# excited hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 4, 2009, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649 "2009-05-04T05:04:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![desikat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9a140/32.png) [@desikat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desikat)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/1 "2009-05-04T05:04:17Z")
hello I’m Desikat, from California…I’ve been curious about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) for awhile. I’m aware of them and have knowingly responded to them from other people (and from myself). I have been told I give off strong pheromones, or that my mood can affect everyone in the room(if I’m happy I can makes everyone I’m around happy, my laughter is contagious, my bad mood can dampen everyones spirits, Lookout!!) So on the otherhand there is my self consiousness. I can safely say I am quite an attractive female (not by conventional standards)…besides that though..I rather base my self worth and confidence on what I am capable of doing. It is difficult for me to gain respect in my field of work without that “go get em” attitude. It is not inherently in my nature to put myself out there to attract and receive attentions. I often times get social anxiety or my confidence crumples…:o especially in large groups… one on one time is usually easier for me. sooo…I’m wondering if pheromones could help me build more confidence in social situations and help my personality shine through. I’d love to get some advice! Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Young\_Beast](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/young_beast/32/2178_2.png) [@Young\_Beast](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Young_Beast)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/2 "2009-05-04T05:18:42Z")
Hey desikat you seem like a pretty cool chick! You say that you can make people laugh a lot, and spread happiness, but you often get social anxiety, eh? Pheremones can definitely help this! I reccomend: _[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) :_ Helps you open up, as you said you needed, helps release inhibitions _Instant Shine:_ GREAT stuff, enhances what you already have (happiness and laughter) Look forward to seeing you around the forums, peace! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 5:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/3 "2009-05-04T05:55:05Z")
hey welcome 🙂 thanks for the great intro. instant shine would be agreat one to have in ur arsenal to start off with.. as for the other issues that you mentioned, why dont u give [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A or even MX300 a try? i use mx300 mainly in work situations to get me the respect i need to come off the strong alpha woman. i also use it in my everyday life also but some ppl do find me a little too intimidating with it on all the time 😛 anyways welcome and ask away any more questions 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 6:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/4 "2009-05-04T06:44:17Z")
Hi and welcome! Remmy’s suggestions are just what I would have recommended too. Instant Sexiness/a will give you a strong sexy alpha female vibe, and is a good all around product. MX300 is perfect for work, with the no-nonsense alpha female confidence, which also brings out respect from others. Instant Shine does what its name implies - it gives you a positive shine and sparkle that both you and those around you will enjoy. For striking up conversations more easily in large groups, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) works quite well. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 6:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/5 "2009-05-04T06:51:02Z")
Hi Des, welcome to the forums. I suggest you have a good read of [The Womens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)and let us know if you have any other questions. Tisha should be on soon and will consider your post for a gift certificate. Once you start using pheromones be sure to return and let us know your results! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/6 "2009-05-04T11:51:14Z")
Hello There, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I think Ishine and IO would be perfect for you. > [@](#): > > …I’m wondering if pheromones could help me build more confidence in social situations and help my personality **shine through**. This is exactly what Ishine does. Its charismatic, uplifting, warm, magnetic and it can increase your feeling of well being and confidence. > [@](#): > > I often times get social anxiety or my confidence crumples…:o especially in large groups… one on one time is usually easier for me. IO aids in making socialization and interaction more comfortable. Its attractive and helps both the user and the exposed open up more with ease. It wont do all the work for you but it will help. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** Have fun Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![desikat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9a140/32.png) [@desikat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desikat)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/7 "2009-05-04T19:11:01Z")
thanks for the prompt feedback! I’m ordering the Ishine soon. I was wondering if it matters that I work almost exclusively with other females. Does this effect which pheromones would work best for me? I’m curious about [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)…seems to be a popular one 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/8 "2009-05-04T19:19:23Z")
Ishine works well around both men and women. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is also a great product. It can help forge friendships with female in some cases as well as attract the opposite sex. IS/A seems better for this then IS/B. Gives you a sort of popularity type vibe but IS/B has been said to cause some catty reactions with some women. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/9 "2009-05-04T19:21:14Z")
> [@desikat](#): > > thanks for the prompt feedback! > I’m ordering the Ishine soon. I was wondering if it matters that I work almost exclusively with other females. Does this effect which pheromones would work best for me? I’m curious about Instant Sexiness…seems to be a popular one 😉 No, it should be fine around other females. And, both [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a and b are great, different from one another (one being a strong sexy and the other being a soft sweet sexy) and lots of fun to play around with 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![desikat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9a140/32.png) [@desikat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desikat)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/excited-hello/28649/10 "2009-05-05T02:52:18Z")
i’m an artist and kinda squirrelly…what can i say??