# First 2 days use of a314 and Instant Openness **URL:** \ **Category:** A314 Insider's Club\ **Created:** [December 26, 2009, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086 "2009-12-26T06:31:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Pheroboi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47774/32.png) [@Pheroboi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheroboi)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086/1 "2009-12-26T06:31:14Z")
Hello everyone, Let me first introduce myself, I am a 5’8 male medium build Asian male. I am Sagittarius. I love creativity, art and media and enjoy talking to people. I could be an introvert at times. I especially like attention. You could say I am a very attention driven person and I love to be around crowds. I have been doing so pretty well without any pheromones or colognes for that matter. I am pretty well respected among my friends and I do create attraction for the ladies. However, I haven’t been in a relationship in close to a year. Reasons are usually: -that I seem like a player (I am usually a playful character, jokes a lot, Talks a lot). -I can’t be trusted, I lead many girls on and they don’t feel secure around me (Not my intention) -Can’t get serious, (I lost interest in a girl very quickly, or after hooking up, I decided she’s not GF type so I just leave it at that.) Due to some of these reasons, I burn a lot of bridges. A lot of times these females ended up having a crush on me and I just destroyed them and made them my enemies while all I might have wanted was a hook up and have them as my friend. When it does work out, I am closer female friends then do I have close guy friends. (I like having girls around more than guys, so don’t picture me as a particular bar guy, sports, and gambling). I enjoy chatting, travelling, eating and extracurricular activities with females. I just purchased the [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) , [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) , [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (Sample) & [Turn up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) (Sample) from Smart tones. (All 1x strength). I would need all the tips possible! Without being too skeptical, I am going to share my results for my two days of trying the product. I currently work in an office environment with my own desk (Picture a banker). Clients come and sit down across from me to do sales. So far I only tried it at work since I haven’t had time to try it elsewhere. HERE’s my social objectives: -To be better respected and trusted among people around me -To create more confidence in myself. -To win attractive and intimate relationships with females -To create a social, fun vibe and be the sunlight in the social circle and yet be trusted in an individual level. Day 1 & 2 I followed the instructions and applied 1 drop of [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) on my wrists and 1 drop on the area from my ears to my neck. Since I did not wanted that “Too cool to be bothered aura” I sprayed [instant openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) on my neck/chest area and another on my back neck. (I sprayed an extra spray in the air and walked in it on the second day). For both days, I paid extra attention to body signals, most people at work know me pretty well (Or those close to my desk). I work with all Asian Chinese coworkers. I did not really see any effects on them. I wanted some effects on one particular girl that I supposedly led on and left, to see if I could build back rapport and trust. Not that I would really like to get on with her again but I wanted to test it. However, I did not sense anything. Aside from that, some new female employee did say hi to me now when she passed by my desk, I am not sure if its cause she is new so she says hi to people or is it that she was affected by the pheromones. As for other ladies in the office (the older 35+) ones seem to want to talk to me more, they go on and on. I’m not sure if it’s the pheromone or if they wanted to talk lots that day. I would ask them a question and they would explain it with a long answer when it could have been answered with a yes or no. As for male co-workers, I almost could say I did not feel much result. That is also to say I know them pretty well and according to another post, it seems like it works more subtle with people you know. I do feel more confident when I talk to my boss. As far as closing sales, I did not see any chances but it does seem like they have more trust and respect for me. BTW, I look young for my age. I am 23. Questions I WONDER: 1. I am not really used to the oil musk smell of [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) , anyways; do the people have to smell it to notice it? I saw elsewhere on the forum that they do not have to smell it. BUT, how far of a distance do they have to be in, I am very curious. 2. Also, I have been using [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) for both days, what would happen if I only used [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) or vice versa? Would you recommend it? Did my effects sounded like both chemicals worked? I feel like it was only [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) because I did not get much opening from others. I have to still initiate most of the time. 3. Am I putting the pheromones on correctly? I have to wear suit and tie at work. My sleeves are all covered, is the pheromones penetrating through? Also can I really mix it with my favorite cologne (Or what colognes would you recommend? I don’t use much cologne besides deodorant on my armpits) What else would you recommend I get to get the results I want? Or with the products that I currently have? I am sure I have more questions but I am also sure I have bombarded with you all enough. I look forward to all your replies. I am new here so shoot me anything, led me away, show me the ropes. Thank you all for letting me the opportunity to express my interests in pheromones. I wish you all a happy holiday! ---
**Author:** ![aznb0i](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/bc8723/32.png) [@aznb0i](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/aznb0i)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 10:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086/2 "2009-12-26T10:55:46Z")
I am in the same boat as you are. I am also 23 asian and 5’8". I also tried a314 with instant shine or io. I also did not notice any changes. I was also not used to the musk smell like you. I also wear long clothing because of the winter but you can put it on the back of your hands. I also don’t wear cologne besides the deodorant so me and you are alike. I hope you have some luck using this stuff. ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 4:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086/3 "2009-12-26T16:48:15Z")
Welcome! I am glad to see your post here! I do not see why you come off as a player to women. Just because you talk alot should not be a reason. There must be more to this… Probably because you can’t get serious, and you are done after hooking up. LOL 🙂 Not a judgement, but you said it yourself. If you are with a lot of women, and hit and quit a lot, thats is what a player does… Be honest, that would be my advice. It sounds like you enter a relationship, saying the right things to get the booty, then drop her. Keep the relationship going, tell her up front that you are looking to be friends, and possibly more down the road. You just want to take a relationship slow. -female employee did say hi to me now when she passed by my desk -(the older 35+) ones seem to want to talk to me more, they go on and on. I would ask them a question and they would explain it with a long answer when it could have been answered with a yes or no. These are hits. They look like IO hits to me. IO will cause people (including yourself) to talk. Sometimes too much. LOL A314 hits, are less blatant. They take time to develop, especially when you use it around people that already know your pheromone signature. Co-workers would be these kind of people. A314 with continued use, will slowly update and register in their head, but it takes time for that to happen. Try using it around people that you have never met for better instant results. The new woman who said hi to you could also be an A314 hit. She qualified you as someone that is important enough to greet without knowing you. -I do feel more confident when I talk to my boss. As far as closing sales, I did not see any chances but it does seem like they have more trust and respect for me. Another hit. After putting your drop on you neck, wipe that finger on your upper lip. You will get more self effects. Some people put a whole drop on their upper lip. Like what was mentioned before on the back of your hands is a good place, or put both drops on jawline. Everyone is different in amounts and sometimes placement for best results. > [@](#): > > Questions I WONDER: > > 1. I am not really used to the oil musk smell of [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) , anyways; do the people have to smell it to notice it? I saw elsewhere on the forum that they do not have to smell it. BUT, how far of a distance do they have to be in, I am very curious. The distance can vary depending on temp, humidity, how much you are wearing and the poduct. I would venture to guess 5-10 feet on average. > [@](#): > > 1. Also, I have been using [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) for both days, what would happen if I only used [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) or vice versa? Would you recommend it? Did my effects sounded like both chemicals worked? I feel like it was only [a314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) because I did not get much opening from others. I have to still initiate most of the time. You should test each individual product by itself, if you want to know what results are coming from which product. Also you will learn the correct “dose” a lot faster. To me, it sounds like both products are giving you results. You have to initiate anyways. On the most part women should not and do not initiate with men. 🙂 Thats just how society is I think. Most women wait to be approached. > [@](#): > > 1. Am I putting the pheromones on correctly? I have to wear suit and tie at work. My sleeves are all covered, is the pheromones penetrating through? Also can I really mix it with my favorite cologne (Or what colognes would you recommend? I don’t use much cologne besides deodorant on my armpits) > What else would you recommend I get to get the results I want? Or with the products that I currently have? You are putting on [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) correctly 🙂 I would recommend using 1 at a time, again so you can see results, that way you can better add additional products if you choose (like IO) and be able to see how that changes the effects. If you would like to get better effects from the IO, use it on your neck as well. The closer to your nose the more self effects you will have. Be careful though. You can talk too much. You will know it when it happens. 🙂 If you have futher questions or results, please post them 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pheroboi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47774/32.png) [@Pheroboi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheroboi)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086/4 "2009-12-26T18:58:20Z")
Thanks Andrew, Your post was really in depth and i will take your advice with me for the next following week. I can see this is a great community with people like yourself. I look forward to all your comments and suggestions. BTW, what are some of the signs (hits) of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) alone? I ate at a buffet yesterday with one strong stray to my chest but did not notice much (Or cluseless to signs). I did not initiate any conversations, excluding my family that was at the table. as for Aznboi, I’ll let you know how it goes! ---
**Author:** ![Pheroboi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47774/32.png) [@Pheroboi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheroboi)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086/5 "2009-12-26T19:00:47Z")
((((((Another hit. After putting your drop on you neck, wipe that finger on your upper lip. You will get more self effects. Some people put a whole drop on their upper lip. Like what was mentioned before on the back of your hands is a good place, or put both drops on jawline. Everyone is different in amounts and sometimes placement for best results.)))))) Could you clarify the 1 drop to the upper lip? What are the side effects and is that what I should be seeking for? Thanks!! ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-2-days-use-of-a314-and-instant-openness/35086/6 "2009-12-26T19:20:20Z")
No problem about the help. 🙂 I like to give back! Hits would include people just being very talkative for no apparent reason. Its easier to have someone open up to you right away, hence the name. However, again YOU should do the initiation. Once you initiate conversation, the pheromones will do their thing. It does not make people just come to you wanting to talk. There is a saying that pheromones do 10% and you have to do 90% of the work for the best results. For A314 self effects it is increases self confidence mainly. You stand up straighter, talk more confidently, if you get effects from wearing it on your neckline, then you will get stronger effects right under your nose. When I say put some on your upper lip, its just that, put some on your upper lip. 🙂 I believe it was Steve that passed that tip on to me. I do not put a drop on my lip, but just residue after applying to my jawline. Might as well not waste 🙂 Any pheromone you do this with should give you stronger self effects. Because pheromones are picked up through your nose, you are getting more inside. With A314 this can be a good thing. Self effects can vary from person to person. Could you clarify the 1 drop to the upper lip? What are the side effects and is that what I should be seeking for? Thanks!!