# First date after weeks of talking: a combo to ease nerves and connect deeper? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 12, 2012, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-after-weeks-of-talking-a-combo-to-ease-nerves-and-connect-deeper/54184 "2012-01-12T08:36:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![gustavo90](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ee59a6/32.png) [@gustavo90](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gustavo90)\ **Post date:** [January 12, 2012, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-after-weeks-of-talking-a-combo-to-ease-nerves-and-connect-deeper/54184/1 "2012-01-12T08:36:32Z")
I’ve been talking to a girl for a few weeks and everything has been flowing well since we have so many things in common and have learned quite a bit from each other. We are going out for the first time next Friday and I am looking for the best cologne combination possible to make us both feel at ease and a deeper connection. I am usually a very outgoing person but when it comes to first dates I can feel shy and nervous and would like a cologne that can help me with that. I was thinking maybe Instant Shine can help or maybe Ammunition. Also looking at Instant Honesty or maybe [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) but would like further advice on a good combination to break the ice and to have a deeper connection. ---
**Author:** ![CMBC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@CMBC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CMBC)\ **Post date:** [January 12, 2012, 3:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-after-weeks-of-talking-a-combo-to-ease-nerves-and-connect-deeper/54184/2 "2012-01-12T15:04:56Z")
IH and not IO because you already know each other IS cannot hurt at all and I don’t see where this could not be helpful (except perhaps if you’re already wearing others and you feel it might be too much at that point). AMMO yes but not TUTH unless you’re experienced in dating and expect to turn it sexual on the first date. That’s usually what I do on my first date. Other condsiderations are A314, IG potentially (only if you’re experienced, if you’re a “nice guy” then probably don’t). Definitely not jerk. Perhaps in some situations, but those would be rare. ---
**Author:** ![okyoureabeast](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/okyoureabeast/32/1395_2.png) [@okyoureabeast](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/okyoureabeast)\ **Post date:** [January 12, 2012, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-after-weeks-of-talking-a-combo-to-ease-nerves-and-connect-deeper/54184/3 "2012-01-12T15:22:18Z")
I would stick to socials especially IH. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) may help push something sexual to the emotional aspect a bit, but I’ve never had luck with that one. Probably worth a try. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [January 12, 2012, 6:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-after-weeks-of-talking-a-combo-to-ease-nerves-and-connect-deeper/54184/4 "2012-01-12T18:05:10Z")
> [@gustavo90](#): > > I’ve been talking to a girl for a few weeks and everything has been flowing well since we have so many things in common and have learned quite a bit from each other. We are going out for the first time next Friday and I am looking for the best cologne combination possible to make us both feel at ease and a deeper connection. I am usually a very outgoing person but when it comes to first dates I can feel shy and nervous and would like a cologne that can help me with that. I was thinking maybe Instant Shine can help or maybe Ammunition. Also looking at Instant Honesty or maybe Instant Openness but would like further advice on a good combination to break the ice and to have a deeper connection. AMMO and some IShine