# First try of Instant Sexiness and Instant Honesty, target tomorrow: dosing advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 25, 2007, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909 "2007-11-25T15:38:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PlainJane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/dec6dc/32.png) [@PlainJane](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PlainJane)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2007, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909/1 "2007-11-25T15:38:37Z")
OK - first, I know I’m supposed to try each product on its own for several days to gauge the results, but I also read that in an emergency that might not be possible. My emergency is that I only have those itsy bitsy teeny tiny to-go bottles (nothing to waste), only received them yesterday, and will probably be seeing my target tomorrow. So please give me advice! Last night I tried both [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and instant honesty. I’d read the warnings about not overdosing, so I was pretty conservative. I used only one spray of instant sexiness to the chest/throat, and then two sprays of instant honesty. The first one went to the back of my hair, but because the bottle was new it didn’t spray very well, so I did a second one to the back of my neck, under my hair. I noticed _no_ results from the instant sexiness. I think I looked good and got a compliment on the color I was wearing (from a female), but I didn’t get any more men looking at me or smiling at me than usual. Instant honesty is harder to analyze because people tell me things anyway. My boss did talk to me at length about another employee, which she shouldn’t do, but that isn’t truly out of character anyway. So maybe that was a hit, but maybe not. So if I got nothing from what I used, how much can I increase it without worrying about an OD? And what would happen with an OD? It sounds like it might freak out my target, but in what way? Can you OD with the instant honesty too, or just the instant sexiness? I thought the instant sexiness had cops in it, but it sounds like if I wanted to raise testosterone I should’ve tried a different product? Or was this a good choice and I just need more of it? How much should I try? If this helps with advice, I’ll be seeing my target in the middle of the day at his house. So I’ll find reasons to be 6 inches from him, but will also be 5-10 ft away unless I’m acting weird by following him like a shadow, which would probably not be the best strategy. Tisha, if you’re reading this, you gave me advice to hold off on the sexual signals to see if he starts sending more as a result. Most of what I send him is probably unintentional, so what should I really make an effort to do or not do? What cues should I be watching for from him? Last week when we were together he did a few things I think of as things girls do, like slowly running a finger around his glass while he was talking to me. I haven’t been very good about analyzing specific body language because I’m too emotionally invested to detach myself and make anything approaching scientific observations. But he’s made comments to me before about my body language, so when he faces me with his legs apart I have to assume he either knows what he’s doing or his body is giving his thoughts away, right? He’ll lift his arms up and over his head and lean back to stretch so that his shirt raises up - and he knows I’m looking. He kept offering me sips of his drink after mine was gone even though I’d told him I’d had enough - isn’t that kind of flirty or intimate to keep trying to get me to drink out of his glass? Or handing me the glass but keeping his hand where I’d have to put my hand over his? While looking into my eyes? Maybe I’m reading him wrong, but it seems to me he can’t be completely uninterested and behave that way. So those of you who are smart about body language, tell me if I’m wrong, and tell me what I should be looking for - both in terms of showing interest and lack of interest. If I look away to look at something else, _every time_ when I look back he’s watching me but then quickly looks away so I won’t see him watching me - what does that mean? What sexual cues do I want to see him giving? Short of having him lean in for a kiss, what am I looking for? ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2007, 3:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909/2 "2007-11-25T15:55:32Z")
Pheromone effects on behavior are usually subtle. People do things people do. You will probably not see completely new behaviors. What may change is frequencies, when behaviors occur, etc. You have to observe and reflect carefully on your observations. You will never know for sure if a particular behavior would not have occurred if artificial [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) were not present. From your description it sounds as if your guy is still interested. Why not let the tension build for a while? The pressure on him will continue to increase. Just let things smoulder. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2007, 4:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909/3 "2007-11-25T16:01:09Z")
Well I noticed one thing right away. You cant OD on Instant sexiness. OD usually occur with mens products that contain Androstenone. So dont worry about that. Use 3 sprays 1 to chest, 1 to neck and 1 in your hair. I would say start with one but as you said your short on time and 3 is about the adverage we use. I use 3 or 4 myself if I want a bigger effect. If I am just going for a little boost I will use 1 or 2. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is good on the back of the head. 2 or 3 sprays away from your face. 1 to back of head 1 to wrist as long as your not going to be putting it up near your face alot. Maybe a cloths application to lower region area. The heat from your body will diffuse it enough and your gonna be in close contact. From you report I think you started to get some hits with the IH at work. I would apply the pheromones about a half a hour before you see him. > [@](#): > > Tisha, if you’re reading this, you gave me advice to hold off on the sexual signals to see if he starts sending more as a result. Most of what I send him is probably unintentional, so what should I really make an effort to do or not do? What cues should I be watching for from him? > > Last week when we were together he did a few things I think of as things girls do, like slowly running a finger around his glass while he was talking to me. I haven’t been very good about analyzing specific body language because I’m too emotionally invested to detach myself and make anything approaching scientific observations. But he’s made comments to me before about my body language, so when he faces me with his legs apart I have to assume he either knows what he’s doing or his body is giving his thoughts away, right? He’ll lift his arms up and over his head and lean back to stretch so that his shirt raises up - and he knows I’m looking. He kept offering me sips of his drink after mine was gone even though I’d told him I’d had enough - isn’t that kind of flirty or intimate to keep trying to get me to drink out of his glass? Or handing me the glass but keeping his hand where I’d have to put my hand over his? While looking into my eyes? Maybe I’m reading him wrong, but it seems to me he can’t be completely uninterested and behave that way. So those of you who are smart about body language, tell me if I’m wrong, and tell me what I should be looking for - both in terms of showing interest and lack of interest. If I look away to look at something else, _every time_ when I look back he’s watching me but then quickly looks away so I won’t see him watching me - what does that mean? What sexual cues do I want to see him giving? Short of having him lean in for a kiss, what am I looking for? Oh he is showing cues alright. Attracting you to certain places on his body by touching it. Eye contact. Causing you to touch him (wine glass). Looking at you while you are turned away and quickly looking away. Open body stance. I dont think your reading him wrong. He is sexually attracted to you. The cues you need to watch in yourself are Touching him, gazing or staring. Try not to fidget. Close your body stance a little. Dont cuddle and sit close. I am not saying stop them totally just work on cutting back cause you want to see if it causes him to work harder which will answer a few questions plus get his blood flowing. In fact if it were me I would act indifferent to him like it dosnt matter one way or the other but I am not sure you want to risk that cause he could just say Ok fine. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2007, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909/4 "2007-11-25T19:19:27Z")
Ok PlainJane, I’ve been lurking in the shadows, reading each of your posts and threads, and I’m going to offer my obversations and thoughts. From what I’ve read, I am going to make a guess that your target has found himself a new girlfriend and is trying to make things work with her. I’m thinking that he is also feeling very conflicted, because he has these strong feelings of attraction toward you, but is trying his best to be faithfull to the new girfriend and not act on his feelings for you. However, whether it be on a conscious or sub-conscious level, or maybe even a bit of both, those attraction signals are definitely showing through. I’m thinking along these lines: 1, Go with Tisha’s suggestion on pulling back. Men really do like their partners to be a bit of a challange and if you are making it to easy for him, I can see where there could be a loss of interest. I also agree that you should let him know that other men are interested in you, and maybe even go as far as to tell him that you’re thinking about dating somebody else. If you can be so bold, I might even suggest talking to him about other men. That would show that you are respecting his wishes of the relationship beign solely plutonic and are just tring to be his friend. But, I also suspect he doesn’t actually want you dating other men and would probably become jealous, and a little more willing to succomb to your desires, than to chance losing you. 2, If my guess of him having found another girlfriend is correct, let it play out. Most relationships do not work out. The fact that he is keeping you around and still sending you these signals suggests to me that he’s not entirely happy in his present situation, and it’s likely just a matter of time before it ends and he’s back. Remember, anything really worth having is worth waiting for. Ayway, I wish you the best of luck with him, and I do have a feeling that it’s not over for the two of you. ---
**Author:** ![PlainJane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/dec6dc/32.png) [@PlainJane](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PlainJane)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 11:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909/5 "2007-11-28T23:38:42Z")
I should say that I did get a hit with the IS/A, although I haven’t effectively worn it around my target yet. The hit was that I was told I smelled really good, and there was very obvious interest that seemed otherwise unrelated to the circumstances. Maybe I did just actually smell good, but I prefer to attribute it to the pheromones. I wasn’t wearing the IH at the time, so it had to be the IS/A. I did see my target briefly the other day, but didn’t get physically close enough for a long enough period of time to check for effect. We had a phone argument the night before, but when he saw me he did instantly smile and appear to have softened from the night before. How fast are pheromones supposed to work? Because I had just applied them an hour or so earlier, so I was kind of hoping he sensed something positive and that might’ve prompted the smile. For non-pheromone related reasons, however, I thought it was best to cut the interaction short until a time when he was more receptive and was planning on spending a substantial period of time with me. It appears this won’t be until next week. (sigh) I’d love to experiment willy-nilly, but I have itsy-bitsy bottles so far, and these things ain’t cheap! The next time I’m around my target, you’ll all get a full report. Probably more than you want to hear. I’ll probably be leaning over him to reach things just to make him smell me, flipping my hair around … ooohhhh, it will no doubt be a shocking display! Although with tasteful restraint and pulling back to make him chase me harder, of course. 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 12:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-try-of-instant-sexiness-and-instant-honesty-target-tomorrow-dosing-advice/6909/6 "2007-11-29T00:32:39Z")
> [@](#): > > How fast are pheromones supposed to work? Because I had just applied them an hour or so earlier, so I was kind of hoping he sensed something positive and that might’ve prompted the smile. Sometimes it hits them pretty quick and sometimes it takes a few minutes for it to work its way to his brain and then back down to his 😮 LOL. I find when someone is effected just in passing or if I just spend a minute or two around them the hits will start out mild and the longer they are exposed the better they get. I also find that the quick hits are generally compliments like “you smell so good” or you look so nice today. Since I am wearing my ugly blue uniform which I wear everyday I know I dont look much different so I know its the mones taking effect. The first 2 to 3 hours are the best after applicationbut I will get hits for up to 6 before I reapply a half dose as a touch up. Tisha