# Family

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 9, 2008, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721 "2008-06-09T19:37:55Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 13\
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**Author:** ![Mallower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bbce88/32.png) [@Mallower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mallower)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/1 "2008-06-09T19:37:55Z")

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**Author:** ![Edx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/4da419/32.png) [@Edx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Edx)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/2 "2008-06-09T19:39:48Z")

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Havent noticed anything around my parents, so far. But its only been a week so. . .

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**Author:** ![Mallower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bbce88/32.png) [@Mallower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mallower)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/3 "2008-06-09T19:40:38Z")

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> [@Edx](#):
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> Havent noticed anything around my parents, so far. But its only been a week so. . .

Oh thank god ^^.

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/4 "2008-06-09T19:53:16Z")

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These products have the power to affect anyone who is around them - family included. You will not have to dig too deep to find all kinds of stories.

Now with that being siad two reactions in particular come to mind say other than the ones we expect given the products we are using.

First - many of the people who know us best over a long period of time and with whom we have set relationships, patterns of behavior, etc. can be those who are affected least. While they may “sense” something different about you, the set relationship will outweigh that change in your phero-signature and everything will remain the same.

Second - some people who know us well - parents - especially moms - and spouses sometimes pick up on the change in phero-signature and can react with something between irritation and suspicion. Both my and LaurieNY’s mom reacted with visible irritation when they were first around us wearing [pheromones](https://a314.com/). My mom blamed it on my cologne. But she got used to the changes and is now fine with it.

My wife and Tisha’s husband reacted with suspicion. “What is goin on with my spouse - something has changed and I cannot put my finger on it” kinda thing - mostly looks. Nothing verbal with my wife. But they adjusted too after a couple weeks.

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/5 "2008-06-09T20:34:42Z")

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Personally, I would avoid the targeted Female specific hormones, (Turn Up The Heat, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), AMMO Etc)  
my mother only commented on how good I smelled, with a drop of A314 and squirt of Instant Honesty.

But then I have been wearing Realm and Pheralure around her for years. (but mainly in passing, not when I was planning on being at her house for hours)

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/6 "2008-06-09T21:36:21Z")

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Not all that much. Mostly I got “wow… you look great in that shirt” or “Are those new glasses?” type reactions It does influence their behavior some, but not as much as strangers or people that don’t know you well.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/7 "2008-06-09T22:28:40Z")

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Your mother may notice a change in your pheromone signature. She knows your natural one even though its not a conscious thought. Remember you have been bonding with your mom since birth with your pheromones. Its part of how babies can recognise there moms

My Mom picked up on it right away but couldn’t place it. She just knew there was something different about me.

My dad may of but he didn’t say anything.

My siblings 2 brothers didn’t notice, My sister who I am close to did and kept asking me what I was up to. She seemed to think I found a new beauty product that was working wonders for me and holding out on her LOL

Your siblings or Parents will not become sexually attracted to you in any way if you wear the more [sexual pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) around them. They may think you getting some though LOL

My husband was just confused at first. Not really agitated but he couldn’t place why he was getting this new vibe from me. He asked questions like “new hairdo” “New blouse” stuff like that. Then he began to react when he became more comfortable with the pheromone signature.

I have to admit my mother said I smelled like a french whore when I was around her and I used alot of copulins LOL She got over it.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Jasx69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasx69/32/2413_2.png) [@Jasx69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasx69)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/8 "2008-06-09T22:45:13Z")

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> I have to admit my mother said I smelled like a french whore when I was around her and I used alot of copulins LOL She got over it.

French Whore LOL 😛

Your Mother sounds like a hoot to get along with no wonder you spend soo much time with her 🙂 French Whore LOL 😛

Becarefull of [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) around family members, either yourself or someone else say’s something especially if it’s a big family and they end up regretting it and even after the apologies are accepted things are never the same again.

“J”

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/9 "2008-06-09T23:03:13Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> My Mom picked up on it right away but couldn’t place it. She just knew there was something different about me.
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> I have to admit my mother said I smelled like a french whore when I was around her and I used alot of copulins LOL She got over it.

LOL. And we thought she was walking up and down delivering the mail.😮 😛

😃 J/K Tish - ya know I love ya.😃

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/10 "2008-06-09T23:03:37Z")

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Instant Honesty in low amouts doesn’t seem to cause any problems with my family. If anything, we seem to get along better. I only use 1 spray or so, though. People usually talk to each other honestly, whereas some of my other family members have a nasty habit of skirting around issues and being defensive about things. Your mileage may vary. I don’t think the average family needs Instant Honesty though, probably not the best idea. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) just causes people to chitchat.

My mom also did not pick up on wearing pheromones at all, but I did tell her first I was studying up on “self improvement”. I eventually told her, and it is our secret. My brother just thinks I have “Jedi mind tricks” and doesn’t believe pheromones work.

The cat sometimes acts a little wierd around me, depending on what I wear, though - he’s an “omega”, a “fraidy cat”. We got him some pheromones to try out too (feline facial pheromones), going to see what they do. I sprayed him with some and he sat there dazed for a minute or two sniffing the air and himself, then started cleaning himself. I don’t think he will change his habits all that quickly. I put some on his favorite spots to see if he’d stay there more often, as well. He was really bullied by the other male cat we had, it was very funny becaues the alpha cat was sickly and weighed half of what the other cat does, but he really kicked his ass alot (both were spayed). See guys, size doesn’t always matter. (and BTW, female cats get along alot better… though they tend to become really “bitchy”, that’s what my aunt used to joke about (actually, she called them witches, but I don’t want to offend Tisha), and you could see it- they became very protective of each other, and sometimes even hostile to strangers).

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 9, 2008, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/11 "2008-06-09T23:07:19Z")

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> (feline facial pheromones),

Really where did you get them, I want some for my kitties. 😛

My cats dont like copulins or anone. They will jump on my dresser and swat them away. If I put them on in there presense they will give me a insulted look and leave the room LOL

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/12 "2008-06-10T01:45:56Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> My cats dont like copulins or Androstenone. They will jump on my dresser and swat them away. If I put them on in there presence they will give me a insulted look and leave the room LOL
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> Tisha

Speaking of pets, my Amazon parrot knows when I am up to something and she wants to cuddle and flirts with me (preening my hair, picking at my ear, nails or anything close to her) she wants to be on my shoulder and cuddle under my chin, or if laying on the couch she wants to be right in my face.

She went bonkers when I put on some TUTH the other night, with elevated reactions when I had AMMO on. Yes, pets are family too.

No direct connection to IH or A314, but she does still squawk her fool head off when I leave the room.

This weekend, A friend’s dogs, a female Standard poodle, who typically does not care for guys, sat on my feet and let me scratch her head. When I was over at their house, she typically stays 2-5 feet away from me without taking her eyes off me and will not let me make contact. Their Male lab growled and barked at me until I told him to go lay down (marking his owner’s tone, thus establishing me as the Alpha Male, he laid down in his crate) (The lab is fixed, the poodle is not)  
I had on A314 and IH, but they had been applied 8-10 hours earlier. So I would credit weak A314 for their reactions.

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/family/13721/13 "2008-06-10T03:28:28Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> Really where did you get them, I want some for my kitties. 😛
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> My cats dont like copulins or Androstenone. They will jump on my dresser and swat them away. If I put them on in there presense they will give me a insulted look and leave the room LOL
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> Tisha

I got them at PetSmart. You’ve got one of those near you? They are next to the odor removers and other things like that. They have some electronic diffusers, too. I bought the $14 spray, the electronic doo-dads are about 40-50 bucks plus the cost of the refills, which last over a month or so of continuous usage. It’s suppossed to be good to reduce anxiety and “marking” of territory.

Our cat is really omega, big time. I’ll have to see if it actually works well with him. He’s terrified by alot of cat toys (the feather fishing poles- our older cat used to like those). He hates the smell of androstenone, it terrifies him in large amounts. I will try spraying a toy with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) one of these days and see what it does to him. He really like to come out mostly at night, he’s much more sociable… and he’s terrified of lightening and thunder.

I noticed a dog at Petsmart was barking at me. I was wearing pheromones, and sort of worried it was going to hump my leg or something 😮 Then the woman leading it around called it a female name and reffered to it as “she”, but I was only partly relieved. It was really, really interested in me and kept trying to get near me. As I was wearing copulins today for kicks/experiment, I was worried it would be a _lesbian_ dog (LOL) 🙂 Maybe she just wanted to smell my hand, like alot of dogs do. She seemed very high strung and nervous, definitely needed some Cesar Millan- “dominance” and “submissive” 🙂
