# friends zone

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friends-zone/37532>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 5, 2010, 10:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friends-zone/37532 "2010-04-05T22:16:17Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![Morphious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ce73a5/32.png) [@Morphious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Morphious)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2010, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friends-zone/37532/21 "2010-09-27T20:54:39Z")

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> [@Bolkie](#):
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> I never thought about it, but damn, I can relate to that list of ‘weaknesses’ !
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> Do all women ‘know’ about that list? Are they educated about how to exploit this in their sisterhood? 😛
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> Is there such a list for women, that men can actually use?

Silly Bolkie, lists are for wimps 😛

Seriously though, Strenghts and Weaknesses in both men and women are all “subjective” to the individual person.

I consider a successful woman in her career as a strength because it shows determination to be the best she can be at anything. Someone else may consider it a threat because of their education or their own career and wealth. Someone else might say “Hey I found me a sugar mama” 😃. This goes on for everything that may be in the mythical list.

Now, if a list does exist, then for women it would be broken down into categories: Physical (Weight, height, boob size, cellulite..etc), Baggage (Kids, drama from previous relationships), and about everything else that has to deal with the individual insecurities.

Years have taught me that knowledge is power when its used. If a woman brings up something to make you insecure (to dominate you or put you down), you can use the same method (smoothly) to counter it by bringing up her own weakness. Not only will you show her that you are secure and that it didn’t affect you, but also show her dominance and that you are still in control and that she is not perfect herself. (Even if her comment pissed you off…like what happened to me yesterday 😛)

You can immediately tell what a woman’s weakness is by what she “shows off more of” She shows flashy things? Means money is her weakness and she probably can’t survive without it, or she comes from a non wealthy background. She likes Power? that’s means she needs to feel safe and protected at all the time, something in the past caused this love for power. Now that’s not set in stone, but human psychology, and speed reading a woman’s mind are things you should have under your belt.

I know I said a lot, and probably made no sense…lol I’d be happy to explain it better if you wish.

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**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2010, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/friends-zone/37532/22 "2010-09-27T23:21:47Z")

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> [@Morphious](#):
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> Now I will add, _ **I did tell her** _ to get over it because I’m picky as well, and didn’t point out her imperfections that could be deal breakers.
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> Any feedback on the pheros I used?

Respect that! 🙂

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