# Eye Candy: What we like in a man ... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 23, 2007, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732 "2007-01-23T15:07:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/81 "2007-07-07T19:37:09Z")
Wow.. I’m out on height… 5’ 7" ---
**Author:** ![no7ah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/no7ah/32/1890_2.png) [@no7ah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/no7ah)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/82 "2007-10-25T21:22:41Z")
> [@smn1234](#): > > Wow.. I’m out on height… 5’ 7" ha ha i know right. Sucks being short…er ---
**Author:** ![capaldi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c0e974/32.png) [@capaldi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/capaldi)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/83 "2007-10-25T22:01:41Z")
Funny…But so true… Every one of you girls is right… However…You dont have to be good looking to be attractive… Am I right? Ladies? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/84 "2007-10-25T22:25:56Z")
> [@capaldi](#): > > Funny…But so true… > > Every one of you girls is right… > > However…You dont have to be good looking to be attractive… > > Am I right? Ladies? Yes you are cap 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/85 "2007-10-25T23:18:09Z")
Ooh old thread, but I don’t think I weighed in on it. I like a nice V shape on a man. Broad shoulders that taper down to a trim waist, making a V. Scientists should do a study on those measurements just like they did on the women’s waist to hip ratio. Broad shoulders on a guy wearing a nice sweater. 😃 Hotttttttttttt. Sure a guy can be attractive without being good looking, just like a girl can. If you are naturally built and in great shape with a strong masculine looking face, you’re in luck. If not, you can make up for a lot by hitting the gym and dressing well. ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2007, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/86 "2007-10-27T22:33:12Z")
“V” shape, heh? Maybe if I stand on my head… Reminds me of the way those characters look on TV “Legion of Superheros” cartoon show (eg Superman - both of them). Have to turn sideways to go through door… . ---
**Author:** ![no7ah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/no7ah/32/1890_2.png) [@no7ah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/no7ah)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2007, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/87 "2007-10-27T23:09:44Z")
ha ha interesting ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2007, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/88 "2007-10-30T00:37:23Z")
SteveO is HOT ---
**Author:** ![no7ah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/no7ah/32/1890_2.png) [@no7ah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/no7ah)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2007, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/89 "2007-10-30T00:53:41Z")
ha ha right ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2007, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/90 "2007-10-30T02:14:35Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > SteveO is HOT Sizzling hot!! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![no7ah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/no7ah/32/1890_2.png) [@no7ah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/no7ah)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2007, 2:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/91 "2007-10-30T02:41:16Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Sizzling hot!! 😉 Better get on it before he’s taken ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2007, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/92 "2007-10-30T02:43:28Z")
uuh, I think SteveO is _taken_ every which way from Sunday! He’s so taken he has no time for sleep! ---
**Author:** ![no7ah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/no7ah/32/1890_2.png) [@no7ah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/no7ah)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2007, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/93 "2007-10-30T02:45:44Z")
So you’re saying you tried lol kidding ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2007, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/94 "2007-11-16T22:51:36Z")
> [@Carrie](#): > > uuh, I think SteveO is _taken_ every which way from Sunday! He’s so taken he has no time for sleep! Some say he should be taken away… Everybody sing!: “Away away I’m going away with the men in the little white coats…” ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/95 "2007-11-17T00:16:30Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Sizzling hot!! 😉 …and your avatar is making him “losing concentration” on his work!😃 ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/96 "2007-11-17T00:20:06Z")
> [@Carrie](#): > > uuh, I think SteveO is _taken_ every which way from Sunday! He’s so taken he has no time for sleep! He must be the “luckiest” man on the west coast!😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 1:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/97 "2007-11-17T01:15:16Z")
You have no idea how hard he works to keep this place running smooth. I have a whole new respect for him. Man he has a really sexy voice to LOL 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![no7ah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/no7ah/32/1890_2.png) [@no7ah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/no7ah)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/98 "2007-11-17T01:23:48Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Man he has a really sexy voice to LOL 😉 > > Tisha Creepy… lol ---
**Author:** ![happytolive](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/eb9ed0/32.png) [@happytolive](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happytolive)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/99 "2007-11-17T14:26:31Z")
I think I’m fairly good in the looks department, and I am to some extent a “jack of all trades”, it’s the personality part that confuses me. I’m fairly outgoing and confident, quite sociable etc. but it seems that I always attract the girls that I’m NOT going for. 🙂 **What is a woman’s fantasy for a guy they’ve never met?** For example: At my college I see plenty of good looking girls who might be sitting and drinking coffee by themselves. Often I see the same few girls sitting by themselves, and I’m actually thinking of a few right now that have glanced over at me when I am sitting at my table. How would you react if a guy just came over, asked to sit, and told you that he has noticed you and wants to find out more about you. I’m not afraid of rejection but I just don’t want to come across as a creep or build a reputation of being a womanizer. **What exactly are the IOI’s?** For example: Girls give out the most subtle IOI’s that I honestly can never pick them up. A guy’s IOI is if you catch him glancing at you every 30 seconds. What are a women’s IOI’s? From what I understand, one IOI is if you make eye contact, hold it, and then when they turn away they prep themselves or fix their hair etc…What are some others? **What do girls think of a guy who is persistent?** For example: I’m sure we all hear this alllll the time but I still really really like my ex-girlfriend. We broke up several months ago from a not-that-serious and short relationship, but I still want her, and not any other girl! About 3 months after I told her that I still love her and want her and not any of the girls. After I told her that I stopped trying to pursue her, get with her etc, and just became a friend. Right now, we are good friends and have a fun relationship. I haven’t made any sort of advances on her. She knows I still like her, and I will ask her on a “date” again in the near future. What do women think of a guy like this? I am not going to sit around waiting for her, but wow, I would love to just comfort her! ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732/100 "2007-11-17T20:15:28Z")
> [@happytolive](#): > > **What is a woman’s fantasy for a guy they’ve never met?** Just wear your pheromones and go up to the girl and say “Hi, I’m xx.” If you act as if you approach beautiful women all the time, she will go with it. The smoothest pickup line I’ve experienced was one time when I was at Dunn Bros to use the wireless connection. A guy (30s, nicely dressed) came up to my table. He’d been staring at me, so I assumed he was interested. Then all he said was, “Are you using this chair?” Great. I played it off by getting really interested in my computer and said he could have the chair. Then he sat down right there and introduced himself. He turned out to be an arrogant, salesy type and I gave him a fake email. But great approach. > [@](#): > > **What exactly are the IOI’s?** Smiling is the best IOI. If she can’t manage that, she’s probably a bit too shy or immature to be playing the game. > [@](#): > > **What do girls think of a guy who is persistent?** My advice would be to be extremely up front and unambiguous with her–in word and action–about what kind of relationship you want. Even if it might make her temporarily mad or upset. If you aren’t sure what you want, don’t subject her to your confusion. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732.md?page=4) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/eye-candy-what-we-like-in-a-man/1732.md?page=6)