# figure it time to ask for help **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 10, 2009, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/figure-it-time-to-ask-for-help/25955 "2009-02-10T17:23:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/figure-it-time-to-ask-for-help/25955/1 "2009-02-10T17:23:18Z")
Okay as I have been told before … I am a jerk - stock up - cocky and one other thing that I forgot ☹ well my question is how would IJ work with me ? lol or should I get [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) I haven’t try any of the P or MX products and I want get something that I can see results. my normal mix is CTTM 2 AMMO IS IFM thats for date and club/bar just up the sprays by one or two. ---
**Author:** ![AlienInspector](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@AlienInspector](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlienInspector)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/figure-it-time-to-ask-for-help/25955/2 "2009-02-10T18:54:46Z")
If you’ve been called those things negatively then maybe you should change the tone of your comments. IJerk(not tried) gives that just-laid vibe which i consider very edgy and a difficult vibe to manage. If you want to play on the jerk factor then i would say that you might hit it off with a girl you would never see again, depending on confidence and things like that. If you know you’re not acting like a jerk then IGentleman would probably make a better vibe for you, but you should look at your interactions and see what kind of things you are saying. Asking trusted friends for their opinions is a good idea aswell, since they will allways try to give contructive criticism(or they should). I know that I’m cocky at times, but i allways try to be fun about it, it will go over the line sometimes but yeah. That reminds me, was called a jerk today for not saying hi to a girl at my school. She never really gives me much attention and that feeling is kinda mutual… but then again, she might be getting hit by the ammo(tihi). So I can fully understand that things are beyond our perception at times 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/figure-it-time-to-ask-for-help/25955/3 "2009-02-10T19:05:20Z")
I’m laid back, chill, and a very nice guy so I figure that’s another reason why IJ works so well on me. I haven’t tried [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) as of yet, but if you want to try IJ I suggest you buffer it a bit because if you’re already cocky and don’t buffer IJ then I really don’t know if you’ll be getting a bunch of anger or people wanting to kick your ass. IJ _CAN_ work for you, but it depends on how you buffer it and MOST OF ALL how you play _your_ part. If you take a chill pill (control your cockiness) and wear IJ, and add a few buffers then I’m sure it’ll give you that awesome confident vibe without looking/being too aggressive. Just like I said though, you also have to behave (act like people can go up to you and not get beat up.) ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/figure-it-time-to-ask-for-help/25955/4 "2009-02-10T19:11:51Z")
> [@dss](#): > > Okay as I have been told before … I am a jerk - stock up - cocky and one other thing that I forgot ☹ > > well my question is how would IJ work with me ? lol or should I get P83 Hmmm…if you come across as cocky & stuck up I wouldn’t go for [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/)… If you do a search you’ll find that the common consensus on P83 is that it intensifies underlying traits or emotions you have…It’s a disinhibitor and causes increased peacocking… Do you really nned that? 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/figure-it-time-to-ask-for-help/25955/5 "2009-02-10T22:51:55Z")
well I don’t think I am a jerk - cocky and other stuff but thats what I come cross ass lol stuck up. not sure how but thats what couple people have said to me.