# Field Report: TUTH and IShine - Asian hairdresser **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 19, 2006, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/field-report-tuth-and-ishine-asian-hairdresser/1212 "2006-12-19T22:45:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 7
**Author:** ![Chris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chris/32/2267_2.png) [@Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chris)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/field-report-tuth-and-ishine-asian-hairdresser/1212/7 "2006-12-20T14:06:01Z")
> [@Domer04](#): > > So I guess what I’m saying is that we all have our ‘good days’, when things are clicking. How do you know when to attribute that to meeting the right person or luck or the fact that the person you’re talking to just hit the lottery for $4k or the fantastic chemical you are wearing? (BTW, I like the back of the neck theory, perhaps because of its specificity.) Devil all you want 🙂 I know we all have our good days, and I guess bad days too. I reached my conclusions based on the following: - I was not my regular self today, extremely tired, not chatty, looked like a mess. I would not have gone anywhere in that state, had it not been for being late for that appointment (AND the desperate need for a haircut). Now, I know pushing people away with attitude sometimes work wonders in creating attraction, but not like this. I know, cause I’ve seen it a lot. - Her dichotomic behavior in grinding (leaning on) me in a somewhat blunt fashion, and at the same time acting bothered about it (reverse neck exposure). - And of course, the final fact that she was (in a very awkward fashion) trying to keep me from leaving through needless conversational “Bull”. Yeah. Why would she bring up having a boyfriend, just like that? I really had no need to know. That being said, I sure do know we sometimes see what we want to see (for both better or worse). Pheroquirk posted an excellent abstract on it a while back: [Motivational Influences on Visual Perception](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/see-what-you-want-to-see-motivational-influences-on-visual-perception/817). While I know most of this both from earlier work (and my current profession) I judged the results somewhat differently this time (as in finding the effects of 'mones close to obvious). But … thanks for pointing it out to me anyway. I’m rarely afraid to change my perspectives, but I do need reminders that I always have a lot left to learn in Life. _For instance that Pure objectiveness never truly can be achieved._ Thank you, Domer. 🙂 Lossa’luv, Chris --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/field-report-tuth-and-ishine-asian-hairdresser/1212)._