# First dam te mone suggestions **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 9, 2012, 12:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809 "2012-06-09T12:28:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![clide7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/71c47a/32.png) [@clide7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clide7)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2012, 12:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/1 "2012-06-09T12:28:45Z")
Hi all, First time posting here, I just moved to a new town (population 7000), and I have been going to the gym there regularly for about 2 weeks. There is an atytractive brunette that works there, she is there almost every day during the week, I started small chatting with her from the first time I walked in the gym and after the first week, I asked her if she would have a beer with me sometime (this was while she was talking to 2 of her friends at the gym reception). She blushed, and agreed to give me her number. Some small talk the next day over text messages, and a couple days later I saw her in the gym, found out when she wasn’t working, and we’re going for beer on Monday. Not the greatest day of the week to do this, I realize, but I had to travel for work over the weekend, and the alternative would have been to set a date for the weekend, and still see her every day in the gym in between. I figured it would throw me off seeing her every day before we really got to sit down in a relaxed setting, etc etc. Anyway, a day after we set up our date, she texts me and lets me know she just broke up with her boyfriend and is kind of still heartbroken about it, she still totally wants to have a beer but she wants me to know she isn’t feeling that grat about starting a new relationship right now. Worth noting: I am 26, she is 21. She works at a gym, so she has a lot of guys coming in and out hitting on her, but she still seemed a bit taken aback by my ‘directness’ in asking her out. I think in a small way this has spooked her a little bit. So, im still going to have beer with her on Monday? Can anyone recommend a mixture of mones that might get her to forget this other guy and focus on a bright and refreshing future with yours truly? P.S. I have been in this situation before with a different girl, and I ended up sleeping with her after the first date- while that was great, for some reason it RUINED everything and I was never able to shake from her head the notion that I only wanted sex. For this reason, I am a little hesistant to do anything but build rep with this girl for right now, because while I definitely want to sleep with her, I wouldn’t mind actually finding a nice girl to spend my days with in this town. (I’ll be here for 3 years, population of 7000.. yah). I have access to pretty much every pheremone on the site, including a lot of experimental ones, so sky is the limit.. I also have a few choice colognes… Green Irish Tweed, Casual Friday, Armani Code, M7 (it makes me smell old tho). Thanks in advance ! I will be sure and post the reuslts of your advice after I meet up with her! EDIT: I have no idea how I posted the subject line like that, I meant to type “First date mone suggestions” . Sorry to all the people that are likely confused by the spelling massacre. =P ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2012, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/2 "2012-06-09T17:00:05Z")
> [@clide7](#): > > Hi all, > > First time posting here, I just moved to a new town (population 7000), and I have been going to the gym there regularly for about 2 weeks. > > There is an atytractive brunette that works there, she is there almost every day during the week, I started small chatting with her from the first time I walked in the gym and after the first week, I asked her if she would have a beer with me sometime (this was while she was talking to 2 of her friends at the gym reception). She blushed, and agreed to give me her number. > > Some small talk the next day over text messages, and a couple days later I saw her in the gym, found out when she wasn’t working, and we’re going for beer on Monday. Not the greatest day of the week to do this, I realize, but I had to travel for work over the weekend, and the alternative would have been to set a date for the weekend, and still see her every day in the gym in between. I figured it would throw me off seeing her every day before we really got to sit down in a relaxed setting, etc etc. > > Anyway, a day after we set up our date, she texts me and lets me know she just broke up with her boyfriend and is kind of still heartbroken about it, she still totally wants to have a beer but she wants me to know she isn’t feeling that grat about starting a new relationship right now. > > Worth noting: I am 26, she is 21. She works at a gym, so she has a lot of guys coming in and out hitting on her, but she still seemed a bit taken aback by my ‘directness’ in asking her out. I think in a small way this has spooked her a little bit. > > So, im still going to have beer with her on Monday? Can anyone recommend a mixture of mones that might get her to forget this other guy and focus on a bright and refreshing future with yours truly? > > P.S. I have been in this situation before with a different girl, and I ended up sleeping with her after the first date- while that was great, for some reason it RUINED everything and I was never able to shake from her head the notion that I only wanted sex. For this reason, I am a little hesistant to do anything but build rep with this girl for right now, because while I definitely want to sleep with her, I wouldn’t mind actually finding a nice girl to spend my days with in this town. (I’ll be here for 3 years, population of 7000.. yah). > > I have access to pretty much every pheremone on the site, including a lot of experimental ones, so sky is the limit.. I also have a few choice colognes… Green Irish Tweed, Casual Friday, Armani Code, M7 (it makes me smell old tho). > > Thanks in advance ! I will be sure and post the reuslts of your advice after I meet up with her! > > EDIT: I have no idea how I posted the subject line like that, I meant to type “First date mone suggestions” . Sorry to all the people that are likely confused by the spelling massacre. =P I get to give the FIRST suggestion! Yeaaaaah! 🙄 Her telling you about her boyfriend is a shield, if you asked me. She already said yes to going out for a beer before the break up … sounds like trouble. But if you insist. 😉 At 21, I’d suggest 2-3 sprays of IS and 1 spray of AMMO to the skin of the chest just below the throat, and leave my shirt/polo unbotton down to button number 3 for shirt and polo. Be fun, be funny, and NO conversation about her ex! GOOD LUCK! ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2012, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/3 "2012-06-10T05:09:50Z")
> [@clide7](#): > > Hi all, > > First time posting here, I just moved to a new town (population 7000), and I have been going to the gym there regularly for about 2 weeks. > > There is an atytractive brunette that works there, she is there almost every day during the week, I started small chatting with her from the first time I walked in the gym and after the first week, I asked her if she would have a beer with me sometime (this was while she was talking to 2 of her friends at the gym reception). She blushed, and agreed to give me her number. > > Some small talk the next day over text messages, and a couple days later I saw her in the gym, found out when she wasn’t working, and we’re going for beer on Monday. Not the greatest day of the week to do this, I realize, but I had to travel for work over the weekend, and the alternative would have been to set a date for the weekend, and still see her every day in the gym in between. I figured it would throw me off seeing her every day before we really got to sit down in a relaxed setting, etc etc. > > Anyway, a day after we set up our date, she texts me and lets me know she just broke up with her boyfriend and is kind of still heartbroken about it, she still totally wants to have a beer but she wants me to know she isn’t feeling that grat about starting a new relationship right now. > > Worth noting: I am 26, she is 21. She works at a gym, so she has a lot of guys coming in and out hitting on her, but she still seemed a bit taken aback by my ‘directness’ in asking her out. I think in a small way this has spooked her a little bit. > > So, im still going to have beer with her on Monday? Can anyone recommend a mixture of mones that might get her to forget this other guy and focus on a bright and refreshing future with yours truly? > > P.S. I have been in this situation before with a different girl, and I ended up sleeping with her after the first date- while that was great, for some reason it RUINED everything and I was never able to shake from her head the notion that I only wanted sex. For this reason, I am a little hesistant to do anything but build rep with this girl for right now, because while I definitely want to sleep with her, I wouldn’t mind actually finding a nice girl to spend my days with in this town. (I’ll be here for 3 years, population of 7000.. yah). > > I have access to pretty much every pheremone on the site, including a lot of experimental ones, so sky is the limit.. I also have a few choice colognes… Green Irish Tweed, Casual Friday, Armani Code, M7 (it makes me smell old tho). > > Thanks in advance ! I will be sure and post the reuslts of your advice after I meet up with her! > > EDIT: I have no idea how I posted the subject line like that, I meant to type “First date mone suggestions” . Sorry to all the people that are likely confused by the spelling massacre. =P [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) 1 spray + p74 20mcg + 2 sprays IH 2x, you won’t be disappointed. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2012, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/4 "2012-06-10T05:57:55Z")
> [@THE\_GHOST](#): > > Ammo 1 spray + p74 20mcg + 2 sprays IH 2x, you won’t be disappointed. What does that combo do for you, Ghost? Is that designed for the 21 age range, or have you seen it work its magic for THE YOUNG and THE OLD? Have you tried that combo with IS in [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/)’s spot; and if so, what major difference have you noted? Thanks! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2012, 11:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/5 "2012-06-10T11:25:36Z")
Yes its a very good date mix for younger women, p74 is your rapport builder, IH provides comfort and ammo keeps you out of the friend zone 😉 you can add IS if you want but it kinda works against the whole IH vibe. ---
**Author:** ![clide7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/71c47a/32.png) [@clide7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clide7)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2012, 11:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/6 "2012-06-10T23:00:37Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > I get to give the FIRST suggestion! Yeaaaaah! 🙄 > > Her telling you about her boyfriend is a shield, if you asked me. She already said yes to going out for a beer before the break up … sounds like trouble. But if you insist. 😉 > > At 21, I’d suggest 2-3 sprays of IS and 1 spray of AMMO to the skin of the chest just below the throat, and leave my shirt/polo unbotton down to button number 3 for shirt and polo. > > Be fun, be funny, and NO conversation about her ex! > > GOOD LUCK! Yes, I considered that it likely is a shield, however I asked her out after this happened.. so it would have been about 5 days since they broke up. Supposedly =P I hear what you’re saying, though. Thanks for the suggestions, I am going to try the combo Ghost suggested. Will post how my night went sometime later this week! ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2012, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/7 "2012-06-10T23:19:07Z")
> [@clide7](#): > > Yes, I considered that it likely is a shield, however I asked her out after this happened.. so it would have been about 5 days since they broke up. Supposedly =P > > I hear what you’re saying, though. > > Thanks for the suggestions, I am going to try the combo Ghost suggested. > > Will post how my night went sometime later this week! That’s about the age of girls I go for so excited to hear how it works out for you. ---
**Author:** ![clide7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/71c47a/32.png) [@clide7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clide7)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2012, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/8 "2012-06-11T19:57:37Z")
Update: So last night I confirmed our beer outing by text, she didnt reply for a couple of hours and she said “ahh I might have to work tomorrow” (she works at the gym I go to 5 days a week) I chose not to respond, it was about 10pm and I didn’t really think I had anything to gain by responding at that point. At about 11:30 PM, “Hey! I am not sure about tomorrow I might have to work =(” I went to bed, texted her today around 11:00 AM after my work shit died down, and just said “Hey! So, work or beers tonight? Maybe both?” I didn’t get any response, but shrugged it off. Not a big deal for me. Before I get into the rest of the details- a bit of background info. Last time I was in the gym, she had 2 guys “spotting” for her, and by spotting I mean they were basically not working out and all and were just hanging out and helping her lift weights and doing like 1 pullup every 20 minutes of hanging out with her. She was loving it up. I just did my workout as usual- gym time is “me” time and I usually don’t socialize at the gym, usually have earbuds in. As I was leaving tho, I stopped and chatted with her for a bit “you got 2 personal trainers! are they even getting paid?” etc etc, she says she works out with them all the time. Fast forward to today, there is some 6’ tall dude, probably 200lbs and pretty stacked, basically doing the same stuff.. working out with her and spotting for her. I can tell she knows all of these guys fairly well. I am in good shape, but im 5’9 185, so I cant say it wasnt a bit depressing, but I didn’t show any real reaction. Did my workout as usual. As I was leaving I stopped to talk with her and asked “hey I never did hear back from you… I guess today wasn’t a good day huh” “Yeah I had to work and I actually broke my phone today and lost all my numbers, couldn’t txt anyone.” So, remade plans for beer to tomorrow, sent her a text so she had my number again. About an hour after that, she texts me with “Hey I feel like I should be honest with you, that was my ex-bf in the gym today, things are going well between us, and I can’t go for beers with you. I’m sorry” So, no report with be forthcoming from me unfortunately =/ Can’t say I am happy at the moment, but its not really a big deal, as I didn’t have time to invest emotionally anyway. I sent her a text saying “Okay, I appreciate the honesty. Heres hoping he had some revelations since you guys broke up. See ya around” Also worth noting.. I will be seeing this girl in the gym like 5 days a week for the next few years, so I guess I will keep up the small chat, and hit on the other employees there a bit. Thoughts? Comments? Criticisms? I am going to start fishing now and might just start a journal, as I have a lot more experimentation to do with all my new mones. Thanks for all the responses guys, sorry to waste yer time! ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2012, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-dam-te-mone-suggestions/55809/9 "2012-06-12T05:11:29Z")
> [@clide7](#): > > Update: > > So last night I confirmed our beer outing by text, she didnt reply for a couple of hours and she said “ahh I might have to work tomorrow” (she works at the gym I go to 5 days a week) > > I chose not to respond, it was about 10pm and I didn’t really think I had anything to gain by responding at that point. > > At about 11:30 PM, “Hey! I am not sure about tomorrow I might have to work =(” > > I went to bed, texted her today around 11:00 AM after my work shit died down, and just said “Hey! So, work or beers tonight? Maybe both?” > > I didn’t get any response, but shrugged it off. Not a big deal for me. > > Before I get into the rest of the details- a bit of background info. Last time I was in the gym, she had 2 guys “spotting” for her, and by spotting I mean they were basically not working out and all and were just hanging out and helping her lift weights and doing like 1 pullup every 20 minutes of hanging out with her. She was loving it up. I just did my workout as usual- gym time is “me” time and I usually don’t socialize at the gym, usually have earbuds in. > > As I was leaving tho, I stopped and chatted with her for a bit “you got 2 personal trainers! are they even getting paid?” etc etc, she says she works out with them all the time. > > Fast forward to today, there is some 6’ tall dude, probably 200lbs and pretty stacked, basically doing the same stuff.. working out with her and spotting for her. I can tell she knows all of these guys fairly well. I am in good shape, but im 5’9 185, so I cant say it wasnt a bit depressing, but I didn’t show any real reaction. Did my workout as usual. > > As I was leaving I stopped to talk with her and asked “hey I never did hear back from you… I guess today wasn’t a good day huh” > > “Yeah I had to work and I actually broke my phone today and lost all my numbers, couldn’t txt anyone.” > > So, remade plans for beer to tomorrow, sent her a text so she had my number again. > > About an hour after that, she texts me with “Hey I feel like I should be honest with you, that was my ex-bf in the gym today, things are going well between us, and I can’t go for beers with you. I’m sorry” > > So, no report with be forthcoming from me unfortunately =/ Can’t say I am happy at the moment, but its not really a big deal, as I didn’t have time to invest emotionally anyway. > > I sent her a text saying “Okay, I appreciate the honesty. Heres hoping he had some revelations since you guys broke up. See ya around” > > Also worth noting.. I will be seeing this girl in the gym like 5 days a week for the next few years, so I guess I will keep up the small chat, and hit on the other employees there a bit. > > Thoughts? Comments? Criticisms? I am going to start fishing now and might just start a journal, as I have a lot more experimentation to do with all my new mones. > > Thanks for all the responses guys, sorry to waste yer time! That sounds about right. Money and/or height, pretty much, sums up the requirements. I’d invest in some A314 … I ‘THINK’ that will put the edge in your favor in ALL situations. LIFE is a journey, make sure you pack an apple. 😉