# First Mixes - NPA and A-1 **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 21, 2010, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-mixes-npa-and-a-1/40973 "2010-08-21T05:35:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 6
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2010, 7:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-mixes-npa-and-a-1/40973/6 "2010-08-21T07:34:27Z")
> [@funtimes](#): > > ok what is a-1? and what is npa? i am so out of the loop. by the way why do you want her back? > [@I have a relationship question for the ladies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-relationship-question-for-the-ladies/40854): > > Me and my girl have had some rocky times in the past, but usually we make up rather quickly. About 3-4 weeks ago, we had another pretty good falling out. She says she still loves me, but doesn’t know if she can forgive me, and she does not trust me. During our argument, it got ugly and we both said a few rather hurtful things to each other. I apologized which she accepted, but as she said she doesn’t know if she forgives me. She hasn’t apologized, but I have already told her that I know she… I love her, dearly. It was a stupid disagreement, I should have handled it better regardless of what occured. The issue became more focused on my behavior in how the issue was handled rather than the issue itself. I see a light at the end of the tunnel, I will be updating soon. We did start talking again. It’s all kind of shallow surface issues, but it’s a start. I know her far too well, and she knows me. She doesn’t really want this to be over, she just wants me to be stronger, and I can be. It’s just not happening as fast as she’d like, but I’m only human. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-mixes-npa-and-a-1/40973)._