# Ex-girlfriend won't open up: pheromones to rebuild comfort and rapport?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ex-girlfriend-wont-open-up-pheromones-to-rebuild-comfort-and-rapport/57223>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [November 5, 2012, 6:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ex-girlfriend-wont-open-up-pheromones-to-rebuild-comfort-and-rapport/57223 "2012-11-05T18:00:26Z")\
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**Author:** ![JohnM](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/848f3c/32.png) [@JohnM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnM)\
**Post date:** [November 6, 2012, 12:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ex-girlfriend-wont-open-up-pheromones-to-rebuild-comfort-and-rapport/57223/21 "2012-11-06T12:12:43Z")

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If she was in a relationship with you and now she isn’t, in her mind there’s a reason.

Let’s say she broke up with you because you cheated on her. In that case it’s probably a bad idea to try to get her interested by having other girls flirt with you.

If she broke up with you because you were a wuzzy, strong confident behavior and flirting with other girls might help you a lot.

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> I’d like a chance to say my thing, and with Ammo after what I say it could just be to much for her and she might reconsider why we broke up 😛

It could also make her think that you are an even bigger asshole.

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> At which point would it be best to use them, maybe catch her alone at hers with the chance she’s with a friend or won’t open the door. …] either way, I want to talk to her, I want her to be interested and comfortable with me again (maybe not relationship interested…just interested)

If you want her to be comfortable going to her place without invitation wouldn’t be very straightforward.

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