# end of relationship..help quick **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 4, 2010, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803 "2010-07-04T15:26:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![indyfansd](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/indyfansd/32/237_2.png) [@indyfansd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/indyfansd)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/1 "2010-07-04T15:26:53Z")
tryin to prevent it..gunna have a talk with gf whose on the fence about breakin up with me..wat should i wear… have is ammo tuth io ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/2 "2010-07-04T15:31:35Z")
AMMO and IH ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/3 "2010-07-04T16:08:57Z")
honestly those products that you have are great for pickup/seduction but not exactly for maintaining a relationship. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) can create attraction, IO is fun and can make her feel chatty, TuTH might turn her one but depending on why she’s considering breaking up with you, it could be the wrong product at the wrong time. Why is she riding the fence about ending things? We might be able to give better advice with more input from you. ---
**Author:** ![indyfansd](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/indyfansd/32/237_2.png) [@indyfansd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/indyfansd)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/4 "2010-07-04T16:38:44Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > honestly those products that you have are great for pickup/seduction but not exactly for maintaining a relationship. Ammo can create attraction, IO is fun and can make her feel chatty, TuTH might turn her one but depending on why she’s considering breaking up with you, it could be the wrong product at the wrong time. > Why is she riding the fence about ending things? We might be able to give better advice with more input from you. ima teenage father..pressure on her shes getting athletic scholarship and even though she is gunna be an hour a way she doesnt wanna do it..sucks cuz her parents love my child..thats one in a million as a teenage parent..almost 19..had child at 16 ---
**Author:** ![indyfansd](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/indyfansd/32/237_2.png) [@indyfansd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/indyfansd)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 4:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/5 "2010-07-04T16:45:54Z")
ammo..2x chest io 2x biceps is 1x wrist? yah? ---
**Author:** ![hoplessly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hoplessly/32/2319_2.png) [@hoplessly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoplessly)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 5:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/6 "2010-07-04T17:12:05Z")
good luck indyfansd. You can only work with what you have, maybe another spray of IS as well. The thing is you mention that she’s on the fence so it seems like there’s emotional conflict that’s going on in her mind. What doesn’t she want to do? She doesn’t want to take the scholarship? She wants to take it? You’re a 19 year old father and with that comes a lot of responsibility. How has she been with your child? How old is she? I wish you the best of luck in this and remember that mone’s won’t take away from free will. Be chill and don’t argue why she wants to break up. You don’t want her to be more resolved in her resistance. I honestly wish you all the best and let us know how it works out. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 5:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/7 "2010-07-04T17:31:46Z")
OK this is a pretty serious situation to be honest. More than likely she’s considering one or more of two major factors. The first being that she’s still young and might be wanting to have fun and enjoy her youth before considering the responsibility of an instant family. Two…having a child at a young age makes it hard to progress professionally and financially beyond wherever you happen to be when the child arrives. Very rarely do teenage parents finish school and progress to a high income job. The mones you have are social in a fun way and attraction/sexual in nature. Given where you are and what you have to deal with you’d be better served with either IG or A314 and some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Both in communicating to her that you can handle the responsibilities you currently have, and in getting a job, going back to school etc to actually do it. In my opinion instead of focusing on the mones, figure out what aspect/s of your situation are making her consider breaking up and fix it. Work out some sort of baby sitting arrangement with her parents or your own so that you can go to school yourself, get a job if you don’t already have one. (for all I know you may already have a job or be in school, I’m basing these assumptions on guys I knew in similar situations when I was your age, if I’m wrong I apologize) It could also be none of the above, to be honest from my experience most HS relationships end when one or both parties go to college. A lot of people of both genders don’t want to be tied to ANY kind of serious relationship when they head off for school. They want to be free to party and hookup (I’m sorry if it hurts to hear that) Basically, and I can’t even promise that it would work is just try your best to get your life and lifestyle in order so that she doesn’t feel like being with you means having to grow up and get serious before she’s ready to. That means YOU have to do it. Be mature, and responsible and make it as easy as possible for her to remain in your life and enjoy it. You have to get your head right, the fact that you have a girlfriend and a child and the mones you chose to buy were pickup/seduction oriented pretty much shows that. ---
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/8 "2010-07-04T17:36:54Z")
Truth is everyone comes to the forks in the road where you have to take a good clear look at reality and make a long term decision… she’s thinking what her future might look like if she takes one road or another… she’s thinking not only what’s best for herself but what’s probably going to be best for her child… I think it’s more like you should sit down together and work out long term life plans that give the best benefit 5,10, 20 years down the road… read \*\*Philip Zimbardo’\*\*s new book **The Time Paradox** , especially the chapter titled _ **The Future** _… might be the best 16 bux you ever spent.. ---
**Author:** ![Ftordces](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7feea3/32.png) [@Ftordces](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ftordces)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2010, 6:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/9 "2010-07-05T06:04:31Z")
I don’t know, It maybe even a little to late but from what you got I would have used IO only, because of the bonding effects, I think adding any of the others would backfire in a serious situation. Hope all went OK. ---
**Author:** ![indyfansd](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/indyfansd/32/237_2.png) [@indyfansd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/indyfansd)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 6:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/10 "2010-07-06T06:19:31Z")
io allowed us to step back and re look at the situation,i know its an aid..not relying on it..but she is very reserved..helped her open up say her emotions..all is well or the time being…i feel like [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are definately just an aid..not a crutch..thanksfor help..thanx as and io ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 6:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/11 "2010-07-06T06:46:05Z")
Good to hear Indy. Good luck with everything. ---
**Author:** ![Ftordces](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7feea3/32.png) [@Ftordces](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ftordces)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 6:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/end-of-relationship-help-quick/39803/12 "2010-07-07T06:38:23Z")
Glad to hear that all is good, best of luck