# First date - what mix to use? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 1, 2010, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222 "2010-10-01T00:35:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jlc99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@jlc99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jlc99)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2010, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/1 "2010-10-01T00:35:25Z")
There’s this girl that I’ve been friendly with for some time now, flirting and such. I’m going to be going over to her place to hang out and then walk over to grab some drinks. I just found this site earlier this week and just received my first order today which includes: 1x AMMO, 1x IS, a314 and 2X IO. I’m on a budget so this is all I could get for now. Out of what I have what’s the best combination to use? And where would I apply it? (neck, wrists, chest) Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2010, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/2 "2010-10-01T00:52:22Z")
Hey JLC… you actually picked some really good products to get your feet wet with. I’d say 1-2 sprays of [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) + 1-2 sprays of IS + 1 drop of A314 should be a good beginner mix for you. You don’t really need the IO because you already have a background with her. I’d put the a314 on your neck (pulse point) as well as 1 spray of each ammo and IS. The other spray of ammo and IS should go to your wrists or forearms. that should put you in a pretty good spot ---
**Author:** ![jlc99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@jlc99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jlc99)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2010, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/3 "2010-10-01T03:40:34Z")
> [@Reclipse](#): > > Hey JLC… you actually picked some really good products to get your feet wet with. > > I’d say 1-2 sprays of Ammo + 1-2 sprays of IS + 1 drop of A314 should be a good beginner mix for you. You don’t really need the IO because you already have a background with her. > > I’d put the a314 on your neck (pulse point) as well as 1 spray of each ammo and IS. The other spray of ammo and IS should go to your wrists or forearms. > > that should put you in a pretty good spot That’s awesome, thanks for the help! I’ve been reading through the forums and there’s so much info on here, I just needed a place to start. I was just reading how what environment you’re in also affects what combinations to use. Looks like I’ve got lots to learn. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2010, 12:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/4 "2010-10-01T12:53:24Z")
Congrats! You are one of the first people NOT to order TuTH as a starter product! I agree that you picked a great starting lineup. You got just about the best respect and status oriented product there is, a good easy to work with attraction product and a couple of good socials. The mix recommended is pretty solid so I have nothing to add other than simply stating that I’m impressed with the beginning purchase you made. ---
**Author:** ![jlc99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@jlc99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jlc99)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2010, 4:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/5 "2010-10-02T04:40:09Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > Congrats! You are one of the first people NOT to order TuTH as a starter product! > I agree that you picked a great starting lineup. You got just about the best respect and status oriented product there is, a good easy to work with attraction product and a couple of good socials. The mix recommended is pretty solid so I have nothing to add other than simply stating that I’m impressed with the beginning purchase you made. I did some reading on the forum before putting in the first order, and for what I was looking these sounded like the best choices. Good to know I at least have some understanding, thanks guys. The date has not yet happened so I don’t know what the result will be but I will definitely post about it on here after. Any recommendations for a more social place like a bar/club. I have to say I haven’t been very successful in these settings when it comes to girls. Maybe because I’m shy at first (until some of the alcohol kicks in). Would the mix change? ---
**Author:** ![jlc99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@jlc99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jlc99)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2010, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/6 "2010-10-10T21:44:53Z")
I went out to a bar/club and didn’t notice anything different. I probably didn’t get the mix right. I used 2 sprays 1x Ammo, 2 of 1x IS and 2 drops of a314. I realized I probably should have used some IO. Maybe I need to spray on more for a club scene? Currently I’m working on finding the sweet spot - after reading a few threads I noticed it could be different for everyone. If anyone has any other tips about what to use when going out to social places that would be great. ---
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2010, 11:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/7 "2010-10-10T23:30:32Z")
Just curious, how were you presenting yourself? Did you pay for her, what kind of clothes were you wearing? I’m sure you understand that this isn’t the magic potion that automatically makes you the hero first date.. But when wearing these products (like a314) you really need to play the part, you need to think that you are the alpha, you need to be the alpha. Some girls do not care for an Alpha male and prefer to be the lioness. Like Radman said you picked a great starting line. Maybe with each date try exercising with 1 product at a time until you figure out what works best for you and what brings her the most hits. I am sorry that your first impression was stellar, but in due time and with the right attitude/outlook you WILL see the power that these products hold and how you can get the most out of them! keep us updated! We are all more than willing to help you out (not to mention we all love listening to success stories too 🙂) ---
**Author:** ![Standard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@Standard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Standard)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2010, 11:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/8 "2010-10-10T23:43:07Z")
I never use A314 in front of a girl I already know. I don’t know, the sudden change in [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) signature could be too much for her? When I first put on A314 (years ago), it was too much for me, I was intimidated by myself. In a way IG was the best thing that’s ever happened to me, is it a “softer” confidence and it “phased” me into a confident persona, now I have no troubles phasing between cool-confidence (IG) or alpha-confidence (A314). But with what you have, I would stick to AMMO alone with maybe 1 spray of IS. ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2010, 12:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-what-mix-to-use/42222/9 "2010-10-11T00:02:58Z")
1 drop A314 + 2x AMMO + 2x IS + 2x IO