# Experiment to see if my BF is just not attracted to me ! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 21, 2012, 7:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293 "2012-01-21T19:32:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![beauty28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ba0ec/32.png) [@beauty28](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beauty28)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2012, 7:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/1 "2012-01-21T19:32:28Z")
I’m 29, from baltimore, maryland and female. Ive had 3 previous serious boyfriends. Ive always had guys naturally swarming over me and never considered using anything to help along the process. But I have a boyfriend whom I love a lot and whose scent drives me wild, but he has zero passion towards me. He says he felt attraction towards all his other exes. He isnt playing mind games though. So this is my one try to see if things can be sparked between us finally. πŸ™„ ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2012, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/2 "2012-01-21T20:04:18Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum!! You should look into the IS/B to help with the attraction and maybe some socials to help connect. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is great for good moods, IO helps people open up, and IH helps for deep convos. How long have you two been together? Hope this helps! ---
**Author:** ![beauty28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7ba0ec/32.png) [@beauty28](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beauty28)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2012, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/3 "2012-01-21T23:09:50Z")
> [@MikeMan22](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum!! > > You should look into the IS/B to help with the attraction and maybe some socials to help connect. Instant Shine is great for good moods, IO helps people open up, and IH helps for deep convos. > > How long have you two been together? > > Hope this helps! I appreciate your suggestions. We’ve been together over two years. The relationship was long distance at first. When I moved here I think he started overthinking things and I started to stress out. I just want to see if the phermones will help my mindset and the way I project myself a bit. Thanks again. πŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2012, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/4 "2012-01-23T02:06:40Z")
Time is the greatest gift you can give to anyone or thing, irreplaceable and invaluable. I hope he’s appreciating the gift. All things in relationships should be reciprocal. Is it his personality that makes him passionless? Your dynamics together ok? Is what you see a good fit for you as a whole? ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2012, 1:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/5 "2012-01-23T13:48:17Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about that situation. Something like that is always tough. The big thing to remember here is that these products are not magic - they will not amke anyone feel something that they do not feel already. It just helps you move that pre-inclined social interaction along. That being said, the product advice you got about IS/b, IH and Ishine is all good advice. The only other thing I would do is send tisha23 a pm asking for some advice. She is the expert of expert and could really aim you in the right direction fromm a female perspective. Plus she is a darn good relationship/behavior expert also. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2012, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/6 "2012-02-02T13:47:52Z")
Welcome to pherotalk beauty! I know its been a while but I hope you contacted Tisha. The products we have are good for communication, not sure which ones will send your partner wild. We have quite a few ladies in the female section who came to us with similar stories and they can let you know what products were used to drive their man over the edge. Your gc was issued!πŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![MusikAddikt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/musikaddikt/32/1576_2.png) [@MusikAddikt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MusikAddikt)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2012, 11:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/experiment-to-see-if-my-bf-is-just-not-attracted-to-me/54293/7 "2012-02-07T23:32:03Z")
> [@beauty28](#): > > I appreciate your suggestions. > We’ve been together over two years. The relationship was long distance at first. > When I moved here I think he started overthinking things and I started to stress out. > I just want to see if the phermones will help my mindset and the way I project myself a bit. > Thanks again. > πŸ™‚ Thrust an opened beer bottle into his hands as he walks through the front door! That might ease some stress out of his life πŸ˜› #everymansdreamlol