# Ello :3 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 16, 2009, 1:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356 "2009-10-16T13:17:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lorettababygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d78d45/32.png) [@lorettababygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lorettababygirl)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 1:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/1 "2009-10-16T13:17:41Z")
Hey ya’ll. I’m Stephanie, 23, married to a man in the Navy, no children yet. Not sure where to start other than that, so maybe ab it about my small pehromone experience. My mother obught this xmall container of a wax-gel kinda [pheromone perfume](https://phera.com/shop/) (I dunno another way to put it). I think it was from Passion Parties or something. Now, she let me use it too, and we both noticed more male attention and improved interaction with both men and SOME women. The other women would act far more “aggressively” towards us (I could use another term but for the sake of keeping it clean…) Now, there have been some problem in my 3 year marriage. Namely, he struggled with a porn addiciton for quite some time and it seems he has finally gotten past it within the last year. The thing is the lack of sex has continued, and actually gotten worse! Before he left for sea last May, we had lived here for about 4 months. We had sex at most 5 times in that time frame. I know he wasn’t using porn behind my back, I kinda know the signs by now. Besides, in the longer dry period (a month or so), he had a “nighttime emission.” To me, that’s a signal he wasn’t doing anything. So. I know he’s attracted to me, and when we do have sex, it’s wonderful. It’s just not happening often enough for me really :/. I do beleive my drive is higher than his, and then got to thinking about pheromones and researching. I thought it would be worth a shot and found pheromone advantage. Ended up ordering 2 bottles (I found a somewhat hidden two for the price of one thing going.) I recieved the shipping notification this morning. I probably should have researched more, because now as I look, I’m finding very little information on that product. Hopefully, if it fails, that 180 day money back thing is legit. Even if it’s not, my bank is pretty good about helping me deal with companies refusing refunds that they guarentee. What I want from pheromones is more intimacy, affection, and sex from my husband. I don’t expect him to turn into some Romeo, but a little shove in the right direction for him would be nice. Anyway, I guess I’m curious as to what people know about pheromone advantage. I’ve done a forum search but haven’t come across anything really definite. Also wondering what I should try if pheromone advantage does not work as I wish. There’s so many product names flying around that my head is spinning o.o Haha sorry, that’s kinda long. But I hope it gives enough detail. Also, he is still out at sea and I don’t intend to use it right away once he’s home (although I might get impatient and do so anyway.) It is soon though so I will get back here and say if it works or not. EDIT: Whoop, forgot to add. He almost never makes the first move, and when I try, I am usually denied cause he is “tired” or something like that. Doesn’t matter what time of day, whether he worked that day or not, what he ate, etc. Another edit: Doh. If my personality matters in this case, I’m a two sided coin pretty heavily. Overall though, I’m a happy, cheerful person. Other times I’m prone to depression and a bit of anger, although not excessive. No matter what, I am very straightforward, blunt and a bit stern. I also tend to swing from being dominant to submissive in many aspects of my life. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 3:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/2 "2009-10-16T15:57:13Z")
Hey Loretta! Welcome to the fourm I see your intro has a two part question to it. But first I wanted to comment that [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) won’t do all the work for you or change the attitudes of someone. Rather subtly send the right message. At the same time when you try these things you may also want to look at any of the other marital issues or the root cause of the issue. Perhaps for example the nutrition of your husband is low and he could use some supplements of B vitamins and more Zink for his libido. I too haven’t heard of pheromone advantage, but we are all curious of new products. You should try to put together a test where you check to see other people reactions around you. In my case I sometimes even ask if there is any change in my presence to people. I have done so with a number of products on this site and usually I get weird reactions like wow, what is that? As for what to try, the other women on the site may qualify better to recommend but from a guys perspective you may want to try instant sexiness, or to ramp it up abit try lust after me. Heres a list that the women put together of products and there effects, [click here.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383) The great thing about this site is the ability to try things with the 25$ gift certificate, cant go wrong there. Quality products and support from this great forum too! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/3 "2009-10-16T16:55:54Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/4 "2009-10-16T16:57:02Z")
Oh and since this is an amazing intro double GC for you too 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/5 "2009-10-16T17:13:03Z")
HI Stephanie, Welcome to the forum. I personally think your husband may need some counselling. Pheromones may help but it is not magic potion. Try [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). It can make him think you are sexier and more attractive. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![lorettababygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d78d45/32.png) [@lorettababygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lorettababygirl)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/6 "2009-10-16T23:45:57Z")
@ Daset1: I don’t expect pheromones to do all the work, I just wanted an extra shove. I’ll look into vitamins for him though. Now, the bad part is I don’t really know too many people down here, but I will wear in public at least and see if anything changes. I at least tend to see the same cashiers, same people when I goto certain appointments, etc. @ Jamesbonded: Thanks :3. We are indeed going into counseling together once he’s home. It’s up to him if he goes to a counselor on his own though. I can’t force that. I still just wanted to give him a nudge, not magically make him all over me. @ STeve: Wait, that means I have $50 with my GC thingy? :o ---
**Author:** ![lorettababygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d78d45/32.png) [@lorettababygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lorettababygirl)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/7 "2009-10-20T14:51:34Z")
Ok so my package was supposed to get here yesterday, but lo and behold, it did not. The tracking number said it was undeliverable. I checked my original confirmation email and they got my address wrong. My browser auto fills in my address AND my apartment number for me. I just checked and that information was still perfectly correct, the same as it was when I ordered. Here’s the kicker: when I called their customer service, they said they would ship me a new package with the correct address, but the lady was being very rude. I mean… I was being very polite, and wasn’t accusing them of screwing up, all I said is there must have been some sort of error. She kept saying “Well, it’s not OUR fault, it’s YOUR fault.” I was trying to deflect blame from either side and move on while she accused me over and over. So I just cancelled and asked for a refund. She just said “Thank you” and hung up on me. Let’s hope that refund comes through. Anyway, I’ll be trying Androtics now. Seems a lot more reliable. I think I may try the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). I keep hearing of copulins though and as I remember, none of these products have it. I’m going to research a bit more before I buy. :3 ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/8 "2009-10-20T15:36:09Z")
Hey For a second there I thought you were talking about Androtics, I dont think they could ever be like that even on a bad day. Wow, you have $50 in gift cirtificates, I woudnt let this incident stop you!! lol. I did a little looking in the fourm another new user asked the same thing. You may want to try these, [click here.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-to-buy-my-man-for-some-really-naughty-fun-this-weekend-im-his-lady/33330) There talking about P81 and MX311. ---
**Author:** ![lorettababygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d78d45/32.png) [@lorettababygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lorettababygirl)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 4:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ello-3/33356/9 "2009-10-20T16:47:19Z")
Oh, no! Androtics seems much friendlier, haha. I’m not letting it stop me, HOWEVER I decided to wait until husband come back from sea. I realized that, since he’s been gone so long, our interactions may change. People change a lot in 5 months, so I must wait and see what would be best. Won’t be long still, just not RIGHT NOW, lol. I will likely return and update on that situation. I’ll look into those products though, and the others mentioned.