# Female adult industry worker, UK. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 2, 2007, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097 "2007-12-02T18:40:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/1 "2007-12-02T18:40:49Z")
Hi! I hope my profession doesn’t offend anyone. Its legal where I live. I’m an erm, professional ‘companion’ 🙂 I take an interest in science and chemistry etc and became curious about phermones. I’ve worked in the adult industry in various different ways. One of those ways, years ago involved working for a ‘sit in’ escort agency - where customers would arrive and choose a girl in person. One of the girls was nothing much to look at, but no-one else was in with a chance of earning a penny till she had gone out on a job! So I became curious about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) 😕 Anyway, the reason I’m here today is because I’d like to change the way customers respond to me. I give off a masculine vibe. Its nothing to do with the way I look. I’m petite, with long girly hair and a feminine face. I get chosen on the basis of photos, emails, and a phone conversations - no meeting in person until later. Guys feel at ease with me because I know all about IT and mechanics and various traditionally male things and so they tend to relate to me as if I were another guy. This has two effects.. 1. Clients want to talk and talk and I dont feel justified charging them several hundred an hour for that - I’d rather get down to Business a bit sooner. But, I dont want anything that would make a new client too agressively Up For It Instantly - as there is always the possibilty I might want to make a fast exit should something feel out of place in the first 20 minutes or so. I would also like to encourage more clients to make regular appointments (I’ve had some regular clients for 15 years now and I can experiment a bit more with these) but more regulars would be nice. 1. A male friend I’d like to get intimate with treats me as one of the boys - while casting sidelong glances full of longing and trying to sneek a peek at my breasts **when he thinks I’m not looking!** He is one of those people who suppresses his emotions by keeping himself frantically busy. He wants some, I can tell, but he just won’t admit it to himself! It seems to me he is trying to get me to jump on him so it will look like its all my idea, while I want him to come straight out and either ask, or make a move. Suggestions for products to try welcome! ---
**Author:** ![ayash\_m](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ayash_m/32/1501_2.png) [@ayash\_m](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ayash_m)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/2 "2007-12-02T19:11:07Z")
hi there, i’m as now here as you are… I read that instant honesty might do the trick… glad to have you here 🙂… as soon as you get your order and try them, it’d be nice to here your stories… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/3 "2007-12-02T19:19:23Z")
Hello Felicity, Welcome to the forum. That was a great first posting and you will not only get lots of advice for having taken the time to write such a thourough introduction, but SteveO should be by sometime to send out a $15.00 Gift Certificate to help you get started. I would probably suggest something like [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), which will give you and those around you a “Feel Good” effect. That should get the guys looking more toward you than the others when coming in to pick their girl, as you put it. After all, who doesn’t want to feel good? Instant Sexiness can hep make guys see you as more sexy and desireable, and also make you feel more sexy as well. There are 2 variations on it: version A and B. The A version should give you a sexy, strong and confident feeling and aura about you. While the B version is more of a girly, kitten type mix. You might also try Lust After Me, or EOW which can be found over at LS. Both contain copulins and will make guys want to get down to business, as you put it. The Instant Sexiness and Instant Shine can also help push your guy in the direction of making a move. If not add a couple drops of Lust After Me, and give him a wink or two, and I’m sure some of the ladies will also drop in to offer their suggestions. You have found a great source for information on pheros, and a terrific group of people who are always willing to help. Once again, welcome to our little corner of the net. ---
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/4 "2007-12-02T19:38:35Z")
Thanks for the great welcome! I should mention a few things. I no longer sit there waiting to be chosen - its all done with web pages these days, so I don’t have any ‘competitors’ in that sense. I did recently double my prices though, so I might try that one that increases status 😕 I chatter away like anything. I’m also a bit scatterbrained and dopey. Whatever that [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) is that makes you all spacey - I produce a ton of it naturally I think ☹ I’m O negative blood type. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 7:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/5 "2007-12-02T19:45:51Z")
You’re welcome Felicity. MX134 is the product you are looking for to increase your status and respect. Here’s what Tisha has to say about it: > [@24 year old woman from New York City: newbie with a few questions slight\_smile](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/24-year-old-woman-from-new-york-city-newbie-with-a-few-questions/7037/4): > > I also think that [MX134](https://pheromonelabs.com/) would be great. Its the womens version of A314 and I find it makes people more accommadating. They take you more seriously. By the way, Tisha is kind of the all knowing when it comes to pheros. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![DrZorters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@DrZorters](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrZorters)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/6 "2007-12-02T19:55:04Z")
Welcome to the forum Fela! Check out the womens forum for more detailed info on each product. I would think I Sexy and Lust would be good for your job. I am sort of a heterosexual male prostitute here in the US. It is only a Hobie though. It is illegal to charge for my services here in the US. It is like giving to charity.lol. As for your male Friend you are interested in, tell him you would like to try out a few new techniques and get his feedback before you use them on a client. Men love to be asked for their opinion.lol. DrZorters ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/7 "2007-12-02T22:55:56Z")
Hello Felicity, Welcome to the forum 🙂 Ok so you want something rather sexual that is not overbearing so you can bail when needed. Instant sexiness A would be very good to start with. Just enough cops to arouse but not enough to make them animalistic. Strong and confident as well so you can say “Back off bucko” if the need arises and be taken seriously. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) because I like it LOL 😃 No really its a good product. Very mood enhancing, uplifting, youthful, attracting… Course they cant smell it over the web site but once they meet you and feel great around you they will be back again. 😉 If you promise to come back and give feedback on the products I will suggest MX109 from the drive him crazy series. I have had a few male friends who were exposed to this both in the bottle and on me and my friend and although when I tested it earlier and didnt notice much results I later found out that it really was driving them crazy LOL. One guy even requested that I spray his wife with some before they went home after a party. (snort) I believe in a enviroment where men dont have to hold back like the party I was at its fantastic. MX134 as Mark suggested is great. Its a respect mone, the womens version of A314. Has a touch of cops in it if I recall correctly. It really does make people more accomadating and eager to please. Lam is hard to say at this point. Its androtics big cop mix and can cause some stronger reactions then your looking for. I would save that for a later purchase if you find you enjoy the other products and want to have the option of upping the reactions a bit. If you have any questions just ask. Steveo will be around with the GC’s soon. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/8 "2007-12-02T23:46:22Z")
Oh - thanks for that! I can turn up the pressure sometimes - in fact its not a bad idea as some of my clients are rather elderly and it would be good to give them a bit of ‘help’ 🙂 I seem to attract older customers. I won’t see anyone who is married, in a hotel or at my place, so my customers tend to be divorced / widowed and living alone - therefore older. Plus I’m quite old myself for this job (43 - but look 30) and older clients tend to feel stupid with a 20 year old. I’ll report back too. Some of these guys I know very well indeed. I’ll soon detect any change in behaviour. \>Strong and confident as well so you can say “Back off bucko” if the need arises and be taken seriously. Well, in years and years I’ve only fled twice. Both times I wasn’t in any danger (he was - for annoying me). But theoretically, it is always a possibililty and I have to bear it in mind. I’ve had more trouble in ‘respectable’ jobs though. No-one quakes in their boots about what a receptionist might do to them ☹ \> MX134 Sadly out of stock. So is [Lust After Me](https://phera.com/product/lust-after-me/). \>MX109…Has a touch of cops in it if I recall correctly. It really does make people more accomadating and eager to please. Added to cart and checked out already. Eagerness to please is a valuable quality in a client 🙂 F. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 5:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/9 "2007-12-03T05:15:57Z")
I’m surprised no one has yet recommended you try straight copulins. Essence of Woman from LS is generally well though of, and a google search on copulins should turn up other vendors. I think these simple compuonds have a strong effect, and would certainly help get a gal picked out of a line-up. Tisha has apparently had some success with some of the “drive him crazy” series. I tested this whole series by having my wife wear them, and didn’t notice much of anything. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/10 "2007-12-03T05:52:55Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > You might also try Lust After Me, or EOW which can be found over at [love-scents.com](http://love-scents.com). Both contain copulins and will make guys want to get down to business, as you put it. Hey Gone WIth The Wind, I did make that suggestion in my first posting to Felicity. Although I did error in the URL, it’s actually LS ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 6:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/11 "2007-12-03T06:09:03Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > Hey Gone WIth The Wind, I did make that suggestion in my first posting to Felicity. Although I did error in the URL, it’s actually lS I see it now. Guess I should stop drinking and posting. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![flaming](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flaming/32/212_2.png) [@flaming](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flaming)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/12 "2007-12-03T06:20:31Z")
welcome felicity, you should still be able to pick up a togo of [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/13 "2007-12-03T06:32:49Z")
Welcome to the forum. We are an open bunch here and are wiling to help just about anybody. Well I’m a bit tired after a long weekend and a new babe in my life and tons of work. I’ve had to type this twice already because the typos. I’m sending you on the GC. Have fun’ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 9:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/14 "2007-12-03T09:49:21Z")
No I didnt suggest EOW for two reasons, Number one is her statement below. > [@](#): > > But, I dont want anything that would make a new client too agressively Up For It Number 2 is I never suggest someone buy from another company in the intro forum. Thats just my own pet peeve. I will talk about something they already have though. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/15 "2007-12-03T13:27:50Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > I see it now. > > Guess I should stop drinking and posting. > > 😃 Naw, I’d been drinking too, and when I saw your post, had to go back and have another look myself, cause I swore I did mention EOW. 😃 But I didn’t hit hard on it because she had said something of not wanting to make the guys to aggressive. ---
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/16 "2007-12-03T14:50:22Z")
Thanks for all the replies! Y’all sure know a lot! I did a lot of reading round after I posted. And after some thought I decided something more aggressive would be called for under certain circumstances (just not with new clients). I therefore did order some EOW, and from the store here - anything I thought might come in handy. Then last night a male friend of mine came round. A _married_ friend. Now this friend seems to think he isn’t married around me. Like his wife is suddenly propelled into an alternate universe. I love the guy dearly, but my hand is getting sore from all the slappage I’ve been issuing, and I wondered.. Does anyone know of anything that will cool a guys ardour without giving out threat signals - something so his nose reads you as non-sexual? Its a pain when you walk down the street in a skimpy outfit because its sunny, and you get a little too much attention - or when a friend wants something he isnt going to be getting. I’m thinking a chemical way of preventing awkward social situations would be cool. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 5:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/17 "2007-12-03T17:48:17Z")
> [@Felicity](#): > > …Does anyone know of anything that will cool a guys ardour without giving out threat signals - something so his nose reads you as non-sexual? > … That’s a tough one. Maybe dog excrement? 😉 Seriously, one of the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) like alpha or beta Androstenol (in io and Instant Honesty) may turn the interaction more towards conversational sharing. ---
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2007, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/18 "2007-12-03T18:21:12Z")
There is slight problem with your suggestion:- Much of his conversation is about One Thing 🙂 Hm. I wonder what would happen if I ponged of manly pheromones? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2007, 12:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/19 "2007-12-04T00:29:31Z")
> [@](#): > > I’m thinking a chemical way of preventing awkward social situations would be cool. You can try mace (snort) Just kidding 😃 Well if you wear to much anone which is one of the guys products it does make them back off but only because it turns most girls into a cranky bitch. A small amount on a girl can actually attract some guys and sex really intense for both of you. ARone which is in IG and A314 may be a better choice. My friends husband has A314 and when we want the male supervisors to just leave us the hell alone (not just sexually but in all ways) we use a little of his A314 and it seems to do the trick. ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2007, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097/20 "2007-12-04T03:33:51Z")
Well, interesting questions and situation. 🙂 Welcome, Felicity. I feel I’m an expert on your job because I saw a few episodes of the ITV show, Secret Diary of a Call Girl. 😉 Sex and money at the same time! Lucky you, is all I can say. So from pheromones you want a little something extra, a feminine vibe, not immediately sexual, and not overly chatty. I would also imagine that while you want repeat custom, you don’t want your clients falling in love with you. This would rule out heavy copulins (EoW) because they are very sexual. It’d also rule out alpha and beta androstenol (Instant Openness and Instant Honesty) because they encourage chitchat. And although EST is great for older people, wearing it can lead to long term commitment talk. There are a lot of other interesting putatives and mixes I’d love to recommend for you. But I can’t do that until you’ve tried and posted about the instant products. I hope you will do so. Once you know what you are doing, you can tailor your pheromone combinations just like putting on a costume. Sticking to the Instant line: My first professional recommendation is Instant Sexiness because it will boost your mood and will give you a certain star quality. Second recommendation is Instant Shine because it improves communication and makes men happy, without causing too-much-information or motormouth syndromes. Regarding your crush, standard recommendations: [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), Instant Sexiness, and at the right time, added copulins. Regarding a turn off pheromone: I’ve yet to hear of one. There is an advanced “respect” mix that I quite like, MX134. With MX134, the sexier the outfit I wear, the more men seem to treat me like a goddess. But MX134 is still an advanced product at this point. Do report back in the Ladies forum when you receive your products. You have a unique testing situation, and I think many of us would be quite open to and interested in your pheromone adventures. Best, Kitten [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-adult-industry-worker-uk/7097.md?page=2)