# Flirting: which mix for strong, sexually oriented flirting with my doctor? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 28, 2006, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317 "2006-04-28T04:29:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2006, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/1 "2006-04-28T04:29:17Z")
Hey ladies, I was wondering if any of you could suggest a good mix to help encourage some strong, sexually - oriented flirting? Here is what I own: IS/w mix A, IO , IH , Lust After ME, TAH, and Meo-Est. I have been having so much fun with these, but I would like to tweek the mix so I can get a sexual ‘vibe’ going with someone. Okay, I’ll spill the beans, since I know someone will ask: I am attracted to my doctor, who also happens to be a neighbor. Why am I attracted to him? I don’t know. It is really strange. He is a good looking guy, kind of like Zach Braff, but more sophisticated. I often wonder if I caught the ‘scent’ of his [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and that is what drew me to him.😕 I never really looked at him in that way, but wow, one day I was just unbelievably attracted to him. Anyway, In a couple of weeks I have an appointment with him, so we will be alone together in a small exam room where he will definitely have the opportunity to inhale my mones. I am planning on wearing maybe 3 sprays of IS with 4 drops of Lust After Me, and 2 sprays of IO, and 1 spray of IH. Is this too much? Any suggestions. I want him to feel like he could spend more time with me chatting.(HAHa I made sure I had his last time slot of the day.) So I figured the IO might help him to let his guards down. 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2006, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/2 "2006-04-29T06:21:34Z")
> [@](#): > > I am planning on wearing maybe 3 sprays of IS with 4 drops of Lust After Me, and 2 sprays of IO, and 1 spray of IH. Is this too much? Any suggestions. I want him to feel like he could spend more time with me chatting.(HAHa I made sure I had his last time slot of the day.) So I figured the IO might help him to let his guards down. 🙄 First off, haha, _there is never enough pheromone!_ You’ve formed yourself a great mix strategy here, ilsa! :puts on her mixing hat: 🆒 Hmm.. Here’s what _I_ would spritz if I were in your situation: I would probably do 1 or 2 sprays Instant Sexiness to the neck/hair. What strength TAH do you have? A good 20-ish (up to 30-40) mcg might do wonders for your sexy kitten attitude, which should in turn influence _his_ sexy kitten attitude. I’d spritz that around the neck/face/hair too. You could do 2 sprays Instant Honesty, maybe more. You’re there to coax some intimacy and Instant Honesty will just help deepen the rapport and open up some deeper communication levels that you can use to your advantage. Openness is really good here, too. You’d want more [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) if you want it to be more carefree, breezy and fun. You would want more Instant Honesty if you want your conversations deeper and more intimate. Depends on how far you want to go. Myself, I’d head for a TAH and Instant Honesty heavy presence with nuances of Instant Sexiness and Instant Openness. > [@](#): > > He is a good looking guy, kind of like Zach Braff, but more sophisticated. Ooh, a more sophisticated Zach Braff… my “crush radar” is squirming. 😉😉😃😛 ---
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2006, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/3 "2006-04-29T14:34:52Z")
Thanks for the suggestions Jasmin. I hadn’t thought of going heavy on the TAH. I will definitely give that a try. I think I might wear a touch of [Lust After Me](https://phera.com/product/lust-after-me/), just to give me a certain “sexual edge”. I don’t necessarily want to talk about sex, but I want him to be thinking about it. I don’t think that he would cross the line of professionalism in his office, but I want him to walk it, so to speak.😉 > [@Jasmin](#): > > Ooh, a more sophisticated Zach Braff… my “crush radar” is squirming. 😉😉😃😛 Oh I know, I get heart palpitations just thinking about the man. The other day I saw him out in his yard in jeans in a t-shirt and I about fell over.😮 Wow. Anyway, I mostly see him in a labcoat that hides his “assets.” Ahem.😃 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2006, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/4 "2006-04-29T21:20:57Z")
Labcoats are sexy! Oh I forgot you had LAM, too! Definitely sport a few drops of that! ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2006, 5:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/5 "2006-05-02T05:50:12Z")
Um… if he’s your doctor… isn’t it considered unethical for him to be involved with you otherwise? Unless he wants to lose his license to practice medicine, any man with half a brain in that situation is going to run from your “friendly advances”. No matter what you wear (or don’t). Don’t mean to sound mean, but think about it. He’s a medical professional, in a lawsuit happy world, and he’s probably paying more than you make in malpractice insurance. He’s got a lot to lose from such unprofessional activity. I’m surprised he was willing to be your doctor when he’s also your neighbor! ---
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2006, 11:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/6 "2006-05-02T11:45:28Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > Um… if he’s your doctor… isn’t it considered unethical for him to be involved with you otherwise? Unless he wants to lose his license to practice medicine, any man with half a brain in that situation is going to run from your “friendly advances”. No matter what you wear (or don’t). Don’t mean to sound mean, but think about it. He’s a medical professional, in a lawsuit happy world, and he’s probably paying more than you make in malpractice insurance. He’s got a lot to lose from such unprofessional activity. I really don’t see how flirting is the same as getting involved with someone. I think men and women flirt for different reasons. Women tend to do it solely for the sake of playfulness. Men for the most part, are trying to get a women to sleep with him, or maybe even just to go on a date. Believe me, I have considered what you are saying. But here’s a newsflash for you: Men and women flirt all of the time. And yes, even with their doctors, coworkers, landscapers, waiters, etc, etc. To me, when you say, “friendly advances”, I am picturing physical contact, which goes _way_ beyond my intentions and my definition of flirting in general. A little eye contact, smiles, and friendly conversation is perfectly harmless. > [@ilsa](#): > > I don’t think that he would cross the line of professionalism in his office, Remember me making this point earlier? > [@catlord17](#): > > I’m surprised he was willing to be your doctor when he’s also your neighbor! He is in an office with a group of other doctors, which you randomly see, unless you specificly request to see one of the physicians. I never thought that I would feel comfortable with the fact that one of my neighbors is also my doctor. That is until I saw him one day as his patient. Ever since then I have been seeing him exclusively. And I never started doing that because I was attracted to him. He is a really good doctor, and a very friendly person to be around. As a matter of fact, I was not initially attracted to him at all. I have had other doctors flirt with me in the past. I never felt that they were crossing the line of professionalism. And I even dated a doctor for several years. Although, I will point out that I was never his patient. I tend to think that we put doctors up on a pedastal and think of them as being almost inhuman and all-knowing. The truth is, doctors are all too human. And hey, they do like to flirt just like the rest of us. And yes, you can think abot sex, or inspire someone to think about it without acting upon it. I want to **flirt** with the man, **not go to bed with him.** ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2006, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/7 "2006-05-02T16:30:26Z")
I’m with ilsa on this one. I’ve heard that “flirting” is indeed pretty common amongst doctors and other “professionals” and their clients just as it would be between someone and a counter-person at McDonald’s or what I do with the waitresses at the restaurants I go to. As long as it stays “light and friendly” there should be no problem. The problem would come if it compromises someones ability to act in a professional manner/do their job (or it gets misinterpreted by one or the other). If something serious did develop then it might be prudent to not go to that person on a professional basis, just like there may be conflicts in any other business/office environment. But burn that bridge when you come to it… ---
**Author:** ![Elana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/edb3f5/32.png) [@Elana](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Elana)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2006, 5:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/8 "2006-05-02T17:20:05Z")
> [@ilsa](#): > > I really don’t see how flirting is the same as getting involved with someone. I think men and women flirt for different reasons. Women tend to do it solely for the sake of playfulness. Men for the most part, are trying to get a women to sleep with him, or maybe even just to go on a date. > > Believe me, I have considered what you are saying. But here’s a newsflash for you: Men and women flirt all of the time. And yes, even with their doctors, coworkers, landscapers, waiters, etc, etc. To me, when you say, “friendly advances”, I am picturing physical contact, which goes _way_ beyond my intentions and my definition of flirting in general. A little eye contact, smiles, and friendly conversation is perfectly harmless. > > Remember me making this point earlier? > > He is in an office with a group of other doctors, which you randomly see, unless you specificly request to see one of the physicians. I never thought that I would feel comfortable with the fact that one of my neighbors is also my doctor. That is until I saw him one day as his patient. Ever since then I have been seeing him exclusively. And I never started doing that because I was attracted to him. He is a really good doctor, and a very friendly person to be around. As a matter of fact, I was not initially attracted to him at all. > > I have had other doctors flirt with me in the past. I never felt that they were crossing the line of professionalism. And I even dated a doctor for several years. Although, I will point out that I was never his patient. I tend to think that we put doctors up on a pedastal and think of them as being almost inhuman and all-knowing. The truth is, doctors are all too human. And hey, they do like to flirt just like the rest of us. > > And yes, you can think abot sex, or inspire someone to think about it without acting upon it. I want to **flirt** with the man, **not go to bed with him.** Sorry Lady, I think you cross the line when you apply the mones to flirt with your doctor. I think you cross the line from innocent flirting to prick teasing. Why don’t you save the mones for the fiance,(remember him?). ---
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2006, 5:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/9 "2006-05-02T17:35:29Z")
> [@Elana](#): > > Sorry Lady, I think you cross the line when you apply the mones to flirt with your doctor. I think you cross the line from innocent flirting to prick teasing. > > Why don’t you save the mones for the fiance,(remember him?). You are allowed to think what you want to, but most people here wear mones pretty much all of the time. That doesn’t mean that they are _PRICK TEASERS._ Not to mention that I feel that you are crossing the line and ignoring forum rules by openly insulting me. I was asking for friendly advice from other women. If you don’t like the topic, or feel that it is inappropriate, go somewhere else. ---
**Author:** ![ilsa](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ilsa/32/1552_2.png) [@ilsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ilsa)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2006, 9:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/10 "2006-05-02T21:23:33Z")
I noticed that this is Elana’s first post. And after thinking about it for a while I remembered seeing an Elana on the ls forum who was banned. I think it might be the same person because of the unusual way of spelling Elena. She spells it with an a- ElAna. I know some of the people on this forum also visit that one, although I personally have never posted there because it seems a bit sleezier there. PheroTalk seems more scientific. > [@Rbt](#): > > You get to see some interesting attitudes. Not all good, some based on lack of experience in the real world, etc. A fair number of “youngsters,” especially men, just don’t “get it” for quite some time. Regrettably it seems we are slower to emotionally and intellectually mature… And others, like your responder, seem to have a rather biased opinion. There are some very intrigueing attitudes here. I love the variety of experiences and opinions discussed in this forum. I came here to have an intelligent discussion about pheromones. Some people tend to think that everything revolves around sex and cannot get past that. The topic of my post _refers_ to sex, but by far there are many other uses for pheromones that interest me. I have to say, in my defense, that I love my fiance VERY much. I have never been unfaithful to him. And I never plan on being unfaithful to him. Actually, if you knew me, you might think that my attraction to my doctor is very unlike me. I don’t usually flirt, or even look at other men as anything than just another person. Really. This attraction to my doctor just kind of hit me over the head one day. Why? I have asked myself this so many times. Maybe I was attracted to his mones. Maybe, on some subconscious level, I picked up signs that he was attracted to me. I never looked at him with any sexual interest in him. He was my doctor. That was it. I used to be mortified at the idea of actually flirting with him or giving him the idea that I am attracted to him. But now, it seems like fun. It seems like an interesting situation in which to test out pheromones. I flirted with him **very** lightly during my last appointment. Mostly all eye contact. I also wore Alter Ego for women. He responded very well to it. He seemed to be blushing from head to toe. It was interesting because, at one point, he gave me this look as if to say, “I can’t believe that she is looking at me like this.” As if he really liked it. ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/11 "2006-05-03T06:21:56Z")
Sounds like a battle of definitions. Women and men tend to mean very different things, even if they use the use same words. I don’t think anyone likes to be misled (“prick teased”) with strong flirting, but light “flirting” by itself often a just involves playful interactions that make life more enjoyable. I think women often use the word “flirting” to mean something more like we men might characterize more as charisma or charm. A wink, a smile… laughter… Whereas “flirting” to us is more results oriented. More aligned with hunting down, picking up, seducing, than merely being human and social. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 8:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/12 "2006-05-03T08:18:03Z")
It was just a misunderstanding on my part. I thought the intent was to do more than flirt. I enjoy flirting for the sake of flirting too. ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 9:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/13 "2006-05-03T09:11:07Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > It was just a misunderstanding on my part. I thought the intent was to do more than flirt. I enjoy flirting for the sake of flirting too. It keeps you human. Imagine a society that made “flirtatious behavior” illegal. Nobody could touch you on the arm anymore when talking with you… women couldn’t giggle… winks and nudges would come with fines… outright laughter punishable by death. What an empty existence that would be. ---
**Author:** ![thr3shold](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thr3shold/32/2316_2.png) [@thr3shold](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thr3shold)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/14 "2006-05-03T10:26:31Z")
Seriously MHarris, don’t you sleep? it’s 3am pacific and you posted not too long ago. ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 10:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/15 "2006-05-03T10:30:20Z")
> [@thr3shold](#): > > Seriously MHarris, don’t you sleep? it’s 3am pacific and you posted not too long ago. I do, but… When I hit a critical mass of creation-based activities, I tend to move into a polyphasic sleep cycle for a few weeks at a time. ---
**Author:** ![thr3shold](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thr3shold/32/2316_2.png) [@thr3shold](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thr3shold)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 2:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/16 "2006-05-03T14:23:13Z")
Due to school demands, when it is requireed , I fall into a biphasic pattern. 1.5 hours in the morning and 1.5 hours in the early evening. ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/17 "2006-05-03T20:17:24Z")
> [@MHarris](#): > > It keeps you human. > > Imagine a society that made “flirtatious behavior” illegal. > > Nobody could touch you on the arm anymore when talking with you… women couldn’t giggle… winks and nudges would come with fines… outright laughter punishable by death. > > What an empty existence that would be. Gilbert and Sullivan: The Mikado "… When he began to rule this land began, resolved to try a plan whereby young men might best be steadied. So he decreed in words succinct, that all who flirted, leered, or winked, unless connubually linked, would forthwith be beheaded…" And for the other side: From (newer) version of movie Flash Gordon: "All creatures shall make merry… under penatly of death." (Ming’s Wedding ceremony) ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 10:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/18 "2006-05-03T22:35:40Z")
That was interesting. Jerry Springer style. HA!!! serious note: I would be careful with the doctor. theres a difference between ‘target flirting’ and ‘social flirting’. He may respond, and thats when things get akward… ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/19 "2006-05-03T23:41:29Z")
> [@thr3shold](#): > > Due to school demands, when it is requireed , I fall into a biphasic pattern. 1.5 hours in the morning and 1.5 hours in the early evening. Oh my lord, that’s much rougher than what I do. ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2006, 11:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317/20 "2006-05-03T23:43:14Z")
Thanks for the poem, Rbt. 🙂 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/flirting-which-mix-for-strong-sexually-oriented-flirting-with-my-doctor/317.md?page=2)