# First date with a waitress: is my A314, IO, IH, P74, IFM and TUTH mix too much? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 25, 2007, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305 "2007-06-25T18:02:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mikeQMH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mikeQMH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeQMH)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2007, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/1 "2007-06-25T18:02:26Z")
Hey guys, I have a first date with a waitress I met and I need help on what I should use. I’m Asian and I’m 22 and she’s white. I believe she’s about the same age range. I have in my collection: A314 Pheroproof Instant Shine [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) Instant Honesty (2x) p74 p79 TAH Turn up the Heat My idea would be to wear 2 drops of A314 (hopefully stalker effect) , 2 Sprays Pheroproof, 4 Instant Openness, 2 Instant Honesty, 4 p74, 2-3 Instant Female Magic and one TUTH (because I’m Asian and supposedly have a lower -none level). Any suggestions? Any sight would be helpful. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![mikeQMH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mikeQMH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeQMH)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2007, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/2 "2007-06-25T22:56:07Z")
It would also help to know what I should put on first and then what I should carry with me. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2007, 9:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/3 "2007-06-26T09:26:34Z")
The Questions: How’d you meet her? Is this a date or more a hangout session? Is it more casual? Where you taking her? What mix did you wear when you met her? (This way we can establish a baseline - How your frst impression marked in her mind) ---
**Author:** ![mikeQMH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mikeQMH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeQMH)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2007, 10:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/4 "2007-06-26T10:51:15Z")
I first met her when she was working. It was really crowded. A mutual friend sort of introduced us. I just got her number in the few minutes I was able to talk to her since she was really busy. I called her the next day and she said she’s free on Friday. At the time when I met her, I was wearing one drop of A314, 2 sprays of Female Magic, 2 Pheroproof. Remember, this was at the end of the night, about 4 -5 hours after i put them on so it may not be the pheromones, especially since I just talked to her for a minute just to get her number. I also reapplied very recently before I talked her one spray of Instant Honesty, 2 [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and 2 p74. Hope this helped a little, thanks. ---
**Author:** ![mikeQMH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mikeQMH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeQMH)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2007, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/5 "2007-06-27T01:58:29Z")
Even though I was wearing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) at the time, but I only talked to her for a minute and got her number, so I don’t think the pheromones had that much of an effect on her. It was crowded and she seemed pretty busy. Any past experiences of yours would help. Please keep in mind that I am only 22 and I’m Asian and she’s white. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2007, 3:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/6 "2007-06-27T03:38:37Z")
Groom yourself well, put on nice threads and tread lightly on the pheromones. Your suggested mix is way over the top. I’d go for 2-3 sprays Pheroproof and work on making witty conversation and having a good time with her. Eye contact is a big deal for Western women so don’t be shy about glazing into her optics when the time is right. Don’t over do it and stare. Instead, pretend like her eyes are a sunset: beautiful to behold but you’ll go blind if you look too long. And whatever you do, don’t talk to her tits no matter how good they look. Women hate that. ---
**Author:** ![mikeQMH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mikeQMH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeQMH)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2007, 8:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-date-with-a-waitress-is-my-a314-io-ih-p74-ifm-and-tuth-mix-too-much/4305/7 "2007-06-27T08:10:31Z")
Thanks for the advice. HAHA about the tits part. I’ve always considered myself a southern gentlemen. That’s how I was raised, so that won’t be a problem. However, I really want there to be a connection, at least from her point of view so I’m think of using [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Honesty, Female Magic. However, I also want her to think of me with a DHV so that’s why I want to use A314. Is Pheroproof really enough?