# Excited but overwhelmed **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 30, 2009, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173 "2009-12-30T20:42:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Squeevil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/97f17d/32.png) [@Squeevil](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Squeevil)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173/1 "2009-12-30T20:42:12Z")
Hello all! I have always been interested in the concept of using [pheromones](https://a314.com/), but there are so many products out there, I didn’t know where to start! This site has a lot of great information, but it is hard to sort through it all. I’d love advice on where to begin. I’m a 36 year old single female, and what I’m looking for is a product that will “enhance” what I have with someone I am dating. I would like him to feel close to me, comforted by being with me, but would also like to “boost” his attraction. Basically, a product that will make him want to be around me all the time. 😃 Thanks to all in advance, and thanks for helping this site exist! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173/2 "2009-12-30T20:47:16Z")
Hi and welcome! In order to recommend the right products for your situation, and also to help get you qualified for the $25 gift certificate, please tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to others. Are you shy? Are you outgoing? Also, what kind of personality does your guy have? And what is he attracted to? Is he more drawn to soft and feminine, or to strong alpha woman? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173/3 "2009-12-30T20:47:24Z")
Hey, welcome! I’d go with IS/A and/or IS/B which are great for general all around attraction. IH would also be another good one to help deepen your connection with him, as it helps to aid in adding a comfortable vibe to the wearer and targets. > [@Squeevil](#): > > Hello all! I have always been interested in the concept of using pheromones, but there are so many products out there, I didn’t know where to start! This site has a lot of great information, but it is hard to sort through it all. I’d love advice on where to begin. I’m a 36 year old single female, and what I’m looking for is a product that will “enhance” what I have with someone I am dating. I would like him to feel close to me, comforted by being with me, but would also like to “boost” his attraction. Basically, a product that will make him want to be around me all the time. 😃 Thanks to all in advance, and thanks for helping this site exist! ---
**Author:** ![Squeevil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/97f17d/32.png) [@Squeevil](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Squeevil)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173/4 "2009-12-30T21:22:41Z")
Thanks, Silly! I’m generally shy at first, but warm up very quickly. I am gregarious and outgoing with people I am comfortable with and know well, but tend to be quieter as I get to know someone. I tend to cover any anxieties or insecurities with humor and/or sarcasm, so I often get the “funny” label, but am very serious when the situation calls for it. I make connections quickly; get attached easily which can sometimes get me into trouble, but it’s difficukt for me to be any other way… As for him, it’s new, so I don’t know how much I can answer, but he is outgoing, more of a hanging with the crowd kind of guy, though he is very gentle and loving with me..a “cuddler” and “toucher”. Funny, straightforward, says what’s on his mind. I don’t know much about his dating history, but he seems to like the humor in me, the “cool chick” vibe I have. I suspect a very girly type would turn him off… Hope this helps, and thanks! > [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi and welcome! > > In order to recommend the right products for your situation, and also to help get you qualified for the $25 gift certificate, please tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to others. Are you shy? Are you outgoing? > > Also, what kind of personality does your guy have? And what is he attracted to? Is he more drawn to soft and feminine, or to strong alpha woman? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173/5 "2009-12-30T21:27:11Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Squeevil! In order for us to make the right recommendations what we need is more information from you. From what you said so far I think Instant honesty is a great starter. This product contains beta androstenol and assists in a deeper level of communication , many of us ladies have used it to get our lovers or significant other to be more open and warm with us especially in the bedroom. I also need more information so I can issue you the $25 gift certificate. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2009, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-but-overwhelmed/35173/6 "2009-12-31T13:41:48Z")
Hello Squeevil, welcome to the forums! As others have suggested, experiment with the two Instant Sexiness mixes. (I’d get them in to-go sizes to try out.) Each has a different main pheromone in it, and different women get results with each. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is another good one that I’ve tried, puts people in a good mood. And who doesn’t want to be around someone who puts you in a good mood? I love the stuff; I find it makes me smile for no reason.