# Effective Flirting Techniques **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 25, 2006, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450 "2006-06-25T17:23:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2006, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/41 "2006-07-02T16:38:25Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > actually, i was thinkin more of a party and all you hotties are invited…who’s in ? rsvp, ya know. we are going to study “flirting techniques” so smile for the camera! catlord17 and i have to determine what kind of popsicle we will be serving first… it aids in the flirting…unless there are any other ideas??? > heres the invite: > ITS A FORUM PARTY > where: on the “effective flirting techniques” thread > when: yet to be determined > why: to watch us all flirt relentlessly in order to step up our game! > what to bring: maybe post a pic on the forum? we’ll call that a side-dish > CANT BE CLOTHING OPTIONAL… **unless MHarris says so…** > **OKAY..WHO ALLS COMMIN’??? lol 😮 🙂 …IM WAITING…🙄** You’re right. I’m going to put my foot down. Nudity is definitely NOT optional. You can’t trust clothed women, anyway… They’re hiding _something_… I know it 😉 I’m certain women feel the same way about men. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2006, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/42 "2006-07-02T16:41:29Z")
> [@MHarris](#): > > You’re right. I’m going to put my foot down. > > Nudity is definitely NOT optional. > > You can’t trust clothed women, anyway… They’re hiding _something_… I know it 😉 > > I’m certain women feel the same way about men. humor the idea, for a moment, that everyone was bored at the same time, came to our thread party, and posted naked pics. 🙂 help me 🙂 i cant help smiling 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2006, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/43 "2006-07-03T13:13:18Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > humor the idea, for a moment, that everyone was bored at the same time, came to our thread party, and posted naked pics. 🙂 help me 🙂 i cant help smiling 🙂 aww forget the naked pic part. geesh. how bout bathing suits? ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2006, 6:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/44 "2006-07-04T06:36:34Z")
lol You’re so funny, Lor. It makes me want to start making popsicles in strange flavors for some reason. 😕😃 Licorice ginger anyone? lol ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2006, 3:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/45 "2006-07-04T15:29:56Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > lol You’re so funny, Lor. It makes me want to start making popsicles in strange flavors for some reason. 😕 😃 > > Licorice ginger anyone? lol i wonder what it would be like to get all us [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) users under one roof… all competing to be smelled above the rest…HERE HE/SHE COMES,MR/MS PHEROMONE AMERICA… seriously, im not convinced anyone could drive home after that, our heads would be spinning. does anyone think it would end in an orgy? im not being crude, but how long can anyone stay turned on around other turned on people for?☹ ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2006, 7:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/46 "2006-07-05T07:01:00Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > i wonder what it would be like to get all us pheromone users under one roof… all competing to be smelled above the rest…HERE HE/SHE COMES,MR/MS PHEROMONE AMERICA… > seriously, im not convinced anyone could drive home after that, our heads would be spinning. does anyone think it would end in an orgy? im not being crude, but how long can anyone stay turned on around other turned on people for?☹ I can stay turned on around other people… the whole time. I did it all through high school. lol I think I remember hearing about a gathering like that, that actually did take place. I don’t think it ended in an orgy, but that’s 'cause they weren’t using Androtics products, or any of my Seduction mixes. lol ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2006, 7:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/47 "2006-07-05T07:03:17Z")
> [@Rbt](#): > > Would you two PLEASE get a room! > > (just give me a minutre to set up the hidden cameras first… for security reasons, of course.) Hidden cameras? Looks like you win, Lor - this one’s in the dark. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 12:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/48 "2006-07-06T00:15:08Z")
you know, i realized today a flirting technique that may not always be planned, but definately ranks up there with the best… niceness. i mean, people that hold the door for you, not because your a specific gender, but because its nice. helping you pick up something you dropped. sometimes making a statement because something uncool just happened and acknowledging “hey- i saw, that was uncool”, lol. i actually did this thing where once a week i bought a coffee for the person behind me in the drive-thru… someone different everytime, but this one person did end up giving me his number,who knew? niceness opens the door to an unpredictable “holy sheet i just wanted to help but damn your hot!” situation, and the kicker is that the person your helping knows it wasnt a planned thing and thinks your pretty cool for taking the time. IShine makes me wishy-washy i think.🙄 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 5:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/49 "2006-07-06T05:45:33Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > you know, i realized today a flirting technique that may not always be planned, but definately ranks up there with the best… > niceness. i mean, people that hold the door for you, not because your a specific gender, but because its nice. helping you pick up something you dropped. sometimes making a statement because something uncool just happened and acknowledging “hey- i saw, that was uncool”, lol. i actually did this thing where once a week i bought a coffee for the person behind me in the drive-thru… someone different everytime, but this one person did end up giving me his number,who knew? niceness opens the door to an unpredictable “holy sheet i just wanted to help but damn your hot!” situation, and the kicker is that the person your helping knows it wasnt a planned thing and thinks your pretty cool for taking the time. IShine makes me wishy-washy i think.🙄 Uh huh. And how long has IShine been forcing you to do this? lol Actually, being exceptional in courtesy, kindness and thoughtfulness is always a good idea, and your observation is also quite inventive. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Rob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/838e76/32.png) [@Rob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rob)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/50 "2006-07-06T10:09:54Z")
Placing your standards too high is just simply unrealistic and is just fantasizing. Having fantasies have their place elsewhere; so the smiling technique is a good idea. Also on the thing about “niceness” is not necessarily a good idea, depending on how you take it, as in the friendly smile. You can be a nice guy or a nice girl, but if you are too nice then that comes off as unnattractive. Too much of one thing is not good, and an example of that is some person who acts way too goofy or smiles way too much.. nothing “sexy” about that. lol. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/51 "2006-07-06T19:41:00Z")
> [@Rob](#): > > Placing your standards too high is just simply unrealistic and is just fantasizing. Having fantasies have their place elsewhere; so the smiling technique is a good idea. **Also on the thing about “niceness” is not necessarily a good idea, depending on how you take it** , as in the friendly smile. > > **You can be a nice guy or a nice girl, but if you are too nice then that comes off as unnattractive**. Too much of one thing is not good, and an example of that is some person who acts way too goofy or smiles way too much.. nothing “sexy” about that. lol. you know, i thought i just read a post you made about head games being uncool? i was speaking here about being \ ***genuine** , \*not **overthinking your actions based on how someone might percieve it**. fake sucks. i could care less if someone thinks im goofy or smiles too much, hell i laugh wayyyy too much, and trying to blend is too much effort. if it comes from the heart- no matter what it is- thats **hot**. ---
**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/52 "2006-07-06T20:28:55Z")
I think though Lor, we are at the stage where we ask ourselves what the HELL is the point of mind/head games? I actually find it highly amusing to sit with “The Man” at the bar in the pub, just as it’s getting near closing time/heading clubwards time, and watching the games some under 30’s play… “The Man” (he’s 32) has the routine down pat with many of the women. Him to me: “Oh..oh Ail, here she goes..” Me: “I see it..” Him: “Yup..here it comes…affected giggle, wide-eyed stare, touching chin…Hmm.. Eyes down..OH..quick, unsubtle hair toss AND…” Me: “Bingo! Cue too much Fake “coy” laughter, all the time touching his shoulder and /or waist. Man in bag. Time to go, hon?” We then hi-five each other, and make our way over to the club to watch it all unfold..again.. 🙂 I never ever played those games, even at the age of the majority of these girls (21-24) but if they work, and they can even be BOTHERED, they are not doing any harm. Just was never my scene at ALL. I hate fake. It gives me bile. We aren’t in any way repressed over here - sexually or otherwise, by the way - so maybe y’all should come over here for a holiday. 🙂 Ail 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Rob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/838e76/32.png) [@Rob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rob)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/53 "2006-07-06T20:59:40Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > you know, i thought i just read a post you made about head games being uncool? i was speaking here about being \ ***genuine** , \*not **overthinking your actions based on how someone might percieve it**. fake sucks. i could care less if someone thinks im goofy or smiles too much, hell i laugh wayyyy too much, and trying to blend is too much effort. if it comes from the heart- no matter what it is- thats **hot**. To the majority of people, yes. The way I see it, is it is not about being fake. Its about being considerate enough to pace people and achieve rapport, or at the least just meeting them halfway at their level. You do not have to be fake to monitor how much of yourself you put out. Its just a self-control thing, like in some cases they’ll teach you in NLP or Stage Hypnosis and that can be a good thing. Feel free to laugh your heart out though, that is also a good thing. I’m talking about people who may come off as too strong in certain ways. ---
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2006, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/54 "2006-07-06T21:46:28Z")
> [@Ail](#): > > We aren’t in any way repressed over here - sexually or otherwise, by the way - so maybe y’all should come over here for a holiday. 🙂 > > Ail 🙂 You have me convinced Ail, I need a holiday. Badly. I have always wanted to visit Scotland.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PheroWizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/858c86/32.png) [@PheroWizard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroWizard)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2006, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/55 "2006-07-07T00:30:08Z")
Lor, The following article won’t provide you with any attitudes, methods, or monologues that are “guaranteed to have men/women falling at your feet.” Most of what is in it the vast majority of us already know. Nearly all of the points covered are included in some way in just about all of the various seduction techniques that are out there. They’re just presented a bit more humanely here. (Perhaps because it appears that the primary author is a woman.) The first time I started reading it, I stopped. I was thinking “Hell!, I know all this already! This is LAME!” Then I took the time to re-read it carefully, and a few of the things in there looked worth reading over again a couple of times. There’s nothing magical here. Nothing included that “…no man/woman can possibly resist…” Just a helpful little guide for people who want to interact with people of the opposite sex. But if just one single thing in this article can help your next flirtation to be a successful one, it’ll be worth the time it took to read it. 😉 [http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html](http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html) PheroWizard 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2006, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/56 "2006-07-07T00:37:16Z")
> [@Ail](#): > > I think though Lor, we are at the stage where we ask ourselves what the HELL is the point of mind/head games? > > I actually find it highly amusing to sit with “The Man” at the bar in the pub, just as it’s getting near closing time/heading clubwards time, and watching the games some under 30’s play… > > “The Man” (he’s 32) has the routine down pat with many of the women. > > Him to me: “Oh..oh Ail, here she goes..” > > Me: “I see it..” > > Him: “Yup..here it comes…affected giggle, wide-eyed stare, touching chin…Hmm.. Eyes down..OH..quick, unsubtle hair toss AND…” > > Me: “Bingo! Cue too much Fake “coy” laughter, all the time touching his shoulder and /or waist. Man in bag. Time to go, hon?” > > We then hi-five each other, and make our way over to the club to watch it all unfold..again.. 🙂 > > I never ever played those games, even at the age of the majority of these girls (21-24) but if they work, and they can even be BOTHERED, they are not doing any harm. > > Just was never my scene at ALL. I hate fake. It gives me bile. > > We aren’t in any way repressed over here - sexually or otherwise, by the way - so maybe y’all should come over here for a holiday. 🙂 > > Ail 🙂 thats hilarious. your lucky to have the sense of humor in common. and it is so true, you can peg it a mile away. i watched that scene for years due to my job. i love predicting. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2006, 12:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/57 "2006-07-07T00:43:30Z")
> [@](#): > > considerate enough to pace people and achieve rapport, or at the least just meeting them halfway at their level. i guess if that works for you, by all means share that information. any and all information is useful to someone. i personally view the “achieving” and “trying to meet half-way” work- as if flirting were a job to do with the end result a payment of sorts. sometimes the fun of flirting is with the only reward being an ackowledgement, a smile. just for fun. the second there is a formula, i tune out. spontenaity is what is sexy for me.😃 ---
**Author:** ![Rob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/838e76/32.png) [@Rob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rob)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2006, 1:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/58 "2006-07-07T01:42:22Z")
Well that depends with “formulas.” It is only a formula until you make it a natural habit. Spontenaity is like the 3rd stage of that as after you’ve gotten used to using it, it is then injected with creativity. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2006, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/59 "2006-07-07T22:36:22Z")
> [@](#): > > Then I took the time to re-read it carefully, and a few of the things in there looked worth reading over again a couple of times. > > There’s nothing magical here. Nothing included that “…no man/woman can possibly resist…” > Just a helpful little guide for people who want to interact with people of the opposite sex. very interesting read guy/gals if anyone is interested… thank you pherowizard 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2006, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/60 "2006-07-11T01:38:31Z")
heres one it takes some balls to go from RT41 to Dale Mabre hwy off of 54 during rush hour. i got to go that route every freakin day of my life,twice. you begin to breathe the road and feel out when its cool to switch lanes. i guess you would have to be there to understand how weird the road gets. well, im doing my thing and have a fab opportunity to go straight to where i need to go… if i speed up. apparently men take it to be a challenge if its a guy, and if they race you and see you are a girl,well… lets say flirting happens on the road. it was a beautiful thing. helped eachother move fluidly thru the traffic. at the end, he had to go one way, me another…i’ll remember his car…(his hot little smile )…i’ll prolly even look for it. hopefully he’ll remember my truck can drive over his little sports car in 3 seconds if he decides he can pass me,lol. just joking 😃 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450.md?page=2) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450.md?page=4)