# First date with a shy target guy: which of my many pheromones should I wear? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 30, 2007, 8:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800 "2007-09-30T20:09:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2007, 8:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/1 "2007-09-30T20:09:47Z")
Hi all I have a date with target guy. We have not spent much time in each others’ company - due to being in different hemispheres all summer. Now, I AM going to wear pheros. I know opinion is divided on that, but I can be quite shy, and so can he, so a little bit of help (not overpowering) would be great. I’ve got Instant Sexiness A, Dirty, Lust After Me (x5 cops), EOW, Mystery Boy, Turn Up The Heat Instant Honesty x2, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) x2, Instant Shine x2 P74, P79, P83, P88, EST TAL, TAH, TAF MX 134, MX 135 I am guessing that all of those in the first group except for maybe a smidge of Sexiness (it isn’t extra cops) might be unsuitable at this stage. Also I can’t wear Mx135 straight without TAL or IS/A as it makes me cranky. P74 is great on me as a conversation and gently “magnetic” social phero. It just seems to make people like me. Est so far, seems to do little except at very low doses for me, so I am still experimenting on that and I hate P88 on it’s own it gives me a heck of a headache. I’m thinking Openness or honesty, say one spray, with some P74 and Shine. Perhaps one spray of each? But I am open to suggestions and would really like your advice. I don’t want overkill or femme fatale. I just want a little subtle emphasis of what is already there and a little confidence builder. Not a false impression. Thanks in advance May ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2007, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/2 "2007-09-30T20:27:08Z")
> [@May](#): > > I’m thinking Openness or honesty, say one spray, with some P74 and Shine. Perhaps one spray of each? From my (male) point of view this sounds like a great idea. I think going light is good so the vibes are not overwhelming and your own personality shines through brightly. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2007, 9:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/3 "2007-09-30T21:57:02Z")
Well its hard to say only you know which products do what for you. If it were me I would go with 2 shots IS/A 1 shot TAH and 1 shot of IO. Just something slightly sexy and fun. As long as there is no added cops in your IS/A it should be fine. There is just a smidge in there from what Jaz has said and it should just give you a little sexy edge without making his end of the table rise (snort) sorry LOL. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2007, 9:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/4 "2007-09-30T21:59:00Z")
Tish He’s 6 ft five, black hair, is ten years younger than me with blue eyes and does extreme sports. If the table rises… I would be extremely flattered! 🙄😃 😃😉 May ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2007, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/5 "2007-09-30T22:12:51Z")
Oh man, defiantly wear the IS/A.😛 Hell I change my mind go with LAM 😮 LOL No No… musnt move to fast, ok just bring it with you in case 😃 Have a great time May 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2007, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/6 "2007-10-10T22:11:47Z")
Thanks for the advice Gone and Tish! Just to let you know. I used two sprays of IS/A, 1 spray of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (x2) and two sprays of P74 (total of 50 mcg). All went well and by the time I got home there was an email asking for a second date 😉 😃 May ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2007, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/7 "2007-10-11T00:18:25Z")
> [@May](#): > > Thanks for the advice Gone and Tish! > > Just to let you know. I used two sprays of IS/A, 1 spray of Instant Shine (x2) and two sprays of P74 (total of 50 mcg). > > All went well and by the time I got home there was an email asking for a second date 😉 > > 😃 > > May Come on now, May. Details! ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2007, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/8 "2007-10-11T19:09:14Z")
No details yet Gone! 🙂 It was only a first date… and just coffee at that. Still very early days 😉 May ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2007, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-shy-target-guy-which-of-my-many-pheromones-should-i-wear/5800/9 "2007-10-13T00:41:09Z")
> [@](#): > > All went well and by the time I got home there was an email asking for a second date 😉 YOU GO GIRL 😉 I am glad you date went well. Do you think the mones effected him at all? Come on May throw us Married folk a few biscuits. 😃 Tisha