early-30s-n00b-here/59026/3 "2013-05-18T03:54:50Z")

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Hmmm Mysterion, you have given a new school of thought.

Will consider and try to implement the points today in the pub that we are going to blast into.

But, I am flirtatious and occasionally project my views in the midst of the conversations. May be, they get too tipsy to notice that in the first place.

Will come back with a few notes tomorrow.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2013, 2:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/early-30s-n00b-here/59026/4 "2013-05-29T14:22:34Z")

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Welcome Ineedanswers,

This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will.

I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie.

We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually.

It takes a great deal and I am back logged.

I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to

In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service.

Thank you for giving pheromones a chance.

Your gc was issued!