# Effective Flirting Techniques **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 25, 2006, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450 "2006-06-25T17:23:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![thr3shold](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thr3shold/32/2316_2.png) [@thr3shold](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thr3shold)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2006, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/61 "2006-07-12T01:21:05Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > heres one > it takes some balls to go from RT41 to Dale Mabre hwy off of 54 during rush hour. i got to go that route every freakin day of my life,twice. you begin to breathe the road and feel out when its cool to switch lanes. i guess you would have to be there to understand how weird the road gets. > well, im doing my thing and have a fab opportunity to go straight to where i need to go… if i speed up. apparently men take it to be a challenge if its a guy, and if they race you and see you are a girl,well… lets say flirting happens on the road. it was a beautiful thing. helped eachother move fluidly thru the traffic. at the end, he had to go one way, me another…i’ll remember his car…(his hot little smile )…i’ll prolly even look for it. hopefully he’ll remember my truck can drive over his little sports car in 3 seconds if he decides he can pass me,lol. just joking 😃 I’ve also had the same type of encounter, but me and the girl were racing down I-80E at well over a hundred, helping each other out and just barely missing the radar trap. To this day I always look at who’s driving any white toyota corolla type S cars. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2006, 11:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/62 "2006-07-12T11:00:46Z")
> [@thr3shold](#): > > I’ve also had the same type of encounter, but me and the girl were racing down I-80E at well over a hundred, helping each other out and just barely missing the radar trap. To this day I always look at who’s driving any white toyota corolla type S cars. :😔: those are the strangers i wanna do. like just pull over and do 'em, lol. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 2:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/63 "2006-08-01T02:36:13Z")
one technique i adore -because it requires skill- is when someone is ballsy enough to make a comment, that can easily be taken two ways, and you can tell by the look in the face of the one its made to if their mind is in the gutter. im not talking an obvious comment that leaves you thinking “where the hell did that come from?” but one that is so slick, its only flirty/dirty to someone who is already _maybe_ thinking along those lines…and if they are…then _maybe_ they are attracted to you…hmmm? every once in a while i am very impressed with what comes out of my mouth 😛 hey…! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2006, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/64 "2006-09-06T13:55:28Z")
ever have a doctor flirt? sometimes i have to wonder if they innocently lightening-up a mood, after all you cant be in a great mood if someone is sick, but some of the things said i think… !!! ---
**Author:** ![Mak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@Mak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mak)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2006, 4:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/65 "2006-09-07T16:19:15Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > i was speaking here about being \ ***genuine** , \*not **overthinking your actions based on how someone might percieve it**. fake sucks. i could care less if someone thinks im goofy or smiles too much, hell i laugh wayyyy too much, and trying to blend is too much effort. if it comes from the heart- no matter what it is- thats **hot**. Just by being genuine, few do respond in the same manner. It is good fun to just want to have a good time with your company, and not think or worry too much. Simple as it is, hope to see it more often. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2006, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/66 "2006-09-07T17:10:28Z")
i guess being a bartender for so long i got REAL sick of watching the same “moves” used over again, i used to think to myself,who falls for that? i came to the conclusion that women know when you have a “move” (defintion of a “move”: a flirting technique used as a means to an end that is so habitual that you can watch it unfold with the same person using it on different people) and those women dont really care, they have decided if you use the move, they are being hit on and its for one reason. its reciprocated im sure. there just has to be more to life.😉 ---
**Author:** ![Mak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@Mak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mak)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2006, 10:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/67 "2006-09-08T10:57:28Z")
There is. But horses for courses. Noone is right or wrong, just preferences and experiences. Some do find the chase and ‘moves’ are exciting, a hunt with rewards and winnings. Others are just too comfortable, relaxed, just go straight for what they want. Do we choose phero’s complimentary to our approach ? .. I’ll leave that open. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2006, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/68 "2006-09-08T18:29:19Z")
im thinking alot of us dont realise we use pheromones for our own benifits,let alone how they may effect our company 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2006, 2:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/69 "2006-09-11T02:16:09Z")
okay, an INEFFECTIVE flirting technique: talking to the hottest thing you have seen all month and having a simultaneous conversation going on in your head, that begins like “for the love of GOD dont stutter…try to not stutter…omg you stuttered .” ---
**Author:** ![Rob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/838e76/32.png) [@Rob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rob)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2006, 4:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/70 "2006-09-11T04:58:11Z")
heh.. sometimes its a blessing to be impulsive=) ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/71 "2006-09-12T13:59:15Z")
> [@Rob](#): > > heh.. sometimes its a blessing to be impulsive=) i would give a year of my life to hear what the hell he was thinking while having that disaster of a conversation LOL! from a girls point of view, the way i behaved would have been flattering if nothing else from a guy. i have to think this guy was thinking “i have mistaken this puddle for a person” LOL ---
**Author:** ![Mak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@Mak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mak)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 2:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/72 "2006-09-12T14:13:48Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > okay, an INEFFECTIVE flirting technique: > talking to the hottest thing you have seen all month and having a simultaneous conversation going on in your head, that begins like “for the love of GOD dont stutter…try to not stutter…omg you stuttered .” Who did that, you, or him ? Not to let many away, but a female stuttering talking to an ok man, may work very well, call it ego boosting. When a female does that on purpose, would you call it ineffective ? ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 2:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/73 "2006-09-12T14:28:17Z")
> [@Mak](#): > > Who did that, you, or him ? > > Not to let many away, but a female stuttering talking to an ok man, may work very well, call it ego boosting. > > When a female does that on purpose, would you call it ineffective ? um ive never heard of a woman purposely stuttering to a man. you have? ---
**Author:** ![Mak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@Mak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mak)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/74 "2006-09-12T15:20:01Z")
I didn’t get it initially, but I caught up quick .. Yes, and it is often. Without generalisation and I speaking of my own experiences .. A female mind works in a dozen ways to attract the ok male, shyness and its symptoms being one, while a male would present himself, show interest in a female, or two, but the next one is ok as well. ---
**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/75 "2006-09-12T15:53:41Z")
Why the HELL would a woman purposely stutter when talking to a man? What..is she going for the “I’m a cute dork-ess” angle? I have never heard anything so odd in my life… I’m shuddering even at the thought of that. Look up coyly from underneath lashes: Check Cock head on one side so as not to seem TOO interested: Check Ask, “Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just REALLY pleased to see me?” (Yes..this DOES work..) :Check. Say, “Get your coat mate, you’ve pulled!” : Check Deliberately stutter when talking to a a guy you are interested in.. : Che…Hell NO! Not a freaking chance.. \>\_\< Ail 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/dc4da7/32.png) [@Mak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mak)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 4:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/76 "2006-09-12T16:17:01Z")
It is silly, especially from mature people … and for me, as some of the above as well. Life it too short .. be genuine now is my thing. I must be old. ---
**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/77 "2006-09-12T17:10:53Z")
Indeed.. In fact I no longer use any of the above, and when I did, they were all in a jokey sense, and ALL on “The Man” - several being used many, many years before we went beyond being just best friends, too. The one time I will still use “Get your coat love, you’ve pulled,” is if “The Man” is in the company of a new group of guys, as I KNOW he loves me doing that, whilst simultaneously yanking him out of his chair. He does this little shrug of his shoulders, grins broadly, and then we leave the pub - after he gives them all an enormous wink, as if he has never seen me before in his life.. He is 32 going on 17 at times, and watches too many movies… You men and your silly-biscuit posturing sometimes - but he does make me smile when he does that, so all is good. 🙂 Ail 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/78 "2006-09-12T22:39:09Z")
> [@Ail](#): > > Indeed.. > > In fact I no longer use any of the above, and when I did, they were all in a jokey sense, and ALL on “The Man” - several being used many many, years before we went beyond being just best friends, too. > > The one time I will still use “Get your coat love, you’ve pulled,” is if “The Man” is in the company of a new group of guys, as I KNOW he loves me doing that, whilst simultaneously yanking him out of his chair. > > He does this little shrug of his shoulders, grins broadly, and then we leave the pub - after he gives them all an enormous wink, as if he has never seen me before in his life.. > > He is 32 going on 17 at times, and watches too many movies… > > You men and your silly-biscuit posturing sometimes - but he does make me smile when he does that, so all is good. 🙂 > > Ail 🙂 THAT IS FREAKIN’ AWESOME synchronized humor is so freakin’ sexy, i think its by far the cutest trait in a couple 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 10:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/79 "2006-09-12T22:44:28Z")
you know, right there that just inspires to list another VERY- if not the best- flirting technique ever… when your in the midst of a joke,playing with someones head,maybe just being silly and some stranger sees and acts on whats going on as if they were in on the joke from the beginning…and they are smooth about it… oh ive met a few of those. they get me everytime. synchronized humor, oh so sexay 😉 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 3:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450/80 "2006-09-14T03:15:29Z")
> [@Ail](#): > > Indeed.. > > In fact I no longer use any of the above, and when I did, they were all in a jokey sense, and ALL on “The Man” - several being used many many, years before we went beyond being just best friends, too. > > The one time I will still use **“Get your coat love, you’ve pulled,”** is if “The Man” is in the company of a new group of guys, as I KNOW he loves me doing that, whilst simultaneously yanking him out of his chair. > > He does this little shrug of his shoulders, grins broadly, and then we leave the pub - after he gives them all an enormous wink, as if he has never seen me before in his life.. > > He is 32 going on 17 at times, and watches too many movies… > > You men and your silly-biscuit posturing sometimes - but he does make me smile when he does that, so all is good. 🙂 > > Ail 🙂 I’m a silly biscuit, too. 😃 Mainly cause I like being silly. It doesn’t have to do with posturing. Um, can you translate the highlighted portion please? Context suggests what it means, but I want to be sure I follow. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450.md?page=3) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effective-flirting-techniques/450.md?page=5)