# "Flanking" behavior by loved ones **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 11, 2007, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457 "2007-03-11T17:43:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2007, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/1 "2007-03-11T17:43:02Z")
My wife and I took my 17 year-old daughter to one of her events yesterday. Turns out there were lots of girls, young women, and adult women there, but I was the only guy. Just for interest I had put on a couple of drops of A314 and a couple of sprays of Spaceland. I was having a good time talking to various people, but I noticed that both my wife and my daughter tended to take “protective” positions between me and other females. It was as if I had two very attentive bodyguards. Amusing behavior. I definitely felt “taken care of.” My wife knows I play with pheremones. I take every opportunity I find to demonstrate my love to her. Reassurance may be extra important as some of these chemicals might send “on the prowl” or “high value” vibes that could be perceived as threatening to a relationship. Anyone else have “bodyguards?” ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2007, 6:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/2 "2007-03-11T18:33:26Z")
I do! actually it’s a coterie of escorts. it’s gotten more pronounced since I started wearing pheros socially. it’s funny how they are so protective, and at times possessive. 2 will always call me out when they see me flirting, another has gone so far as to go ask my current flame about his intentions for me. what’s funny is my flame will usually turn me over to the custody of one of my escorts, when it’s time for us to seperate. it’s always “ok - you make sure she’s taken care of, now”. it’s kind of cute. But it could get claustrophobic if it was always going on. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2007, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/3 "2007-03-11T18:44:53Z")
I have a bad experience with this that I will post about later. I’m just not in the mood to dredge up something that I’m not sure how to feel about and it’s sunny and 75 outside. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/4 "2007-03-12T00:55:19Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > I have a bad experience with this that I will post about later. I’m just not in the mood to dredge up something that I’m not sure how to feel about and it’s sunny and 75 outside. Steveo, I’m looking forward to your posts. It’s the bad experiences that give us chances to learn. It’s much easier to understand a potentially troublesome situation than recreate it oneself. On the other hand, memories can be painful. If it’s not yet ripe for conscious thought that’s ok. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 1:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/5 "2007-03-12T01:25:05Z")
OK the days over and it was a glorious day. Spring Break is over and school starts tomorrow. I have a friend, one I consider someone dear and close, to close to go screwing it up by complicating it with sex. Anyway, if you want to know about her all you have to do is read some of my older results posts. Anyhow I really adore her as my good friend and I made a terrible mistake around her by using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) that made her want to elevate our status to couple. Like I’ve said she is a great friend and I didn’t want to spoil it. I tried to discourage this behavior whenever I could. I never told her about the pheromones and soon she came to an understanding that we would always be just friends. Whenever we went out though after all this occurred she became my bodyguard. She would screen any woman that approached us and give them hell with a bitchy attitude. This is so out of place for her too. I refer to her as my pink and sparkly friend as her personality would be described like that. She was never the one to not like anyone, or for that matter would always be pleasant if she didn’t like someone. She was dedicated to being my protector and even called a mutual acquaintance to tell her if she ever did anything wrong to me she would be there to fight her. The thing about it the girl she called I met at her party and my friend even knows we are just messing around. So that wouldn’t be to bad as in some aspects it might add social value my way. After all she is a definite sweety and carries herself well, but it also could intimidate women from approaching. That’s the least of my problems though; as it became more and more evident that I was not going to date her the next thing I know she gets engaged! I mean WTF! To top it all off she drooped out of college enlisted in the Army as a field medic and is going to Iraq. I know if I was a hurt soldier I’d want this hottie helping me. Still though it’s a very odd situation that has some roots in your thread, but I still need time to figure out what happened and why. She said she really likes this guy and I have no reason to doubt her judgment, but now her protective status of me has increased 100%. She is way to possessive of me. I asked her why join the Army, sure it’s a noble patriotic thing, but she said it will help her pay for school. Her father is a BIG executive at IBM and she has no money problems. I’m confused. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 1:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/6 "2007-03-12T01:48:47Z")
and this is why all your bodyguards should be gay. I don’t know what she’s going through steveo, but it definitely seems like changes. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 1:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/7 "2007-03-12T01:50:55Z")
It’s weird and I like her too much as a friend. She is VERY attractive, but I just don’t want to go there with her. I’m just wondering if the engagement thing is to make me jealous! ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/8 "2007-03-12T01:55:34Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > It’s weird and I like her too much as a friend. She is VERY attractive, but I just don’t want to go there with her. > > I’m just wondering if the engagement thing is to make me jealous! well if she just got engaged even if it was just to make you jealous, to some random dude, and now she’s joining the army, i wouldn’t hold high hopes for that relationship. you know how the sexual dynamics are in the military. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/9 "2007-03-12T02:30:34Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > … Still though it’s a very odd situation that has some roots in your thread, but I still need time to figure out what happened and why… Part of you knows, and sees the relation to this thread. Thank you for sharing this experience. It makes me think that we have to be very careful as we continue experimenting, with the hearts of the ones we care for. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 6:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/10 "2007-03-12T06:05:40Z")
I just posted about this in the ladies thread under dollys “had a fun weekend” thread. My 19 year old son seems to be getting quite protective when we go out to the store. This seems to happen most when I wear Mx 140. Problem is he will get very verbal in this protection so I am going to avoid wearing that mix if I know he is going anywhere with me. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2007, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/11 "2007-03-12T06:27:25Z")
Well, I don’t have a wife, but I have a number of close female friends. My problem is slightly different from Gone with the Wind’s. My female friends are so jealous of each other as though I’m their husband! Always it leads to arguments due to their jealousy! Each and every girls (my friends) want 100% attention from me! Although I have pheromones from other companies, but I seldom wear those…I guess, I have enough ‘problems’ without pheromones!! Can never understand women!!😛 😃 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2007, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/12 "2007-03-15T12:32:17Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > well if she just got engaged even if it was just to make you jealous, to some random dude, and now she’s joining the army, i wouldn’t hold high hopes for that relationship. you know how the sexual dynamics are in the military. A few days ago I read an internet article about how women in the US military in Iraq are being raped even by their superiors. I think it was in Salon, not sure. I hope she doesn’t end up in a bad situation there. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2007, 3:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/13 "2007-03-15T15:19:30Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > A few days ago I read an internet article about how women in the US military in Iraq are being raped even by their superiors. I think it was in Salon, not sure. I hope she doesn’t end up in a bad situation there. Well thanks for being concerned. I hope she is going to be OK. War is hell enough and just the fact of being killed, now add in rape. DISGUSTING!😮 ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2007, 3:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/14 "2007-03-15T15:46:45Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > Well thanks for being concerned. I hope she is going to be OK. War is hell enough and just the fact of being killed, now add in rape. DISGUSTING!😮 Yes I agree, and they mentioned that when a woman uses the showers she has to get another woman outside to guard/protect her, otherwise she risks getting raped basically. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2007, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/15 "2007-03-15T15:51:29Z")
This is intolerable! When I was in the Army we watched the female soldiers in our company like they were our little sisters. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2007, 3:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/16 "2007-03-15T15:59:29Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > This is intolerable! > > When I was in the Army we watched the female soldiers in our company like they were our little sisters. I found the article from my browser history! [OpenDNS](http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2007/03/07/women_in_military/?source=rss) They’ve removed references to married men raping women though since I had read the article originally, there’s a note about corrections. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2007, 8:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/17 "2007-03-15T20:21:32Z")
you have to know that’s not all soldiers tho. ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 2:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/18 "2007-03-16T02:03:01Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > This is intolerable! > > When I was in the Army we watched the female soldiers in our company like they were our little sisters. That was then…but today only a ‘few good men’ (such as you) left…🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/19 "2007-03-16T03:33:30Z")
Well 20 out of 20000 is very disproportionate to say they all are in danger. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2007, 7:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flanking-behavior-by-loved-ones/2457/20 "2007-03-16T07:15:41Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > you have to know that’s not all soldiers tho. Of course. It’s never good to generalise.. I know. It’s never everyone.