# First time instant shine lead to a girl attempting to rip my head off **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 2, 2008, 11:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620 "2008-03-02T23:06:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Blight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Blight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blight)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 11:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/1 "2008-03-02T23:06:39Z")
By far one of the weirder reactions you will ever read involving instant shine… As far as a background, I’m a senior in high school. I’ve had two almost-relationships this year with girls I really liked. The second one was a close friend for 2 years. She decided in the end she wasn’t interested in me and started getting interested in another guy. I decided to order my first time pheromones after a friend recommended this website to me. Despite her still wanting to just be friends she put me down (as she often did one night in conversation). She’s in general a hurtful and spiteful person and doesnt realize it. I decided not to be friends with her period. The rejection after getting my hopes up and her rudeness were too much. The root of her being verbally abusive was the conversation subject that day was my 8th college acceptance. She had not gotten any acceptances. I sensed jealousy. She really is a shallow dumb bitch as I’ve come to find out but there was something appealing there at one point in time. Anyways, I wasn’t talking to her for a couple weeks. She persisted and continued to try to talk to me and I didn’t ignore her I just wasn’t too interested in talking to her. I wasn’t rude, I just wasn’t having conversations. Anyways, her friend (an ex of mine who I’ve just become cool with again) calls me up one night about homework or something. The subject shifts to this girl and my ex asks me why I’m not talking to her. I tell her it’s because she’s mean and offensive and doesnt realize it and I think the reason for it is because she’s jealous I got into college and she didn’t. I didn’t scream or yell about her. I told it straight up. This was all off the record of course…or so I thought. The morning after that conversation with my ex was my first day using [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (first pheromone ever actually). I felt great! I aced a quiz at school and I was right on topic in all of my subjects. It was almost like I was paying attention better or something. Everything seemed beautiful and carefree. The stuff was like magic. The final period of the day rolled around as usual and I was typing on my computer when from the adjacent room…in comes jealous girl. She sits down next to me and says “We need to talk” all serious like. I was like “no thanks” she was like “yes we’re going to f-ing talk. You talk to your NEW and better friends but not me. [ex] told me what you said about me. You think I’m jealous of your colleges?” I was like “leave me alone.” She straight up slapped me in the face. Instant shine or not that’s where I lost it. I was like “F–k you bitch!” over and over again. She repeatedly slapped me over the head and hit me in the face. She even stopped and turned around briefly before turning around again because of my cussing her out. I mean it’s one thing to reject a guy and who cares if you’re not even friends? NO EXCUSE for the rude bitch to attack me. Of course she’s a girl and a petite one at that so I wasn’t about to hit back. The teacher noticed and pulled her off of me. She got suspended for a couple days. So that was my first experience with pheromones. I’m not sure if this attack was a result of instant shine (which made everyone else around me that day happy as myself) or the result of my ex not being able to keep her mouth shut and the other girl just being insane. I’ve used it since and had no incidents. Weird huh? Epilogue: The bitch tried to apologize me via aim. I accepted her apology and told her we’re just not friends anymore. She blew it. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/2 "2008-03-02T23:52:54Z")
Looks like I am going to have to add something to my Can and Cant do list. Sounds to me like this girl is unstable and immature. Mones dont change people and they are not going to overcome every persons emotional hang ups. Its obvious the girl dosnt no how to behave properly and has mental and self esteem issues which she took out on you. I dont think this had anything to do with your wearing Ishine. I think its simply the immature antics of a confused bitch. Blow her off. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Baller21](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baller21/32/1988_2.png) [@Baller21](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baller21)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/3 "2008-03-03T00:03:45Z")
[Goal of a bitch - Funny Picture](http://www.jokesunlimited.com/picture.php?jokeid=1137) better watch yourself… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/4 "2008-03-03T00:07:35Z")
Link dosnt work 😃 Why would I need to watch myself Mr Baller Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Baller21](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baller21/32/1988_2.png) [@Baller21](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baller21)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/5 "2008-03-03T00:17:54Z")
check the link now. tisha, this one is more for the gentlemens of the fourms, just wanted them to undertand that some women are real shady… hopefully your not one of them.😛 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/6 "2008-03-03T00:40:25Z")
AHH (snort) nope I am not one of those 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/7 "2008-03-03T02:37:26Z")
The lady does sound unstable. A little courtesy and gentleness will go a long way towards avoiding situations like this. Even if someone is unstable, there’s often advantage in treating them gently. ---
**Author:** ![Baller21](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baller21/32/1988_2.png) [@Baller21](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baller21)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/8 "2008-03-03T02:45:44Z")
i say you should get the hell away from her. Don’t even pursuit a relationship with her or she will probally turn out to be a stalker, abuser, crazy bitch that cuts your dick off, ect. RUN… ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/9 "2008-03-03T02:59:21Z")
GWTW, I might even go further and say “ **Especially** when someone is unstable, there’s **always** advantage in treating them gently.” 😃 Unstable people, by nature should always be approached cautiously, though without letting them see you’re being reserved. They might take your reservation the wrong way and it could backfire. I’m sure we could all think of one or two examples. I know I can, I lived with one. 😃 Blight, you already made the right choice, don’t spend any energy worrying about her. But since you’re looking for possible ways that the pheromones effected the situation, I’d say that it’s possible that the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) might have made her feel even insecure. Not in that the IS itself made her feel insecure, but rather the difference in behavior. I realize that seems a bit vague, so I’ll try and elaborate. You’re having a great day, as you said, things are going well, you killed a test, etc…If you’re already pissed at someone, for some people seeing them do so well, be really confident, without them, can be a trigger. Shine can have some strong effects on people, maybe with the shine on, you seemed way cooler, fun, and overall more attractive socially and that pissed her off. Which, might indicate that she really does have a jealous personality. Essentially, she was acting on her feelings of jealously for your immediately brighter social status. I know there have been a couple times when it was expressed to me that I seemed like I was too good for them once or twice. Sometimes it coincided with the days I wore excessive amounts of IS. Kinda like standing next to Jessica Alba? I know if I blew off a girl and she didn’t want to talk to me anymore, then the next day she comes out looking like Alba, and pretty much whipping the entire school into awe, I’d be hella mad at myself. And if I was immature about it, I’d take it out on her. That was probably a lot more verbose than necessary, but I hope you get the point. I would still chalk up the reaction to her own mindset and choices. You’re probably past it at this point, so just keep looking forward to your other pheromone experiences. You’ll be so busy meeting new girls and making new friends that you’re not even gonna stress out over this girl again. ---
**Author:** ![Blight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Blight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blight)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/10 "2008-03-03T02:59:36Z")
> [@Baller21](#): > > i say you should get the hell away from her. Don’t even pursuit a relationship with her or she will probally turn out to be a stalker, abuser, crazy bitch that cuts your dick off, ect. > RUN… Oh believe me I’m not even talking to her atm. I forgave her but we’re through. Like the above poster said I’m not sure it’s so much the IS as it was coincidence. ---
**Author:** ![raceryan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/raceryan/32/1740_2.png) [@raceryan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/raceryan)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/11 "2008-03-03T04:22:40Z")
Well, you can not hit her… But you can shake the heebee jeebees out of her… ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/12 "2008-03-03T04:35:21Z")
It was coincidence for double dog sure! You should make sure women don’t view you as another “girlfriend.” You need to set boundaries and establish your manhood from the start so you don’t get bitch slapped and treated like one of the girls. Happened to me a few times when I was younger and I learned my lesson… ---
**Author:** ![chads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@chads](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chads)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-instant-shine-lead-to-a-girl-attempting-to-rip-my-head-off/9620/13 "2008-03-03T06:20:45Z")
The woman in the picture should get some oxiclean and try to get the armpit stain out of that shirt.🙂