# Favourite guy's not responding to me

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [August 1, 2009, 2:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188 "2009-08-01T14:05:17Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![mudskipper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9e8a1a/32.png) [@mudskipper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mudskipper)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 2:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/1 "2009-08-01T14:05:17Z")

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Hi there everyone! My friend who I have liked for a few months doesn’t seem to be able to talk to me as much now, I want him to be able to relate to me a little more. Do you think [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will help? Or does it only work on friends who already chat alot everyday and want more details.. I got a travel size Instant Honesty 2X and an Instant Sexiness A travel size too, are those good? =) I hope it’s worth the price coz it’s my first time using, and the shipping costs are like almost moer than the products themselves! (I’m in Melbourne)  
Is there a way to keep the pheromones going to one specific person only, and not having other guys coming up to me, coz there’s someone rather buggy and I hope it doesn’t agitate him anymore with these scents! Lol!  
Hope you guys in this forum can help me out a little here! Thanks alot!

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**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/2 "2009-08-01T14:12:20Z")

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> [@mudskipper](#):
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> Hi there everyone! My friend who I have liked for a few months doesn’t seem to be able to talk to me as much now, I want him to be able to relate to me a little more. Do you think Instant Honesty will help? Or does it only work on friends who already chat alot everyday and want more details..

If you want something to improve conversation there are 2 really good social phero’s….. **[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)** and **Instant Honesty**. Both of these work really well in relaxing you and the people around you, making you chattier. IO increases the _quantity_ of conversation, whereas IH increases the _quality_ of conversation. With IH you’ll feel closer and more intimate with the person you are talking to and it’s great for relationships.

Just remember that you have the 2x version of IH, don’t over-do it with the dose or you may end up with verbal diarrhoea 😉

Read the stickies about the basic phero’s & how to find your sweet spot

> [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258):
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> Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to …

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> **Finding your sweet spot or dosage.**
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> **Always start with one product at a time. You want to see exactly what effect you get from it and how much your dosage range is. This will make layering easier later.**
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> **Day 1… Try one spray, note any self effects, go out, look for behavior changes in others and direct hits.**
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> **Day 2 … Use two sprays, note self effect, go out, do the same look for behavoir changes and hits.**
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> **Day 3… if you still have not seen anything go to three sprays and repeat the process. I you did begn to see some effects still use the 3 sprays to see if increasing can make hits more pronounced.**
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> **Day 4 … Still more testing with the same product, Now you are testing application points. We are all built different and diffuse differently from our bodies.**
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> **Hair, Back of neck, Neck, Pulse points, chest, stomach, wrists, forearms.**
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> **In colder months if you covered up. Back of hands. Cloths if absolutly necessary. pheromones dont diffuse well from cloth though.**
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> **This whole process should take about a week or a little under. Then move to the next product.**
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> **After you tested each on its own you can make combos by layering the products.**
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> **Tisha**

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**Author:** ![mudskipper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9e8a1a/32.png) [@mudskipper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mudskipper)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/3 "2009-08-01T14:18:13Z")

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lol you’re so cute! Verbal Diarrhoea! I’m so NERVOUSSSS… I hope he really starts opening up about his private life to me! but that’s definitely needing a quiet place by ourselves too right! ^^ Is there anyone you know that’s from Melbourne? I guess the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) has to wait till I actually get him to talk properly with me! There’s always so many additional “lightbulbs” around us during class.. urgh!

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**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2009, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/4 "2009-08-03T19:16:16Z")

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Ask him if he wants to go get some coffee (tea) after class.😉

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**Author:** ![mudskipper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9e8a1a/32.png) [@mudskipper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mudskipper)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2009, 6:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/5 "2009-08-04T06:11:17Z")

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> [@Mtnjim](#):
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> Ask him if he wants to go get some coffee (tea) after class.😉

I KNOW!!!We do eat with the other friends once in a while, so that’s a great time to start chatting right?!Mtnjim’s a young guy aren’t you,so you know what will work!Will you start to dramatise your actions with your friends a little but not childishly, if you knew a girl liked you?He’s been doing a bit more to stand out I guess, very little and subtle but i can tell he’s slightly different in behaviour these few days. I was wondering maybe he might like me a teeny weeny little bit, but you know, don’t get hopes too high else disappointment will be a smash on your head.Will you do that to hopefully make the girl like you even more?In that case the change is for boosting your own ego and making her notice you more instead of unknowingly being attracted to her.

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**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/6 "2009-08-04T19:33:50Z")

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> [@mudskipper](#):
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> I KNOW!!!We do eat with the other friends once in a while,

I meant just the two of you. It would give you an answer depending if he said yes or no. If he said yes, it would give you an opportunity to charm him.🙄

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> Mtnjim’s a young guy aren’t you,so you…

Well, I don’t know your age, but to some 60 (61 in Sept) is still young.😃

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**Author:** ![mudskipper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9e8a1a/32.png) [@mudskipper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mudskipper)\
**Post date:** [August 5, 2009, 2:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/7 "2009-08-05T14:30:27Z")

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hehe, i’ll try to find time for us alone then!Heex, you’re the same age as my dad!!! who’s still young at heart! lol! i’ll just use IS/a with IH2X and see how it goes 🙂 waiting for it to arrive! how long does it take normally to reach other countries do you know?

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**Author:** ![BLADE](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blade/32/2083_2.png) [@BLADE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BLADE)\
**Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/8 "2009-08-07T00:57:48Z")

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Hiya Mudskipper

My orders have ususally arrived within 4 days - apart from one that went on a little tour of America first courtesy of DHL 🙂

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**Author:** ![mudskipper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9e8a1a/32.png) [@mudskipper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mudskipper)\
**Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 5:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/9 "2009-08-07T05:03:26Z")

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thanks blade! I’ve just placed my first time orders just now with the gift coupon too. Finally a confirmed batch that I really can bear spending on! Got myself To Gos. Do lots of Melbournians use mones? I’m looking for fellow people here! You started using not long ago too right? May 2009 join date 🙂))  
I hope DHL doesn’t give my very very first order a free tour! Cant wait. YIPS!

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**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/favourite-guys-not-responding-to-me/31188/10 "2009-08-09T01:02:18Z")

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Hey Mudskipper,

I’m not a Melburnian, I’m a Sydneysider. There do seem to be a few Aussies scattered around the boards.

Edit: I ordered on Friday and DHL reckons it at the Sydney facility already! And my last order got here fast too. So your order should be quick. I know how excited you feel 🙂
