# For use on gf or wife? newbie. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 29, 2011, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223 "2011-01-29T23:34:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2011, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/1 "2011-01-29T23:34:08Z")
This is my first post. hey everyone 🙂 Was curious if there was something you would recommend a husband/bf would want to use on himself to make yourself more attractive to your partner. With marriages or long relationships..it’s easy to get use to your partners looks and natural phermones..was curious if there was something that could add a “kick” to boost your partners mood in you. Any advice/recommendations is appreciated. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2011, 11:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/2 "2011-01-29T23:56:23Z")
> [@dingo11](#): > > This is my first post. hey everyone 🙂 > > Was curious if there was something you would recommend a husband/bf would want to use on himself to make yourself more attractive to your partner. > > With marriages or long relationships..it’s easy to get use to your partners looks and natural phermones..was curious if there was something that could add a “kick” to boost your partners mood in you. > > Any advice/recommendations is appreciated. > > Thanks It all depends on exactly what your looking for. If its bedroom action your after I would suggest tuth, Its pretty much just androstenone which I would describe as pure sex. if your trying to make a strong connection ie bonding I would suggest IH, this will encourage her to really open up to you and allow you both to really connect on an emotional level, of course this can lead to sex aswell. If you post in the introduction section you will get a free $25 GC that you can spend on your first purchase. Hope this helps ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/3 "2011-01-30T00:19:55Z")
I think were generalizing a bit there by calling androstenone as “pure sex” but thats just me. Enone signals virility and dominance and can cause arousal in both sexes but I really wouldn’t “pure sex” or an “sexual attractant” as these arent politically correct. ---
**Author:** ![Deja\_Vu](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/deja_vu/32/256_2.png) [@Deja\_Vu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Deja_Vu)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 6:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/4 "2011-01-30T06:41:23Z")
Definitely TuTH. Check out this [great journal](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704)from Rbarker87. He has been using TuTH on his wife to great effects. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/5 "2011-01-30T19:21:15Z")
thanks everyone. very interesting. I admit I am extremely skeptical of this phermone possibility so I am just reading up and researching. Kind of makes me wonder when going to work, being around people, etc.. if any of them are using phermones lol ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 7:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/6 "2011-01-30T19:48:20Z")
Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) are staples of mine when building a strong relationship (business or personal) Also I am of the strange school of thought that they are both the most sexual pheromones there are. The sex of a strong bond is far better to me than the random sex of using each other for a moment. ---
**Author:** ![thundercat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thundercat/32/2345_2.png) [@thundercat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thundercat)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2011, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/7 "2011-01-30T22:20:30Z")
All i can say is this. Don’t use A314 on your wife, caus when that bottle runs out get ready for a midlife crisis. _Personal Experience_ Instant Jerk is also another product you want to avoid around your wife. But if you can use it right i find it ends up being better then TUTH although most of the time it results in me getting bitched at over the smallist issues and things i had previously forgoteen about. _Personal Experience_ As john stated above, I find [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) helps entrench and lock the relationship between said man and women. I have incredible sex on IH as both me and my girlfriend feel sooo close to each other its unbelievable. I have a hunch that IH interacts with dopamine levels which is why we feel more “closer” and there is that increased sense of bonding. Although i could be entirely wrong and would welcome constructive criticism. The best advice i have for you on here is.. Take everything you read with a grain of salt. The internet is like chinese whispers and although there are plenty of reputible forum users such as Olfact, Steve, Jasmin, K-Train, P51, RadMan etc. etc. only you yourself will be able to gauge how pheromones can help you create a better and more prosperous life for yourself. Everybody reacts differently to pheromones so just start with one product and test test test test. I wish you all the best. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2011, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/8 "2011-01-31T04:35:31Z")
> [@thundercat](#): > > All i can say is this. > > Don’t use A314 on your wife, caus when that bottle runs out get ready for a midlife crisis. _Personal Experience_ > > Instant Jerk is also another product you want to avoid around your wife. But if you can use it right i find it ends up being better then TUTH although most of the time it results in me getting bitched at over the smallist issues and things i had previously forgoteen about. _Personal Experience_ > > As john stated above, I find Instant Honesty helps entrench and lock the relationship between said man and women. I have incredible sex on IH as both me and my girlfriend feel sooo close to each other its unbelievable. I have a hunch that IH interacts with dopamine levels which is why we feel more “closer” and there is that increased sense of bonding. Although i could be entirely wrong and would welcome constructive criticism. > > The best advice i have for you on here is.. > > Take everything you read with a grain of salt. > > The internet is like chinese whispers and although there are plenty of reputible forum users such as Olfact, Steve, Jasmin, K-Train, P51, RadMan etc. etc. only you yourself will be able to gauge how pheromones can help you create a better and more prosperous life for yourself. Everybody reacts differently to pheromones so just start with one product and test test test test. > > I wish you all the best. Thanks for the response. Interesting about the one with dopamine levels. So does the person wearing the phermones themselves experience any kind of “effect” or only those around the person wearing it? Reason why I said interesting about the dopamine levels because I kind of wonder if using any form of phermones actually can allow a guy to get past his refraction period (post orgasm) quicker. I have heard that a drop in dopamine levels post orgasm are often why men lose interest in sex…and it would be great to not only have the desire to keep going, but maybe not even lose the erection. That might be a HUGE stretch thinking phermones can fix something like that. I might try TUTH just to see if it warrants any reaction. I already get in trouble with my wife over small things sometimes…so IJ is probably out of the question. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2011, 5:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/9 "2011-01-31T05:23:57Z")
There are so many variables! Start with something relatively safe like IO or IH. Maybe get some Ishine and some IG too. Let her in on your interest in mones right from the start. You are doing this to strengthen your bond, right? She may laugh but she’ll love you for trying. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) are about signals, don’t send a signal that you are up to something devious. Send her a signal that you love her so much you’ll do crazy things to spice up your life together…that will be sexier than a gallon of -none! Just my two cents. My wife and I both use pheromones…sparingly…and just for fun…lots of fun. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2011, 5:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/10 "2011-01-31T05:27:10Z")
For the wife I prefer NPA and a stroke of SOE, unless on the rag, then a heapin’ helping of A1 sans none. For GFs I prefer less red dick vibe and more subtlety, so a zap of [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) on the zipper and dash 'o TAA on the neckline. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2011, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/11 "2011-01-31T05:33:30Z")
anyone know how many sprays you get in the TOGO travel sizes? This way I can get a few options instead of blowing my money on 1. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2011, 5:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/12 "2011-01-31T05:58:52Z")
Also…with Valentines day coming up…I have a nice evening planned…kind of wondering if I order now…I “should” get it in time. So would IFM , IO, or IH would be good uses for that evening. Maybe even TUTH prior to bed… staying at a nice hotel that night. ---
**Author:** ![Pandakun](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pandakun/32/953_2.png) [@Pandakun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pandakun)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2011, 6:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/13 "2011-01-31T06:24:36Z")
> [@dingo11](#): > > anyone know how many sprays you get in the TOGO travel sizes? > > This way I can get a few options instead of blowing my money on 1. The TOGO has 40 Sprays per 5mL Bottle Compared to 240 in the 30mL Bottle… That’s Based on what is Listed on the Sales Page at AD… Roughly 8 Sprays per mL of Product… Note: The TOGO’s are a Great Way to Test Several Products to Find what Works best for You… ---
**Author:** ![dbot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dbot/32/1595_2.png) [@dbot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dbot)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/14 "2011-02-01T02:09:45Z")
My favorite mones for use with my wife are IO and IH. In a long-term relationship, the enhanced intimacy and communication will tend to improve your sex life as well as your everyday life. But, when you’re in the mood and wanting to heat things up, a dab of androstenone can help get the ball rolling. One piece of advice I have about using mones with your wife is this: **less is more**. When I wear one spray of IO or IH around my wife, the results are great. Two sprays, and there is no discernable difference from not wearing any mones at all. I think this is because my natural [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) signature is so well-known to her that she disregards any changes that are outside a certain range. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2011, 3:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/15 "2011-02-02T15:05:23Z")
hey everyone…I am stuck. Right now in my shopping cart I have a TOGO of TUTH and a TOGO of IO. Do you think that is just fine for me wanting to give these a shot? Puts my total at $24.85 so it works with the GC. I know one of them will be TUTH..just curious what the 2nd one should be. any help? ---
**Author:** ![dbot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dbot/32/1595_2.png) [@dbot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dbot)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2011, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/16 "2011-02-03T02:04:20Z")
I think either IO or IH would be a fine choice. ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2011, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/17 "2011-02-03T23:39:54Z")
I would definitely try IH for valentines day, If things go well with that you wont even need tuth. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2011, 3:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/18 "2011-02-04T15:32:33Z")
Well I now have IH, IO, IS, and TUTH - I am thinking of using IS on days I am around my wife at home…and maybe change it up on some days using IH or IO. Then in the evenings around bedtime or if we have a date night I will try TUTH. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2011, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/19 "2011-02-04T22:08:41Z")
I used [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) today for the first time. I know they say 1 product a day for newbies..I kind of want to try TUTH before bed tonight. I think the IS only lasts 2-4 hours anyways… though I still smell it on my wrist and I applied it around noon, its now 5. go for it? ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2011, 10:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223/20 "2011-02-04T22:16:17Z")
> [@dingo11](#): > > I used Instant Shine today for the first time. > > I know they say 1 product a day for newbies..I kind of want to try TUTH before bed tonight. I think the IS only lasts 2-4 hours anyways… though I still smell it on my wrist and I applied it around noon, its now 5. > > go for it? I cant see why not, just spray it on about 30mins before bed time. Just remember if your going to be testing another product tomorrow to shower in the morning to get rid of any None residue that may skew results. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/for-use-on-gf-or-wife-newbie/45223.md?page=2)