# Experienced Phero user but new here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 30, 2008, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experienced-phero-user-but-new-here/20579 "2008-09-30T04:37:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![learningfast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3e96dc/32.png) [@learningfast](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/learningfast)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2008, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experienced-phero-user-but-new-here/20579/1 "2008-09-30T04:37:11Z")
Hi All! I am a single 27 yr old male from australia and I’ve had good experiences with several good experiences from pheros. Just looking for stuff beyond the sexual (tho I plan on trying turn up the heat) especially respect and openness. I would like to be able to enhance my own “openess” aura yet get more respect from everyone. I would also like to be able to increase my own mood and confidence if possible. So any suggestions as to products / mixes or ideas? I have no problem getting hits but more confidence to take things further would be nice. I tend to miss opportunities its annoying. Something that would get me to step up and take action would be great. Looking forward to see what results I get from these products… thats assuming you ship to australia of course. Thanks for your input, LearningFast ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2008, 9:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experienced-phero-user-but-new-here/20579/2 "2008-09-30T09:38:10Z")
hi LearningFast, welcome to the forums, from Thailand. you didn’t mention the phero products you have tried in the past. no restrictions here about mentioning them so feel free as there are many here who are interested in what worked and what didn’t. since you are looking beyong the overt sexual hits, A314 and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) may be what you are looking for. in your own words you said you are looking for respect and openness, i have an idea you have already seen the androtics product Instant Openness? something tells me that might be a suitable product choice for you to test… as for increasing your own mood and confidence, Instant Shine is a personal favorite of mine and you can get it in a lot of different strength configurations directly through the store. i’m not sure about a product that will help you to step up and take action, i think that is more of a mental thing than a product thing, steveo and others here might be ready willing and able to help you overcome any particular mental blocks you might have that prevent you from taking advantage of the opportunities that are coming your way. good luck to you, and please report back here with your testing. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2008, 12:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experienced-phero-user-but-new-here/20579/3 "2008-09-30T12:15:17Z")
Welcome to the forum. Respect and openness can be conflicting. If you want them at the same time I’d suggest [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). For pure respect but perhaps less openness try A314. For pure opennessw but perhaps less respect try Instant Openness or IH. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2008, 12:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experienced-phero-user-but-new-here/20579/4 "2008-09-30T12:16:50Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. For a guy I would really recommend [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It will give you a warm, cool. suave kind of aura. That should help. I would also recommend instant Opewnnness and Instant Shine. They will help with conversations and making people feel happy to be around you. You can also consider IH if you want people to feel like they have a connection with you and talk about more private matters. The big thing to remember is that these products will give people the impression or the desire but you will have to talk to them in order to get them to open up to you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2008, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experienced-phero-user-but-new-here/20579/5 "2008-10-01T00:03:01Z")
Hello LF Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Having some mone experience will be helpful in learning to use the products here so thats a big plus. What products have you used before ? I suggest for respect and upping your status you give A314 a try. To increase socialization I suggest CTTM or IO and IH CTTM is a 50/50 mix of IH and IO. The stepping up and taking action is up to you. Mones are designed to effect the subconscious thought of those around you. They can have some self effects but your conscious of them and while they can give you a edge they wont do the work for you. Yes they do ship to Australia and we have quite a few members from your country on the forum. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha