# First Time user. Need help. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 27, 2007, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-user-need-help/3362 "2007-04-27T14:36:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hock/32/2113_2.png) [@hock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hock)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2007, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-user-need-help/3362/1 "2007-04-27T14:36:04Z")
Hi all!! I just got my order on 21st April. I want to say thanks to Jasmin for all that help in helping me with my order as well as giving me a free sample of “Ammunication”. Here is what I got. 1)A314 2)Instant Shine 3)[Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) 4)Instant Honesty As the lady I am interested in wasn’t in town, I couldn’t use it when meeting her. I have got to wait till she returns. Anyway, I tried it when meeting a female friend, but have not had any kind of response. Senario 1 I applied 3 sprays of A314, one behind each ear, one on chin 3 sprays of Instant Shine, one on chest, one on each side of neck 2 sprays of Instant Honesty, one on each wrist We had an appoinment for me to guide her on some work matters.When I went to her house, she had already taken her dinner, so I decided to go to the MacDonald’s near to her house to have mine. When I informed the apartment security guards that I will be parking my car at the apartment, but would be back shortly, he said:" Sure, get us some dinner as well." I replied:“Sure, not a problem.” It was normal for me to assume that he would pay me back since the tone of request and what he said didn’t indicate that he wanted a treat and we were strangers.And then he asked me to buy for him and his colleague some fries from MacDonald’s, some fruit juice from another shop about about five minutes away from MacDonalds. As the queue for the fruit juices will take up a lot of my time, I asked him if it was alright to get something else from MacDonald’s instead, and he was ok with it. When I returned, I gave him the receipt and he said" I got no monies, I thought you were treating us." Now, I was annoyed with the fact that:- 1. It should be one’s free view to give someone a treat, when the two parties are total strangers. I would have no problems treating someone who asks me nicely, especially the underpreviledged. If the guard was expecting a treat, the way he made his desires known was imappropriate, I felt. It was as if he was expecting me to treat him and his friend in return for visiting my friend’s apartment. It did not even sound like a polite request, it sounded very audicious and pressurizing. 2. Im quite sure he wouldn’t be buying ithe type of drinks he wanted me to buy if it was his own money(It cost three times more than a regular coke) and which he very well knows will subject me to the inconvinience of having to walk to a different place and spend much time queuing for it. I looked at him and asked him what was his name. And it was only then he pulled out his wallet stuffed with monies and paid me. I told him:" Come on:" Ask nicely if you want a treat and you will most certainly get a positive response. I expected you to pay because I find that you are trying to push your luck and taking advantage of me." At my friend’s place, her behaviour was very normal and usual. It did not show any sudden sign of attraction in me. This was despite the fact that I was so closely seated to her, while explaining how to go about the work matters. My question is what have I done wrong. I thought A314 combined with Instant Shine and Instant Honesty was supposed to trigger a sign of an attrative and respectable chrisma.Is my dosage and application methods incorrect? Senario 2 I applied 2 drops of A314 spread between the back of ears and a bit on the chin. 2 sprays of Instant Honesty on wrist 1 spray of Instant Shine above chest. At the office, I walked passed a number of ladies at the life lobby, but seen no reaction, or looks at me I had been to another company to negotiate some agreement. While I was waiting for some documents to be ready, I was standing next to a lady clerk who didn’t know me, she didn’t even take a second glance at me. Guys, please help me out and thanks a lot 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![perronec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/perronec/32/1280_2.png) [@perronec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/perronec)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2007, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-time-user-need-help/3362/2 "2007-04-29T20:41:55Z")
For your first senario, i think you just might need to learn your lesson, and just collect money from strangers before you go out and buy them stuff. Next, the reason that these women may not have noticed you when you walked by is pretty simple…you just walked by. A314, tends to make people around you that you less outgoing, because they don’t want to waste your time with whatever silly little thing they had to say was. Often they will put themselves near you, hoping that you will open them, and they will get to talk to you that way. If you approach them, you’ll definitely start to see the doors fly open. Have confidence. If you have approach anxiety, this is not a product that will make things easy for you (right away). However, once you start approaching girls frequently, you’ll start to see the A314 pulling its weight. I would also suggest using the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) one at a time, so you can get a feel for how each individual one makes you and others feel. You’ll be able to more accurately apply the combonations with that knowledge. Keep testing, and remember: pheromones wont do the job for you, but they will make the early parts easier. Spin