# effects of pheros on social dynamics (mx336, mx297, mx116) **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 27, 2009, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643 "2009-10-27T21:44:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643/1 "2009-10-27T21:44:09Z")
saturday, 10.24.09, 10p 1s mx336 1s mx297 1s mx116 front neck hosted some friends at my house for a small preparty, then we went out to the bars. 5 guys, 3 girls. the best ratio so far this semester and about as good as one can get on a short notice party. 10:30p alcohol got people to speak up and suddenly everything turns sexual. there’s some obvious innuendo like “i just want to hold this in my mouth all night” (referring to a good shot) and then blatant phrases like “your boobs look huge in that top.” since we were all gathered around a small area in my house and had the music on a quiet volume for talking, it was very intimate. a lot people didn’t want to leave because it was so fun and so personal. it was originally going to be 9 people but one guy brought along a girl that he’s been trying to pursue as a ltr. she’s shy and rarely comes out, so by starting off with a small house party, she got used to the nightlife and could open up more later in the night. only one of the girls had a bf so she stayed by me most of the night as i was the only guy with a gf. this was good because we could party together and know that we’re both not crossing any lines. the other girl was the social butterfly of the group, sometimes dancing on one guy and then quickly moving to another. during this sexually-charged preparty, the shy girl started to cozy up with the guy who invited her, which was good. the girl with the bf just got cozy with herself, pretty much dropping sexual hints to nobody in particular. the butterfly took the most interest in my buddy while also flirting with other guys. 11:30p here comes the status. the guy who invited the girl noticed she was getting cozy so he decided to “puff his feathers out” to try to impress her, whereas he’s normally fairly reserved. i don’t think he was trying to steal my sig but i let him have it anyway. he started being more outgoing with the girl. the girl ate this up as she’s never had this much fun before, and she’s never seen this side of this guy. the girl with the bf started talking to me more. she could tell it was near the time of the night where guys hone in on their targets and didn’t want anything to do with it so she had a choice – one other guy who wasn’t actively pursuing anyone, or me. she said she wanted to hang out with me because once we started drinking and dancing, there wasn’t a chance anything bad would happen, whereas with the other guy, even though he’s not pursuing anyone, a little liquid courage and some intense dancing and he could get interested too. the butterfly was more interested in my buddy now and since he’s shy, he froze up for a bit. the other guys saw this and tried to muscle their way in. calm status for me as the guy who knows what it’s like to be in a relationship, goofy status for the guy trying to impress the shy girl, complete brute force status for the guys trying to win over the butterfly. 12:30a mx297 kicks in. we went to some bars that only my buddy and i have been to, so naturally we took charge. my buddy was getting some drinks down to loosen up to talk to the butterfly, so he was little tipsy. that left me as the leader of the group. even before this point people regarded me as somewhat of a leader because i hosted the party at my place, organized travel plans, picked out the bars, etc. now they saw me as a real leader. since the leader sig shifted, there was also a change in social dynamics. the shy girl started feeling the alcohol and danced with everyone in the group. very drastic for her. her guy realized he probably should try a different approach so he backed off for a while and just hung out. the shy girl also seemed to be “corrupted” by the butterfly as they would go around and just dance with everybody – sparingly with me, liberally with everyone else. the butterfly put my buddy on hold and explored her other options. the girl with the bf started to party more too within comfortable limits and stuck by me when things got uncomfortable for her. one interesting aspect is that a few hours ago, people were vying for status, but now that i had it, nobody really tried to take it from me. 1:30a go time for everyone. the shy girl eventually made her way back around to the guy. nothing happened, but it was good to know that his efforts were not wasted. the butterfly gave my buddy one more chance and i think he bit. obviously he didn’t get her number or anything, but that’s just him. i’ve already said i would step out of his business so i let him do whatever, and it seemed they parted on “good” terms. the girl with the bf saw how the other girls were flirting around and i guess she missed this or something, because she was kinda sad near the end of the night. she took a timeout to get things back in order and then she was happy and perky again. my buddy had a really good time and he thanked me for doing this. the other guys had a good time too and after they found out that they didn’t really have a chance with the butterfly, they just focused on partying hard. conclusion it was fun to see all the effects at work: social, status, and sexual. i’ve missed the days of my powerbomb mixes and this was a good reminder of that. buddy had a good time and gave a good effort to break out of his shell, the girls all had a good time with their respective party goals, and i’m glad i was able to set a good tone for the one guy to pursue the shy girl. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2009, 2:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643/2 "2009-10-28T02:40:27Z")
Sounds like a great night and a great phero mix! I don’t think I could pull off Game AND [Akuto](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/akuto/) scents at the same time! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2009, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643/3 "2009-10-28T16:22:26Z")
> [@Snoopyace](#): > > Sounds like a great night and a great phero mix! I don’t think I could pull off Game AND Akuto scents at the same time! 🙂 sadly (?) i still have not been able to test them at more than 1s. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2009, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643/4 "2009-10-28T16:30:14Z")
> [@jayarea](#): > > sadly (?) i still have not been able to test them at more than 1s. You are braver than I am, of course I couldn’t pull off Game scent by itself but that is just me. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2009, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643/5 "2009-10-28T21:24:22Z")
one thing that i forgot to mention is that there was a lot of kino, but in a way i have never experienced before. i can only term it “slapping” kino. it wasn’t actual slapping, thank goodness, but more like rubbing a hand across a face. the butterfly was more rubby than slappy; during dancing she would hold a guy’s face whereas many girls hold the neck or waist. the girl with the bf would fake-slap me after i made a bad joke or something. it was fun while it lasted, but i don’t know if i would want to experience that again. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2009, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/effects-of-pheros-on-social-dynamics-mx336-mx297-mx116/33643/6 "2009-10-29T00:16:08Z")
> [@jayarea](#): > > one thing that i forgot to mention is that there was a lot of kino, but in a way i have never experienced before. i can only term it “slapping” kino. it wasn’t actual slapping, thank goodness, but more like rubbing a hand across a face. the butterfly was more rubby than slappy; during dancing she would hold a guy’s face whereas many girls hold the neck or waist. the girl with the bf would fake-slap me after i made a bad joke or something. > > it was fun while it lasted, but i don’t know if i would want to experience that again. Wild! I’ve seen that effect with both MX116 and MX336/MX337. Fun fun fun!