# Female RI, giving mones a shot **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 4, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820 "2008-10-04T19:07:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/1 "2008-10-04T19:07:30Z")
Well, here I am. 40, female from RI, just bought TAH and IS/A last night. I wanted to give [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) a shot because I’ve become pretty shy this last few years and more introverted, which I never was before. I guess life changes a person even though there are a lot of people believe that people don’t change. Well, maybe not who they are, I guess, but how they relate with the world. I’m not looking for some miracle from the pheromones, just a little boost in confidence and maybe a little boost in attention. Just enough to help me relax a little and come out of my shell or be a little more comfortable. It’s so strange to have become shy and introverted and private when I never was for most of my life. Just over the last 3 -5 years. I guess if you come across enough people that aren’t trustworthy or point out your flaws, that happens over time. Made me not want to even bother with people, but I think it’s time to change that because this way doesn’t seem to be working well for me. It feels isolated. Yuck. So here’s to any little boost IS/A and TAH can give me. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/2 "2008-10-04T19:19:43Z")
Hi starlitegirl, welcome to the forum! Good choices, you might also want to look into adding [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) at some later time, it’ll help get people to talk to you if you’re shy. As you say, trusting people is part of it. Listen to your instincts. Also, make sure to read the sticky threads in the Women’s section, Good luck here! ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/3 "2008-10-04T19:47:51Z")
Hello starlitegirl! Welcome to our community. As Robbie has suggested, IO will probably suit your situation. Also consider IH or even CTTM 2 (which I understand is a combination of alpha and beta androstenols, which are the substances in IO and IH respectively). Good luck 😃 ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/4 "2008-10-04T19:54:06Z")
Nice to see your intro starlitegirl! Welcome to the forum! Interesting first purchase there with the TAH and IS(A) which is mostly TAL. You should be able to find something with those that works for you. You may also want to try Instant Shine and like Robbie suggested, Instant Openess. Instant Shine gives a youthful, fun, upbeat, confident vibe to not only those around you, but also to yourself as well. It’ll give you a boost! The Instant Openess will really help to draw people to you establish the connection you’re wanting to revive. It will probably help bring you out of your shell too! My favorite combo is Instant Sexiness, Instant Shine, and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) (which usually results in deeper conversations than Openess) and I feel really confident, sexy, and “popular” when wearing these. Good luck and keep us posted with your adventures! ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/5 "2008-10-04T20:04:54Z")
Wow! Everyone here is so friendly and helpful. I think I love this forum! I’m considering making another order of CTTM2 and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). The links for Instant Shine always bring me to the Men’s for some reason. I think I even tried it through the women’s spray link and it brought me to the men’s. Oh wait, I just checked and the Instant Shine that’s under the women’s spray link is for men. Can someone check on that? Here’s the link to it: [Spray Pheromones :: Androtics Direct/SmartMones](https://a314.com/) Does the men’s version work for women too? That’s got me a little confused. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/6 "2008-10-04T23:05:12Z")
Shine is listed as a men’s product but is really great for both men and women. A lot of the women on the forum love Shine, me included! So, there’s only one Shine! Oh, and FYI, Come Talk to Me is a 50/50 combo of Instant Honesty and Instant Openess. It doesn’t give quite as much of the close feeling (deeper conversations) as Instant Honesty alone and it doesn’t have as much of the fun friendly feeling (chatter) [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) has alone but it will definitely make people talk to you. It’s a nice balance of the two Personally, I like having Instant Honesty and Instant Openness as separate products. That way, I can customize my “mix” according to the situation I will be in. If I’m with my girlfriends, sister, at work, etc., I use IH. If I’m going to a party, want to gossip, etc., I use IO. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 11:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/7 "2008-10-05T11:44:15Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk So how did you discover the forum ? Mones are really going to help you in all aspects of socialization so I think you will really enjoy them. Isexiness A and TAH are both good. Can I ask why you chose TAH ? What effect were you going for ? Looking forward to your reply so I can send out your GC 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 12:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/8 "2008-10-05T12:45:52Z")
Hi Tisha, I went with TAH based on your description in the women’s [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) guide… > [@](#): > > **TAH attracts attention and creates a “loving atmosphere” It is a fun kittenish product and has been described as Marilyn Monroe in a bottle.** I was curious about IS/B but it’s out of stock. TAH has the Marilyn Monroe/kittenish aspect with attracting attention. Seemed like a good fit for what I was looking for. Fingers crossed! ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2008, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/9 "2008-10-11T23:52:06Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Welcome to Pherotalk > > So how did you discover the forum ? pheromones are really going to help you in all aspects of socialization so I think you will really enjoy them. Instant Sexiness A and TAH are both good. Can I ask why you chose TAH ? What effect were you going for ? > > Looking forward to your reply so I can send out your GC 😉 > > Tisha I did a pheromones search after coming across some questionable pheromones on ebay that some dude was selling for $5… yeah, like they were real. Hah! I choose TAH because I liked that it has that " **attracts attention and creates a “loving atmosphere”… fun kittenish … Marilyn Monroe in a bottle."** It seemed like IS/B sorta but with a loving atmosphere which I thought would be good. I’m not really sure if Marilyn Monroe or Angelina Jolie would suit me better. I’m 5’9 and come off as not so friendly and approachable I think due to shyness. So IS/A might not work right for me. I liked the softening aspect of kittenish and marilyn monroe coupled with the attracts attention and creates a loving atmosphere. My shyness and standoffishness tends to come off differently to different people. I don’t walk around smiling to being friendly to everyone I see. So if pheromones at least get them noticing me a little more then it’ll be easier to smile and open up, you know? I’m dying for them to get here so I can give them a good week to test each individually and see what type of responses I get. I have a good baseline of what I’ve gotten with no pheros. LOL ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/female-ri-giving-mones-a-shot/20820/10 "2008-10-12T00:12:28Z")
Hi starlitegirl Thanks for providing more info. IS/B will be in stock as soon as they have more copulins in stock. They take some time to formulate correctly. TAH is great and its good to have a bottle of it straight cause then you can soften up any mix by layering it. I use it with alot of different products. It gives you more versatility. I Look forward to reading your experiences in the forum. **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Tisha