# Easy times with a hard girl? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 18, 2009, 1:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/easy-times-with-a-hard-girl/31648 "2009-08-18T01:03:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![stonkeys](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f19dbf/32.png) [@stonkeys](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stonkeys)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/easy-times-with-a-hard-girl/31648/1 "2009-08-18T01:03:04Z")
Hey everyone, Sorry my first post is a question but I’m off to a party on Thursday and could do with some advice on what to wear around a certain girl. She’s not on particularly good terms with me but I would like things to go as easily/smoothly as possible. I.e. nothing overtly sexual etc, just something simply so she feels she can talk to me and would, perhaps, be able to gloss over past indiscretions, if only for the sake of the night. I’m lucky enough to have some [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) lying around and assumed that’d be my first point of call but I’m unsure what else to throw in. I’m wary of Openness/Honesty, lest unwanted true feelings come out and they’re not what I want to hear, but think maybe: 4x IFM 2x Instant Gentlemen 2x Instant Openness 1x Instant Honesty 2/3x Instant Shine? A drop or two of P93? I should point out I’ve not much experience with her and pheromones but I’ve worn Ammo (not much; 1 shot, 2 at most) around her and it seemed to make her annoyed and very disinterested, to the point of blanking. I’m 23, as is she, and neither of us is particulary outgoing. All ideas much appreciated! Thanks, Mike ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 1:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/easy-times-with-a-hard-girl/31648/2 "2009-08-18T01:36:54Z")
1 spray [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) to upper chest, 4 sprays Instant Shine … 2 to each side of neck , 4-6 sprays of Instant Openness apply to each forearm and to back of neck, and you might add some P93 to base of neck. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![stonkeys](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f19dbf/32.png) [@stonkeys](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stonkeys)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/easy-times-with-a-hard-girl/31648/3 "2009-08-18T02:04:46Z")
Thanks man, much appreciated. You wouldn’t use IFM at all? ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 4:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/easy-times-with-a-hard-girl/31648/4 "2009-08-18T04:52:21Z")
I have not tried that product, but is supposed to put the girls at ease. Kinda cast you as a non threatening friend, if that is your plan it would not hurt to add it. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 5:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/easy-times-with-a-hard-girl/31648/5 "2009-08-18T05:25:32Z")
I find IFM works best on women with PMS and extreme moodiness. I’ve used it a lot and found little to no results with emotionally stable women during their “normal” days. I only wear it when I know my GF is on the rag or just about to bleed. Helps bigtime. Otherwise I have to disappear for 4 or 5 days.