# eclipsemodified Needs our advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 23, 2009, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326 "2009-04-23T21:53:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/1 "2009-04-23T21:53:54Z")
Asian male seeking advice about how to attract a young Asian Female with a boyfriend. Any help would be appreciated šŸ˜› ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 10:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/2 "2009-04-23T22:32:28Z")
Do you mean ā€œstealā€ her from another guy? Or is he looking for a threesome, i.e., 2 guys and a woman, for a little fun? Kinda depends on the situation. Is she in love with the BF? Then thatā€™s a hard sell. I wouldnā€™t bother. But if sheā€™d treading water with some loser until a fine sugardaddy shows, might be a go. The threesome might be possible, especially if theyā€™ve been together for a long time and sheā€™d getting bored (or the guy is bi). ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 11:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/3 "2009-04-23T23:30:06Z")
If your looking to steal away another manā€™s girl hereā€™s my advice: Donā€™t bother. There are plenty of amazing women out there who are completely single, all you have to do it go out and look. If you truly care for this girl you wouldnā€™t intentionally inflict heartache on to her just for your own selfish want and desire. If the guy she is with is not right for her then the odds are that theyā€™ll break up sooner or later, and when that happens itā€™s fair game for you to swoop in at the appropriate time. Men who intentionally set out to steal other peopleā€™s girlfriends are selfish bottom feeders, donā€™t be that man, you really donā€™t need that sort of karmaā€¦ take the high road. But if on the other hand your looking for a threesome like Geogogi suggested, good luck with thatā€¦ all I can suggest is lots of alcohol! šŸ˜› ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/4 "2009-04-23T23:45:40Z")
And why did Steve have to post the request??šŸ˜• ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/5 "2009-04-23T23:57:31Z")
Not sure I can help with that but Iā€™ll look into it.Dunno maybe we just didnā€™t notice eclipses post? Also if he can take the girl from the guy then one or the other of them might be better off boys. Iā€™m not here to judge anyone and weā€™re all competing with someone some how. In my experience relationships fail when someone isnā€™t having their needs met. I know Iā€™m a young doll but ya know just sayin if shes happy she isnā€™t likely to go anywhere.Besides maybe if we can help him he might meet another girl without a boyfriend? Just a thought. ---
**Author:** ![matthie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5ac83/32.png) [@matthie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/matthie)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/6 "2009-04-23T23:57:38Z")
> [@SoulCreator](#): > > But if on the other hand your looking for a threesome like Geogogi suggested, good luck with thatā€¦ all I can suggest is lots of alcohol! šŸ˜› and donā€™t be the butt in between! šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/7 "2009-04-23T23:58:41Z")
Tequila is good for that. šŸ˜› Steve-o baby Iā€™m not finding this user where is the post? ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/8 "2009-04-24T00:18:04Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > Tequila is good for that. > > šŸ˜› > > Steve-o baby Iā€™m not finding this user where is the post? Perhaps the question was posed to Steve in a PM. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 12:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/9 "2009-04-24T00:38:48Z")
> [@SoulCreator](#): > > Perhaps the question was posed to Steve in a PM. I did a little detective work. Apparently he doesnā€™t know how to post to a forum.šŸ™„ Steve is going to teach him. ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/10 "2009-04-24T00:41:21Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > I did a little detective work. Apparently he doesnā€™t know how to post to a forum.šŸ™„ Steve is going to teach him. ohhh..Lol explains why i canā€™t find the user name anywhere šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 12:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/11 "2009-04-24T00:46:33Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > ohhh..Lol explains why i canā€™t find the user name anywhere šŸ™‚ Look in ā€œMember Listā€, He joined yesterday. ---
**Author:** ![dapg01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@dapg01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dapg01)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 6:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/12 "2009-04-24T06:22:45Z")
Although I donā€™t think he should chase the girl if she has a boyfriend due to the trouble it might bring hereā€™s my pheromonal advice: In my experience, asians love the socials! Iā€™m trying to remember what it was that really affected (in a positive way) a Japanese girl I hardly know. I think it was Come Talk to Me mix 2ā€¦ If his target is asians, I would say definitely go with CTTM or the nols. Shine should be good too. If his target is girls of other races Iā€™d say wear a bit of -none. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is versatile because not only is it well rounded, but it is easy to steer in a certain direction. If he is mostly hanging out with asians, but doesnā€™t want to rule letā€™s say black women, then ammo is great because he can wear it and lighten it up with a bit of -nol, therefore being attractive to everyone. Iā€™m speculating, but I think that asians are able to wear higher amounts of -none without ODā€™ing, but once again I also have read that asian women donā€™t respond as positively to high levels of -none. I guess eclipsemodified is going to have to experiment! Try to get advice from other users like Gegogi, who is asian as well and has great experience on wearing lots of -none. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 8:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/13 "2009-04-24T08:51:02Z")
This will only cause heartache of his own, you can not fool the heartā€¦ only deceive it for a short time. You can only plant a seed, she decides if it will germinate. Itā€™s not all badā€¦ but I donā€™t recommend this. We have a saying in Texas, ā€œJust because there is cactus everywhere, it does not mean you have to sit on itā€ Just because this girl has you in a twirl, does not mean you have to go after her. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/14 "2009-04-24T09:32:57Z")
> [@](#): > > Tequila is good for that. Problem with Tequila is itā€™s more fun than the girl (or guy) and doesnā€™t make it hurt to pee a few days laterā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 6:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/15 "2009-04-24T18:05:30Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Problem with Tequila is itā€™s more fun than the girl (or guy) and doesnā€™t make it hurt to pee a few days laterā€¦ Are you on the Ishine? Youā€™ve been cracking me up lately, even more so than usual šŸ˜›šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![eclipsemodified](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/96bed5/32.png) [@eclipsemodified](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/eclipsemodified)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2009, 1:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eclipsemodified-needs-our-advice/28326/16 "2009-04-25T13:48:26Z")
steve the great/kindheart(haha),thank u(told ya, canā€™t never thank u enough)for posting my question on the forum, how considerate of u, but the general bad responses is expected, actually my situation is that the girl that i like r staying with her bf cuz sheā€™s used to it, i have inside info that they are not affectionate toward each other and the guy doesnā€™t treat her well, this is a typical Taiwanese relationship, two people are often together running on empty love, they r just used to each other, especially someone around her age, sheā€™s 30, sheā€™s have enough experience to know that what tw man r like once the ā€œromanticā€ period at the first of the relationship ends, so she thinks changing a bf wonā€™t make much difference, but sheā€™s wrong about that if she thinks that way of me, anyways, she spend most of time working cuz she and her bf r doing poorly economically, soā€¦, but if someday (IF) she became my girl, i will tell her that she donā€™t have to work if she choose not to, i will tell her just enjoy life, just do whatever she likes, sheā€™s really a nice girl, she deserves it, i am trying to be the prince in the cinderalla story, the problem is, girl her age donā€™t believe in such stories anymore. Blahā€¦Blahā€¦Blah, sorry for all my babblings. The main point of this message is to thank you again, and letting u know that i think i am getting much more familiar with this forum, so u donā€™t have to waste time to do a teaching video, but i will be pretty busy these few days, so for those who answered the post u posted for me and/or leave message on my space, if u saw this message, or not, i will try to get back to u as soon as i can. AND FINALLY I WANNA SAYā€¦STEVE ROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOCKSSSSSSS!!!