# Eye Candy: What we like in a man ... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 23, 2007, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732 "2007-01-23T15:07:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2007, 4:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/41 "2007-01-26T04:24:13Z")
> [@saraunne](#): > > Oh, and John Candy was a teddy bear. > > Actually to add on to that: > > I think it’s interesting to see how different men and women are with their likes and dislikes… and especially their insecurities. > > I will never have large breasts and luscious curves. I have a boyish figure, which is all well and good sometimes, but reading about how much men love breasts, butts, and long hair, I’m no serious candidate for instant eye candy. > > But at the same time, it’s not like I never get noticed. > > I have a friend who calls those kinds of people “second glance people.” You don’t notice them at first, but looking again, and you start to notice the little things. > > And in the end it’s about the notice, and the connection. > > And Lor – I agree. _Owning_ is so important. I remember I just wasn’t in the mood to wear anything glamorous when the girls and I were going out, so I just kept my Batman t-shirt on (no pheromones, either). I was hesitant about it, but my friend said to wear it and own it. And I did. And I had guys high fiving me all night, and I got huge grins from everybody – and that was FAR better than those hot stares and getting blatantly hit on. It felt good to be appreciated and admired in such a basic way, without any strings… as far as I know. **Well, Sara, not having large breasts doesn’t mean that you’re not SEXY!😉** **Men’s eyes are like “kaleidoscope”! Truly speaking, I found girls with exposed navels are sexy and it turns me on! Sorry, I didn’t mean to be rude or to offend anybody here, it’s just my likes/opinion.** 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2007, 12:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/42 "2007-01-31T12:27:34Z")
well i’ve got a practiced eye for noticing frames. But I also hang out with a lot of Bodybuilders. So from a “professional” eye - i look for symmetry and overall muscularity. But what gets me going? Initial attraction is to dark hair and dark eyes, but that never seems to be who i eventually find most appealing. My current guy is is blue-eyed with brown hair. I love big arms and shoulders, and big traps and forearms get me everytime. along with solid legs. I don’t have to see abs, but they are always nice. and a nice muscular butt. as far as personal style - i’m most comfortable with a cleancut, military type style. hair kept short or bald, no facial hair. As far as faces - i like symmetry - but not necessarily classically good looks. Just a face that pleases me. And good teeth. Good, clean straight teeth are important. ---
**Author:** ![saraunne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/saraunne/32/193_2.png) [@saraunne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saraunne)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2007, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/43 "2007-01-31T19:11:19Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > As far as faces - i like symmetry - but not necessarily classically good looks. Just a face that pleases me. And good teeth. Good, clean straight teeth are important. It’s so interesting that you used that word! Symmetry is the foundation of beauty. Which I find fascinating! Seriously. As is the space between the eyes. The farther apart the eyes, the more beautiful they are considered – and this is universal. And Mohammad – :o ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2007, 10:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/44 "2007-01-31T22:26:59Z")
it is funny how symmetry is almost hardwired right? i soemtimes look at people who’s faces i find appealing - and often look to see which features make them so appealing, and it’s often hard to tell - it’s just like all the pieces together are what make them beautiful. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2007, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/45 "2007-01-31T23:41:37Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > it is funny how symmetry is almost hardwired right? Actually, no it isn’t funny, but expected. Back in the days before MRI’s and PET scans, when we were running around with stone axes in animal skins “symmetry” meant “healthy”. Back then lack of health and disease would cause conditions that would destroy symmetry (e. g. swollen sinus cavities etc.), so the presence of symmetry meant that the individual had never suffered from those conditions and therefore was healthy enough to successfully reproduce and carry on the species. This is also why men continue to look for “curves”, e. g. enough fat to support breast feeding through lean times and wide hips (easy birth) etc. See, us guys being focused on “looks” isn’t because we’re “dirty dogs”, but because it’s built into our genes, and isn’t something to be “civilized out” after only a couple of thousand years. ---
**Author:** ![calian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/calian/32/413_2.png) [@calian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/calian)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 4:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/46 "2007-02-01T04:21:26Z")
For me, it’s the - Dark hair - Chiseled face (don’t mean a “model look” but close to it than round or long) - White teeth, pink gum - Abs abs abs!!! And because they work hard on that area they usually have that irrestible indentation on the lower back aka strong back 😃 - Deeper voice - Strong nose slightly “beaky” just like Carie said but not long nor flare - Masculine hands (they can get that from working out or working) -Pecks are an added bonus, usually perched on strong rounded butts 🆒 -Body hair on lower arms and legs, nowhere else 😉 - Adaptable to all sorts of occasions as far as clothing. I used to like men in suits (years ago) … it’s not easy to asses their builts under heavy clothing 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![bronzie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e274bd/32.png) [@bronzie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bronzie)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 4:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/47 "2007-02-01T04:28:11Z")
hahahaha nice thread want to know what most of us men want in a woman? motley crew I think said it, tits, ass and beer ---
**Author:** ![calian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/calian/32/413_2.png) [@calian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/calian)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/48 "2007-02-01T04:29:57Z")
LOL Bronzie… yup, and WE know it ha ha ha ---
**Author:** ![Matthew1982ct](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/matthew1982ct/32/1157_2.png) [@Matthew1982ct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Matthew1982ct)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 4:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/49 "2007-02-01T04:38:27Z")
And Bronzie - doesn’t need to be in that order either 😃 Matt ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/50 "2007-02-01T08:36:15Z")
> [@bronzie](#): > > hahahaha nice thread > > want to know what most of us men want in a woman? motley crew I think said it, tits, ass and beer well Bronzie, I think you missed “something” there!!😛 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 11:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/51 "2007-02-01T11:01:14Z")
Oh lordy, my ideal man: A renaissance man! Jack of all trades kind of guy, who can whisk me away into some aural soundscape fantasyland he builds with his guitar one second, then throw me out of a wwii prop plane the next. One who’s knowledgeable about nearly everything from the actual physics of the flux capacitor in your standard issue, time traveling delorean, to, hell, I dunno.. women’s lib movements of the 1960s. In a nutshell: a fascinating conversationalist. Very fun! Attractive is a guy I can keep pace with, or even outsmart. I chew on those guys like cud. Dead Sexy is a guy who’s got me beat on a bunch of levels and constantly challenges me, pushes me forward. Physically? I haven’t nailed this down yet. Don’t call me a cheese, but Tom Selleck?? What happened to REAL MEN who look and act like Tom Selleck!!! And oh, swoon… _Richard Branson_… Screw this metrosexual gobbledygook! What a _fad_. Justin Timberlake DEFINITELY is _not_ bringing sexy back. He’s making an atrocity (and some damned good jingles) out of it! Sure, well tailored, well groomed, sharkskin boot wearing pansy boys are nice and all.. (FOR DINNER!) but where’s the hairy guy with an axe who can carry you over his shoulder and shoot a bear at the same time? And do an argentinean tango. AND slice intricate patterns in the carpet with his samurai sword? ANNDD help little old ladies across the street, or open the car door for you? I’m old fashioned. 😛 I don’t think physical looks matter so much, just as long as you’re a LIONHEART! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/52 "2007-02-01T20:35:35Z")
> [@](#): > > Screw this metrosexual gobbledygook! What a _fad_. Justin Timberlake DEFINITELY is _not_ bringing sexy back. He’s making an atrocity (and some damned good jingles) out of it! Sure, well tailored, well groomed, sharkskin boot wearing pansy boys are nice and all.. (FOR DINNER!) but where’s the hairy guy with an axe who can carry you over his shoulder and shoot a bear at the same time? And do an argentinean tango. AND slice intricate patterns in the carpet with his samurai sword? ANNDD help little old ladies across the street, or open the car door for you? heh which X-Men _dude_ was everyones favorite? seriously, i never want to date a man prettier than me. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/53 "2007-02-01T21:08:46Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > heh which X-Men _dude_ was everyones favorite? > > seriously, i never want to date a man prettier than me. well bear in mind i sometimes feel like a gay man trapped in a woman’s body but for me it was nightcrawler, and i have a certain fondness for the gay iconography of old boy with the jeans, engineer boots and big old wings. hee hee. ---
**Author:** ![AKmedic](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/akmedic/32/1487_2.png) [@AKmedic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AKmedic)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 9:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/54 "2007-02-01T21:38:24Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > heh which X-Men _dude_ was everyones favorite? > > seriously, i never want to date a man prettier than me. Oh god… Hugh Jackman as Wolverine has got to be the hottest ever. I usually don’t like huge ripped guys, but damn is he sexy! ---
**Author:** ![Gem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Gem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gem)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/55 "2007-02-01T22:17:43Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > Screw this metrosexual gobbledygook! What a _fad_. Justin Timberlake DEFINITELY is _not_ bringing sexy back. He’s making an atrocity (and some damned good jingles) out of it! Sure, well tailored, well groomed, sharkskin boot wearing pansy boys are nice and all.. (FOR DINNER!) but where’s the hairy guy with an axe who can carry you over his shoulder and shoot a bear at the same time? And do an argentinean tango. AND slice intricate patterns in the carpet with his samurai sword? ANNDD help little old ladies across the street, or open the car door for you? _Gem quietly hides the jeans he customised himself with silk flowers, his womens bracelets, pink sparkly belt and eye liner_:o ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/56 "2007-02-01T22:36:31Z")
> [@](#): > > _Gem quietly hides the jeans he customised himself with silk flowers, his womens bracelets, pink sparkly belt and eye liner_:o HAHAHAHA… it’s okay Gem! You’re a PUA Extraordinaire… These peacocking doodads are perfectly fun! I mean.. c’mon… imagine how much fun I have when I infiltrate PUA lairs and play with all their necklaces and jinglies and shiny stuff! I always rip their necklaces out from under their buttons and unbutton their shirts enough so they show a sexy glint of chest hair, and say, “We want to touch you! GIVE US SOMETHING TO TOUCH!” Hell, if I Were a PUA, I would be the CHEESIEST. I’d get a gold plated milton bradley game or rubiks cube! and wear it around my neck. I would wear shoes by Swear and drive a monster truck mini cooper. Man, I would get so many negs about how my mother didn’t love me… > [@](#): > > heh which X-Men _dude_ was everyones favorite? > > seriously, i never want to date a man prettier than me. Are you serious? OK OK OK.. Omg, this question is sooo exciting to me. **Gambit.** Hands down. Remy LeBeau. Is. So. Hot. My lip totally quivers at the idea. Scott Summers is a pussy. Wolverine… _is sexy_ (but probably REEKS of -none). Beast _is sexy_. I… \*am dorky. - > [@](#): > > Oh god… Hugh Jackman as Wolverine has got to be the hottest ever. I usually don’t like huge ripped guys, but damn is he sexy! See, it’s cause he’s not a huge ripped guy, he’s a petite ripped guy with adamantium claws! ---
**Author:** ![saraunne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/saraunne/32/193_2.png) [@saraunne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saraunne)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 10:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/57 "2007-02-01T22:54:47Z")
Gambit – I can’t deny it. Those black eyes and that accent… and that crazy head thing with the wild hair – and that TRENCH COAT – forgive me while I melt. Wolverine is a far second – now that would be INTENSE. hee hee hee. Has anyone watched those online Brawny Man Innocent Escapes? Where he’s the perfect man and talking to you a la The Continental from SNL? [Innocent Escapes](http://www.brawnyman.com/innocentescapes/indexbroadband.html) There’s your axe man, Jasmin. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 1:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/58 "2007-02-02T01:42:31Z")
ooooh see thats what i expected to hear, yes gambit rocks but far more impressive is wolverine _compared_ to cyclops. gem, i dont even know what to say. part of me thinks you should continue to hide the jeans. the other part thinks you are indeed a **superhero** in other threads. _not this one,though_.😃 ---
**Author:** ![malacide](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malacide/32/925_2.png) [@malacide](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/malacide)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/59 "2007-02-02T01:43:27Z")
> [@saraunne](#): > > Gambit – I can’t deny it. Those black eyes and that accent… and that crazy head thing with the wild hair – and that TRENCH COAT – forgive me while I melt. > > Wolverine is a far second – now that would be INTENSE. hee hee hee. > > Has anyone watched those online Brawny Man Innocent Escapes? Where he’s the perfect man and talking to you a la The Continental from SNL? > > [Innocent Escapes](http://www.brawnyman.com/innocentescapes/indexbroadband.html) > > There’s your axe man, Jasmin. LMFAO mna he has a sexy voice lol(that is not gay in anyway… man i wouldnt mind being him for a day hahaha ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/60 "2007-02-02T01:45:12Z")
hmmm speaking of super heros, which ones would you like to get with,ladies??? is it indeed an x-men, or are the others more impressive? i must need help. i thought HELLBOY rocked…😮 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732.md?page=2) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732.md?page=4)