# EPIC WTF - The object of my affection tells other women that I'm GAY

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 23, 2011, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/epic-wtf-the-object-of-my-affection-tells-other-women-that-im-gay/48997 "2011-02-23T07:02:35Z")\
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**Post date:** [February 23, 2011, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/epic-wtf-the-object-of-my-affection-tells-other-women-that-im-gay/48997/9 "2011-02-23T13:59:15Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> Girls wont tell other girls your gay because they are attracted to you LOL

That’s kind of what I think. We’re both sending each other mixed signals, apparently. So apparently she’s attracted to me but thinks I’m gay.

> [@tisha23](#):
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> Either she is a attention seeking nutjob as mobocaster said or she thinks you are gay. A girl will rationalize and make that assumption when a guy shows interest but doesnt make a move or create sexual tension.

I think she _ **genuinely** _ believes I’m gay. (Edit: I could be wrong. She could just be a batshit crazy witch, but she drops too many coincidental hints about her schedule and availabilty. I’ve decided to be batshit-crazy-persistent.)

> [@tisha23](#):
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> I am thinking you let this relationship fall into the friends box. Are you being congruent with your pheromones ?

No pheromones for the past few months, but I was never consistent.

> [@tisha23](#):
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> IYou need to create some sexual tension. Do not explain your feelings to her. Create the tension. Clearly state what you want but not how you feel about what you want.

How the _hell_ do I do that given that she things I’m queer?

_ **Help me, Tisha!** _

BTW, I Ordered a full bottle of Ammo (I haven’t done that in a long time) + P79 + P74 (See [Ammo + P74 + P79 = WIIIIN!!!!!!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ammo-p74-p79-wiiiin/38534) )

Someone asked me what’s happened since my last post? I’ve had a few dates with women I really wasn’t interested in, and I’ve decided to stop dating women just because they’re interested in me. (Easy, low hanging fruit, blah blah blah…) And Money problems happened - which is the story of my life. And that’s why I never asked out this woman - lack of money, we’re in “different tax brackets”. I’m addressing that, and also hoping it doesn’t matter too much to her. I expect that it will, but I’m moving forward anyhow. I mean, two fricking years of pining for this woman! It’s as mind boggling as me wanting to break [rule #3](http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rule%203).

SO anyways - next week she is supposed to show me a piece of art that she recently created (…we’re both artists…) and she said she would bring it in to work to show to me. That’s my “pivotal moment”.

**Advice, please…**

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