# Ex-girlfriend won't open up: pheromones to rebuild comfort and rapport?

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [November 5, 2012, 6:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ex-girlfriend-wont-open-up-pheromones-to-rebuild-comfort-and-rapport/57223 "2012-11-05T18:00:26Z")\
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**Post date:** [November 5, 2012, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ex-girlfriend-wont-open-up-pheromones-to-rebuild-comfort-and-rapport/57223/16 "2012-11-05T19:37:35Z")

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> [@donklol](#):
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> Oki 🙂 well I have 1 further question, At which point would it be best to use them, maybe catch her alone at hers with the chance she’s with a friend or won’t open the door.  
> Or at a party with her there, big or small there’s a few coming up, maybe the added interest of other people will help, i really don’t know
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> either way, I want to talk to her, I want her to be interested and comfortable with me again (maybe not relationship interested…just interested)

Well it depends on what all you are getting. If you want to get her interested by attention from other girls, IO, IG, IS, and Ammo mix would be a good bet maybe even with out the IG but that can make you seem like you have a higher social status if you work the mix, or even replace the IO with IH if you wanted but IO is better for talking to girls you don’t know, helps break the ice.

Now if you are wanting to make her interested again by just being around her and talking you could run the same mix with IH instead of the IO for a deeper conversation which may help to spark the interest again, ammo will make you seem sexy so if you wanted to drop that just to seem warm and caring vibe then you could do that as well.

Another typical thing to do is run mones in stages (I would try everything solo at first, then start mixing, then start doing mixes in stages). What I mean by this is maybe you are at a party, you wear IO, IS, and IG open a bunch of girls build rapport and then once you have done this put on some TUTH go back and talk to the girls you have built rapport with and gotten initial IOI’s or hints of attraction before the TUTH and it will drive them nuts once you have it one. This is getting a little more advanced but good to know for the future.

Read Steve’s post here on how to properly find your sweet spot and do solo testing (always recommended before using mixes.)  
[Finding your sweet spot.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003/9)

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