# First timer, need advice! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 27, 2010, 6:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881 "2010-10-27T06:02:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![liamking](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/liamking/32/1400_2.png) [@liamking](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/liamking)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2010, 6:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881/1 "2010-10-27T06:02:14Z")
Hello my name is Liam, im a 20year old guy form Sweden and new to this forum. I have been doing some research and have decided that im going to try pheromones for the first time.. Tho, I need some advise on what to get(and would be very thankful for it too). Please feel free to correct me if im wrong about anything. I’ve understood that i need different pheromones for different situations, because i want different results. I am thinking about getting Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and AMMUNITION(cause that is better than TUTH in my age group right?) From what I have understood this is a great mix? that could be used in alot of different situations. So now you are prolly wondering what i want to accomplish 🙂… So there is this really hot girl that I used to date and we got to know each other pretty well. At one point she wanted me but at that time I didn’t want to be in a relationship. Now when i have realised that i want her REALLY bad, she is not interested. We have never connected 100% and it feels like it is a wall between us, in other words, she can’t really feel comfortable around me even if im a kinda big part of her life. And that is what i’d like to change, I would like her to open to me. Do you think some mix of this would help me with this? (maybe Instant Shine and Instant Openness?) I would also like to be more attractive to the women and get more hits at clubs and parties. I am a confident, talkative, fairly good looking guy that would like an ace in my sleeve 😉 Is that where AMMUNITION comes in(for the more sexual attraction)? Damn. this got really long, im sorry about that! But anyway, I would be VERY THANKFUL for all the help i could get, as soon I could get. because i cant wait to start experimenting with Phermones… Does this sound like a good mix for my goals? Best regards Liam 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Warren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/97f17d/32.png) [@Warren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warren)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2010, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881/2 "2010-10-27T06:28:05Z")
> [@liamking](#): > > So there is this really hot girl that I used to date and we got to know each other pretty well. At one point she wanted me but at that time I didn’t want to be in a relationship. Now when i have realised that i want her REALLY bad, she is not interested. We have never connected 100% and it feels like it is a wall between us, in other words, she can’t really feel comfortable around me even if im a kinda big part of her life. And that is what i’d like to change, I would like her to open to me. Do you think some mix of this would help me with this? [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Definitely, Instant Honesty. > [@liamking](#): > > I would also like to be more attractive to the women and get more hits at clubs and parties. I am a confident, talkative, fairly good looking guy that would like an ace in my sleeve 😉 Is that where AMMUNITION comes in(for the more sexual attraction)? Probably. ---
**Author:** ![liamking](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/liamking/32/1400_2.png) [@liamking](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/liamking)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2010, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881/3 "2010-10-27T19:55:51Z")
thank you for responding warren. Would you say that Instant Honestly would work good in a mall for example. When i want to start a conversation with a stranger. or would [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) be a better way to go? do you think AMMU, IS & IO / IH would be a great mix for a beginner? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Warren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/97f17d/32.png) [@Warren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warren)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2010, 9:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881/4 "2010-10-27T21:01:03Z")
> [@liamking](#): > > thank you for responding Warren. Would you say that Instant Honestly would work good in a mall for example. When i want to start a conversation with a stranger. or would Instant Openness be a better way to go? I like to mix them, use both. > [@liamking](#): > > do you think AMMU, IS & IO / IH would be a great mix for a beginner? 🙂 Probably. Experiment to find what ratios work best for you. It is best to use each product separately until you know what it does. Then start mixing. Of course, these are questions that have been asked a thousand times. Use the **Search** function and you can find a lot more opinions. I tend to prefer A314 to Ammo, but often (not always) younger men like Ammo best. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is another possibility, considered by some to be vastly underrated. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2010, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881/5 "2010-10-27T21:11:07Z")
> [@Warren](#): > > Instant Gentleman is another possibility, considered by some to be vastly underrated. I am one of them 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![liamking](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/liamking/32/1400_2.png) [@liamking](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/liamking)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2010, 11:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-timer-need-advice/42881/6 "2010-10-27T23:49:54Z")
yup… im definatly gonna make an order when i get home, working right now. I am still not sure wich one to get between IH and IO, i might end up with both, it depands on how generous i am when i get home! Can i cover the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) with my own cologne(OVER the pheromones)?, i always use it on my throat. I mainly think about IS since i’ve heard that the throat is a great place for that one.