# Finding a prom date..?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/finding-a-prom-date/44638>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [January 17, 2011, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/finding-a-prom-date/44638 "2011-01-17T01:55:01Z")\
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**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2011, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/finding-a-prom-date/44638/21 "2011-01-20T16:34:27Z")

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> [@MrWayne](#):
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> Just go out. You’ll not find girls reading books/blogs/forums and so on. If you have to, at least read the book at a library.  
> I would also ask girls from your school. You don’t know what they are actually thinking of you if you don’t. Just don’t overthink it - you don’t need mad pickup skills to find a prom date.

I might give girls at school a last try… but I’ll have to see which girl that I might be interested in is available though..

Lol.. and I know what you said but I just looking for tips to step my game in general, not just for that purpose , y’know?

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**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2011, 3:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/finding-a-prom-date/44638/22 "2011-01-21T15:47:10Z")

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[Approach Anxiety](http://approachanxiety.com/) is a GREAT resource… I also really like some of the stuff on [Inner Confidence](http://innerconfidence.com/).

Finally one really good resource is [Citizen Renegade](http://roissy.wordpress.com/) (otherwise known as Roissy) - This last one is a little controversial - He espouses a philosophy of life that is at best morally ambiguous… however his insights into the female psyche, with respect to what flips their attraction triggers, is often quite brilliant. A great deal of his writing talks about ways that guys signal their “beta-tude” (alpha = attractive, beta = unattractive).

Here is the most important thing however… You cannot expect to get better with women by reading about seduction techniques alone. It’s actually quite common that some guys will get worse when they spend too much time reading because when they do approach women they get too much “in their own heads” thinking about all the shit they read about. If you want to become a more confident, attractive guy with women you NEED to spend time talking/flirting with them.

It’s like playing sports - I could read every article out there about how to throw the perfect mark breaking inside-out flick but if I don’t get my ass out onto the Ultimate field I will never get any better at doing it.

You need to train your body to react confidently with women just like you need to train your body to hit the perfect homerun.

The above is actually part of the reason why “Jocks” always seem to be all up in the ladies in high school - Jocks tend to be more connected to their own physicality because of their time playing sports. That connection to their bodies breeds a confidence in their own physicality - Jocks don’t walk with a swagger because they are constantly trying to show how confident they are… the jock swagger is a direct result of the confidence gained in their movement from training at being better at their sport.

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