# for married guys and gals **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 4, 2009, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821 "2009-11-04T18:11:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![AJ69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aj69/32/284_2.png) [@AJ69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AJ69)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/1 "2009-11-04T18:11:37Z")
I am wondering how many many of the married folks here that are dabbling with [pheromones](https://a314.com/) inform their spouse of their interest and use of pheromones? I am assuming that the pheromone usage is to enhance your existing relationship with your spouse rather than have an affair. Would you tell him/her and bring them in on it? Make it a sex game? Would you encourage him/her to also try out phermones for their sex? I would think that if the spouse got in to it, it could really heat things up!!!.. but if the spouse was against it… they would have an automatic negative response… I am not sure about my own wife right now but am thinking about talking to her about what I am doing and just wanted some feedback before I say anything. thanks in advance, AJ69 ---
**Author:** ![crewchief182](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ce7236/32.png) [@crewchief182](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/crewchief182)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/2 "2009-11-04T18:46:51Z")
I have not told my wife. Doubt she would care one way or another anyhow. I haven’t seen any effects from her, other than “you always smell so nice”. TUTH at ‘playtime’ does nothing for her, nor does MX292, MX327, IG, IO, IH, IG. No matter how I mix them up. I can whip together some combo’s for playtime, that work wonders for me however. I’m note done with this yet however… ---
**Author:** ![AJ69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aj69/32/284_2.png) [@AJ69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AJ69)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/3 "2009-11-04T21:49:15Z")
> [@crewchief182](#): > > I have not told my wife. Doubt she would care one way or another anyhow. I haven’t seen any effects from her, other than “you always smell so nice”. TUTH at ‘playtime’ does nothing for her, nor does MX292, MX327, IG, IO, IH, IG. No matter how I mix them up. I can whip together some combo’s for playtime, that work wonders for me however. I’m note done with this yet however… Hello Crewchief, Thanks for your reply! I am looking at pheromones the same as I would for introducing sex toys, or porn or phone sex or fetishes or any other thing I have done to increase the sex fun in our marriage. If she decides pheromones are cool and even sexy… then things could get really hot sexually just from the fun of us both playing with them!😃 I am thinking as long as its viewed almost like a sex game, my wife would be intrigued by it… even turned on by it so I will likely bring it up with her and see if she likes the idea. But that is me… I am curious to hear how other married men and women answer this. AJ69 ---
**Author:** ![BLADE](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blade/32/2083_2.png) [@BLADE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BLADE)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/4 "2009-11-04T21:50:33Z")
I’m not married, but LTR and living together. My GF knows and occasionally tests stuff with me, but she’s a massive sceptic - but that makes it all the more entertaining when things do work on her. A314 calms her substantially when I wear it, MX333 unfailingly gets her going and P125 gets her into a very happy, fun bonding mood. I wasn’t too concerned about telling her, although I did have to explain that Pheromones aren’t all about trying to pick up women. Once she was aware that this was effectively a research site and that there are far wider reaching benefits and goals with pheromones, she was fine. At the end of the day, whether you tell or not is going to come down to how confident you are that your wife will be cool with it. ---
**Author:** ![TroubleSome](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/91b2a8/32.png) [@TroubleSome](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TroubleSome)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 11:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/5 "2009-11-04T23:43:59Z")
Well i’m in the same position as Blade, although i’ve not told her and don’t intend to, at least not in the near future. Basically, i’ve bought my batches last year to test efficiency of pheros and watch her behave around them. My tests were cut very short when she started complaining about my “sweat smell”, even with a cover scent. Mind you, i was then trying TUTH, at just 1 spray at 1x concentration. The third time i tried it i was mercilessly booted from bed because of it. She was always picking up on the “sweaty” smell even when my application was still fresh! Anyways, i’ve cut my experiment short last year and packed all my pheros into the back of my lower drawers. Nearly 9 months afterwards, was cleaning them and found the bottles, much to my delight as i was totally oblivious. I’ve recently tried A314 with her on a date, no cover smell, at 3 drops on neck and jawline. She loved it, i tell you! Kept on burying her nose into my neck that night. Needless to say, i spent that night in bed 😛 I will try to reintroduce TUTH, but i’m going to do it with A314 🙂 I’m now testing my other products in other social situations such as nights out with friends, and vacations. So far results are pretty encouraging 😃 ---
**Author:** ![g\_man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/45deac/32.png) [@g\_man](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/g_man)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 2:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/6 "2009-11-05T02:56:15Z")
I’m not married but I live with a girl and have a kid with. She does not know about the mones, havent decided yet about telling her. She does respond well to TUTH, while having sex, she’s always kissing the places that I’d sprayed it. She also responds well to IG. I’ve noticed that when I’m wearing IG and doing, say, house work, she gives me lots of affection, kinda like she thinking “I got myself a great man” rather than “It’s about F’ING time he gets off his ass and helps me” when I’m mone free. ---
**Author:** ![BLADE](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blade/32/2083_2.png) [@BLADE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BLADE)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 3:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/7 "2009-11-05T03:01:32Z")
> [@g\_man](#): > > She also responds well to IG. I’ve noticed that when I’m wearing IG and doing, say, house work, she gives me lots of affection, kinda like she thinking “I got myself a great man” rather than “It’s about F’ING time he gets off his ass and helps me” when I’m mone free. I’ve seen that as well with Androsterone heavy products. It does seem to give that assurance girls need and gets them all cuddly and content 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![AJ69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aj69/32/284_2.png) [@AJ69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AJ69)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 10:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/8 "2009-11-05T22:52:31Z")
> [@g\_man](#): > > I’m not married but I live with a girl and have a kid with. She does not know about the mones, havent decided yet about telling her. She does respond well to TUTH, while having sex, she’s always kissing the places that I’d sprayed it. > > She also responds well to IG. I’ve noticed that when I’m wearing IG and doing, say, house work, she gives me lots of affection, kinda like she thinking “I got myself a great man” rather than “It’s about F’ING time he gets off his ass and helps me” when I’m mone free. Wow- that sounds great! So far the only reaction I have gotten is she does not like the smell of TUTH. It is “that time of the month” so I am not surprised there wasnt much response to my pheromones. I think there is too much hormonal and emotional as well as physical pain and mess to deal with so that any pheromone influence is way over ruled. thanks for telling your story! AJ69 ---
**Author:** ![AJ69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aj69/32/284_2.png) [@AJ69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AJ69)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/9 "2009-11-05T22:56:13Z")
> [@TroubleSome](#): > > Well i’m in the same position as Blade, although i’ve not told her and don’t intend to, at least not in the near future. > Basically, i’ve bought my batches last year to test efficiency of pheros and watch her behave around them. > My tests were cut very short when she started complaining about my “sweat smell”, even with a cover scent. Mind you, i was then trying TUTH, at just 1 spray at 1x concentration. The third time i tried it i was mercilessly booted from bed because of it. She was always picking up on the “sweaty” smell even when my application was still fresh! > Anyways, i’ve cut my experiment short last year and packed all my pheros into the back of my lower drawers. Nearly 9 months afterwards, was cleaning them and found the bottles, much to my delight as i was totally oblivious. > I’ve recently tried A314 with her on a date, no cover smell, at 3 drops on neck and jawline. She loved it, i tell you! Kept on burying her nose into my neck that night. Needless to say, i spent that night in bed 😛 > I will try to reintroduce TUTH, but i’m going to do it with A314 🙂 > I’m now testing my other products in other social situations such as nights out with friends, and vacations. So far results are pretty encouraging 😃 My gal also complained about the TUTH odor. Did you ever try just masking it with a scent or cologne that she likes? Wow- I might need to try A314!!! ---
**Author:** ![AJ69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aj69/32/284_2.png) [@AJ69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AJ69)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/10 "2009-11-05T22:59:29Z")
> [@BLADE](#): > > I’m not married, but LTR and living together. > > My GF knows and occasionally tests stuff with me, but she’s a massive sceptic - but that makes it all the more entertaining when things do work on her. > > A314 calms her substantially when I wear it, MX333 unfailingly gets her going and P125 gets her into a very happy, fun bonding mood. > > I wasn’t too concerned about telling her, although I did have to explain that Pheromones aren’t all about trying to pick up women. Once she was aware that this was effectively a research site and that there are far wider reaching benefits and goals with pheromones, she was fine. > > At the end of the day, whether you tell or not is going to come down to how confident you are that your wife will be cool with it. Yes- I agree with you about that. Fortunately I am confident because of all the other fun sexy ideas that we have experimented with for a turn on… so I am encouraged that she will accept and even embrace it. I do understand the desire for a secret stealth testing though so that you know its not a placebo effect or psychosematic. Thanks for your input! AJ69 ---
**Author:** ![TroubleSome](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/91b2a8/32.png) [@TroubleSome](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TroubleSome)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2009, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/11 "2009-11-07T00:49:06Z")
> [@AJ69](#): > > My gal also complained about the TUTH odor. Did you ever try just masking it with a scent or cologne that she likes? > > Wow- I might need to try A314!!! I did! tried both Armani’s Attittude and Burberry’s Weekend, two very different scents, and she could still pick up on that “sweat” smell!! 😠 Not to say TUTH doesn’t work! i can attest to its pulling power with other females, tried it a couple of times on the dance floor, lots of shameless bumping and grinding. At one point i evengot the “let’s get outa here” 😛 Damn! wish i did take that cue 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![AJ69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aj69/32/284_2.png) [@AJ69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AJ69)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 1:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-married-guys-and-gals/33821/12 "2009-11-08T01:01:13Z")
> [@TroubleSome](#): > > I did! tried both Armani’s Attittude and Burberry’s Weekend, two very different scents, and she could still pick up on that “sweat” smell!! 😠 > > Not to say TUTH doesn’t work! i can attest to its pulling power with other females, tried it a couple of times on the dance floor, lots of shameless bumping and grinding. At one point i evengot the “let’s get outa here” 😛 > Damn! wish i did take that cue 🙄 Try masking TUTH with POLO Cologne… it smells great and is strong enough to mask…