# first date mix? helppppppp **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 29, 2007, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809 "2007-03-29T19:36:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![kingcrimson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@kingcrimson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingcrimson)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2007, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/1 "2007-03-29T19:36:59Z")
Well this is my first ‘date’ in a year, I am meeting this girl who I met through an internet ad three weeks ago. Our interactions so far have been very cute, jokey. She is very geniune and open, seems excited to be in the ‘game’ especially since we are both the same breed (art students) I want to be comfortable enough so that by nights end we can embrace or hold hands or stuff like that unawkwardly. So I am going to wear [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) so we can feel ‘close’… How about ammo? My personality is very dry silliness and humor, I mumble stuff, is ammunition too much of a contrast if I’m not going to act like some stud? And today evening’s end I’m going to take a bathroom break and spray turn up the heat on my neck I also have come talk to me… I generally fear the ‘awkward silence’ so a part of me wants to wear come talk to me so the talking continues on… but the side effect is that kind of nervous compulsive air that accompanies it EDIT: Another alternative II am thinking about is buying some instant female relaxant and instant honesty and having it sent here overnight — so my combo would consist of honesty + openness + female magic + the turn up the heat by nights end ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2007, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/2 "2007-03-29T21:19:09Z")
My recomendation it [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) x 4 (This should get you talking to. No awkward silence) Ammunition x 1 (First date in a year. Go easy on her. You don’t want to accidently OD on a first date) If you want to get some deeper communication, sub out 1 openness for 1 honesty. If you are concerned about CTTM2 causing problems don’t wear it because you could cause a self fulfilling prophocy and thing things are going bad when they aren’t, completely destroying your confidence. (maybe not, but eh, why risk it.) Bring along TUTH (if you are over 23) and put it on ONLY if things start heating up themselves. ---
**Author:** ![kingcrimson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@kingcrimson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingcrimson)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2007, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/3 "2007-03-29T21:32:18Z")
okay, I will do that, but what about instant female magic? and how come you put those restrictions on turn up the heat? I’m generally too timid to make the physical advane especially on a first, so wouldn’t a spray allow things to move in that direction? ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2007, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/4 "2007-03-29T21:43:20Z")
Use IFM if it doesn’t mellow you out. Some guys are mellowed out buy it. I assumed it might increase the awkward silence. If you two are making out or have a lot of close physical contact then go for a spray of TUTH. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2007, 1:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/5 "2007-03-30T13:25:19Z")
> [@toilofday](#): > > Use Instant Female Magic if it doesn’t mellow you out. Some guys are mellowed out buy it. I assumed it might increase the awkward silence. I used it on two days in a row and felt really down… I’m sure it was the ‘magic’. I’ll be trying to avoid using it two days in a row as perhaps that’s what triggers it for me. ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2007, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/6 "2007-03-30T16:34:38Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > I used it on two days in a row and felt really down… I’m sure it was the ‘magic’. I’ll be trying to avoid using it two days in a row as perhaps that’s what triggers it for me. I can’t even wear it. I had to send mine back. ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2007, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/7 "2007-03-30T16:34:49Z")
stay away from [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/) 😉 ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2007, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/8 "2007-03-30T16:44:00Z")
> [@smn1234](#): > > stay away from Instant Jerk 😉 Oh, i’m good with -none and cops for sure. 😛 It’s that A1 I have to avoid. It’s a real downer. 5 minutes and I can’t even hold my head up i’m in such a shitty mood. I never tested past that point. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2007, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/9 "2007-03-30T17:50:43Z")
> [@smn1234](#): > > stay away from Instant Jerk 😉 Why not IJerk? Do tell! 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2007, 5:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/10 "2007-03-30T17:54:53Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > Why not Instant Jerk? Do tell! 🙄 Yes, tell us the story.. I did use cops (minute quantity from EoW) just that once. I didn’t get any good results because I didn’t meet any single women not because of the cops. I haven’t used any since. ---
**Author:** ![kingcrimson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@kingcrimson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingcrimson)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/11 "2007-03-31T08:35:13Z")
results…😮 instant openness made us feel like instant buds it is downright surreal how things progressed after turn up the heat. and of course the whisper in awe ‘you smell so good’ …ahhhh ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/12 "2007-03-31T14:27:11Z")
> [@kingcrimson](#): > > results…😮 instant openness made us feel like instant buds > it is downright surreal how things progressed after turn up the heat. and of course the whisper in awe ‘you smell so good’ …ahhhh How old is your date, and how much of each did you use, KC? ---
**Author:** ![kingcrimson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@kingcrimson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingcrimson)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/13 "2007-03-31T16:58:41Z")
I used four sprays instant openness, which meltttttttted any awkwardness, and 1 spray of ammo And while we were in the movie I took a bathroom break and put one spray turn up the heat on my chest… so basically we’re both sitting there for an hour with the TUTH cooking up in the pot.needless to say I got invited in… also we are both 21 y/o ---
**Author:** ![lomu11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a183cd/32.png) [@lomu11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lomu11)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 5:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-mix-helppppppp/2809/14 "2007-03-31T17:09:33Z")
The best part is when my woman gets a whiff and can’t stop smelling it. One night I had her in my arms curled up on the couch watching tv and she smelled ammo on my wrists. She was like oh you smell sooo good and she kept her nose planted on my wrists for about 4 minutes off and on. She does that with tuth also when its on my neck or chest. Thats some goood stuff.