# First experiences with Ammo, IO and IS: mall hits, male respect, a soft rejection

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 11, 2011, 4:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295 "2011-09-11T04:45:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![zeus24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ac8455/32.png) [@zeus24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zeus24)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2011, 4:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295/1 "2011-09-11T04:45:50Z")

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First night I get my products. I used 1 1/2 sprays of ammo, 1 io, and 2 is. I go to mall just to walk around and test them out. I found some ignoring but also some major hits. People were a little more talkative than usual. I’m a decent looking guy (not trying to be conceited just trying to paint a picture), and I’d say I had less looks than normal but more major hits than normal. Later that night I go home spray another ammo before I go to the clubs. I got no hits but my friend said women would stare at me hardcore when I wasn’t looking at them, got a number but it was a girl I used to work with. Also, I have to comment that I got a lot of respect from men. They always moved out of my way and no one even wanted to mess with me at all.

Second night, I tried one spray of ammo. Talked to this girl who works at a store for a bit. Last time I was there she fumbled my cc as I was paying and gave a few looks. This time she smiled at me and then at her coworker. Talked to me and completely forgot about my stuff, then as I was about to leave I asked her if she to get a drink sometime and she says “I don’t know, maybe, ask me next time you’re here”, whatever the f that means. I’m not sure, lol. So far I think I had my best results with my first try with 1 1/2 ammo, 2 is and 1 io, but I’m not positive they’re working yet. I think I od with 2 1/2 ammo, which does point to something working, so I’m confused lol.

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**Author:** ![CMBC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@CMBC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CMBC)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2011, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295/2 "2011-09-11T22:01:19Z")

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I think that is pretty clear it was her way of rejecting you but being nice about it. Despite what you percieved as major hits or IOI. Assuming you were correct about the IOI’s, and they were not performed due to some other reason (such as her looking at the co-worker in your description to suggest something else rather than what you thought it was meaning) then I don’t know why she would have rejected the invite.

But, girls are crazy. I’ve had girls give massive IOI in my past, and then not go through with an invite. You just have to chalk it up to girls can be psycho.

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**Author:** ![magus808](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b19c9b/32.png) [@magus808](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magus808)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2011, 9:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295/3 "2011-09-12T09:04:53Z")

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> [@zeus24](#):
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> Second night, I tried one spray of ammo. Talked to this girl who works at a store for a bit. Last time I was there she fumbled my cc as I was paying and gave a few looks. This time she smiled at me and then at her coworker. Talked to me and completely forgot about my stuff, then as I was about to leave I asked her if she to get a drink sometime and she says “I don’t know, maybe, ask me next time you’re here”, whatever the f that means. I’m not sure, lol.

You have to call her on it, and ask her again next time you see her. One other reason why she said to ask her next time is she is most likely trying to weed out the men who are not serious. In her job I’m sure she gets hit on multiple times per night.

For example if 10 men ask her for a drink, and she tells all 10 men to ask her again next time, at most 3 of the 10 will ask her again while the other 7 will not. She just weeded out 7 men. Most men would not follow up on that.

It wont hurt to ask her again, then you’ll know for sure if she was rejecting you or not. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

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**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2011, 9:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295/4 "2011-09-12T09:38:26Z")

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This is just my opinion but if a girl asked me to ask her out again next time, I would of said well this offer is only valid for today, so I need an answer (with a cheeky smile) If she says no then at least you dont look like a chump having to go back and basically beg her to go for a drink with you because it sounds like thats what she wants.

If she was at all interested in you she would except the first time, Dont play into her games, move on to the next its her loss.

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**Author:** ![Centrum\_Virium](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Centrum\_Virium](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Centrum_Virium)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2011, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295/5 "2011-09-12T15:50:03Z")

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I dont think it was a rejection, atleast not one that indicated her disinterest, she has served you before so she knows she’s going to see you again so by saying “ask next time your here” its just filtering out the weeds as mobo said. BUT it depends how you handled it, what was your reaction when she said that?

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**Author:** ![CMBC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@CMBC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CMBC)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2011, 4:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-experiences-with-ammo-io-and-is-mall-hits-male-respect-a-soft-rejection/52295/6 "2011-09-12T16:26:29Z")

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> [@THE\_GHOST](#):
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> This is just my opinion but if a girl asked me to ask her out again next time, I would of said well this offer is only valid for today, so I need an answer (with a cheeky smile) If she says no then at least you dont look like a chump having to go back and basically beg her to go for a drink with you because it sounds like thats what she wants.
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> If she was at all interested in you she would except the first time, Dont play into her games, move on to the next its her loss.

Exactly!  
If the girl wants to play games, it’s her loss. She just lost out.

Great comeback to her statement.

Because you’re not some dog who should have to keep coming back to check in with her.
