# Friend -\> Boyfriend? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 22, 2008, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524 "2008-01-22T12:25:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jennywasafriendofmine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b5a626/32.png) [@jennywasafriendofmine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jennywasafriendofmine)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2008, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/1 "2008-01-22T12:25:02Z")
Hi, I’ve been getting close to a girl and I need to act fast. Any suggestions as to combos which will help make this work? I’m a big fan of IShine. I was thinking IShine + Turn Up The Heat + [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) Does anyone have any better suggestions? Keep in mind that I don’t want to come on too strongly at first. The effect should be gradual, but it will get to a point where I will need some phero help to assist me in making the jump from friend to boyfriend. Could you also give me some advice as to how many sprays to use? I’ve been using my pheros quite sparingly, but I’m not sure if the effect is great enough or not. I’m trying to avoid ODing people or smelling like a skunk. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![runnerxvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@runnerxvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/runnerxvr)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2008, 12:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/2 "2008-01-22T12:35:21Z")
Hello! I’ve read to your post and it sounds quite interesting. So, you’d like to make evolve your friendship into a relationship, but you don’t want to go too strong with pheros? Ok, so I think that the best idea would be to start with some social ones, like Instant Shine, Instant Openness and even Instant Honesty. If you see that her mood is down, use also [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), that’d be very helpful, people say (I still have to test mine). I had good results with a combination of Instant Shine+Instant Openness with some AMMO too… Anyway, I don’t know which pheros you have, so i suggest you to work her out using socials to melt her barriers down. when she’ll be showing some attraction, you’ll have the chance to use Turn Up The Heat. I hope you’ll find this helpful. See ya Franz ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2008, 12:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/3 "2008-01-22T12:37:56Z")
Your mix sounds good. Start with 1 spray of tuth. Once some attraction, comfort and trust have developed (and not before) you could add in another spray of tuth. ---
**Author:** ![jennywasafriendofmine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b5a626/32.png) [@jennywasafriendofmine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jennywasafriendofmine)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2008, 12:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/4 "2008-01-22T12:48:08Z")
How many sprays of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) do you recommend? Is 2 enough or should I spray more? What about IFM? A quick off topic question: Might A314 cause someone to act seriously around you? ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2008, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/5 "2008-01-22T13:04:03Z")
> [@jennywasafriendofmine](#): > > How many sprays of Instant Shine do you recommend? Is 2 enough or should I spray more? What about Instant Female Magic? > > A quick off topic question: Might A314 cause someone to act seriously around you? 1 yes no what? yes ---
**Author:** ![bubblebob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblebob/32/2120_2.png) [@bubblebob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblebob)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2008, 6:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/6 "2008-01-23T18:57:05Z")
How high is the probability that this special girl is named Jenny? 😃 😃 😃 ---
**Author:** ![jennywasafriendofmine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b5a626/32.png) [@jennywasafriendofmine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jennywasafriendofmine)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2008, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/7 "2008-01-24T05:59:03Z")
About 65% lol!! I’ve been looking into these different sprays and I’ve found it hard to find out about the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) content of each spray. The reason I’ve been looking is because I want to try to avoid overlap if possible… Can someone please tell me a little more about this or direct me to a thread which might tell me? ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2008, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friend-boyfriend/8524/8 "2008-01-24T11:51:49Z")
The product pages at the store sometimes have information on concentrations of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), if that information is public.