# From a Mommy Point of View **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 19, 2009, 1:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270 "2009-02-19T13:51:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sugar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Sugar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugar)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 1:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/1 "2009-02-19T13:51:20Z")
Hi everyone! It’s been a few weeks since I’ve been around but let me tell you that I have been busy! First off I need to apologize for my very unscientific descriptions of usage. I have not delved into any of the higher end mixes so this should be fairly straightforward! As some of you might remember my original dilemma was social interaction with other moms or women in general. Whenever at a social gathering (even with hubby) the ladies would be openly hostile and rude to me for no apparent reason. They would cling tightly to their darling husbands. After they got to know me they would be much nicer. But at that point the party would be over anyway! Instant Shine fixed that **IMMEDIATELY** The effect floored me! I couldn’t resist and also bought Instant Sexiness A. My husband is a changed man (always touching me softly or some good old fashioned grab & go) and I also have to attribute this change to some of my self effects from the product. I must really be projecting an alpha/sexy I want what I want vibe with this! One spray to hair, one to chest, one to forearm rubbed to other arm and if I anticipate intimacy one spray to inner thighs or lower stomach. I am finding no OD effect with this one! OK! So with that out of the way let me clue you in as to the reaction from the kiddies! I’ll start by saying that my own children are ages 7, 5, and 3 so those are the age groups that I am dealing with… **[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty** - One spray to forearm rubbed together and one on back of hands rubbed together. Just trying to be careful of self effects on this one! My 7 yr old is incredibly open with this one. Asks uncomfortable questions. (Where do babies REALLY come from? etc.etc.) She has told me about the little boy she has a crush on and that she thinks her teacher doesn’t like her and on and on! This seems to have the same effect on her friends. The two little ones show no effects as of yet. **Instant Shine** - One spray to hair, one to chest for self effect, one to forearm rubbed together. **OMG!! DO NOT - I REPEAT - DO NOT** wear this when you are volunteering at a preschool! The little ones get absolutely WILD with this one! I thought it might be an anomaly but tried again during a play date. Not a good idea. They were bouncing off of the walls as if I had given them soda and pixie styx all day! It had the same effect on the 7 yr old and friends. For me it is strictly for adult interaction. **Instant Sexiness A** - One spray to hair, one to chest and one to forearm rubbed together. Now most of you would not think to wear this around children and I didn’t think to either but I already had it on for hubby. The calming effect it had on the children was amazing! It turned them into little cuddle bugs coming to mommy for hugs and kisses and declarations of their love! The alpha female vibe is just enough for them. When I wear this one they fall into line and will cooperate with me when needed. They also seem serene and secure with themselves and our lives when I wear it! Makes me feel like the “Mommy of the Year”! **Meo-Est** - OK! I couldn’t resist this one with all of the EST talk going on! Just one dab behind each ear for this mixed with Instant Sexiness A Not bad but not great! My husband would kill me for saying this, but he is a very passive lover. This made him more tender and laid back so it didn’t really work for sex. I want him to be a little more aggressive in that area. If I need hugs and kisses this did work. No weird effect from other people though. And I admit I am chicken to really give it a go! So there you have it! From a mom! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 1:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/2 "2009-02-19T13:57:27Z")
Very nice report Sugar. Yes - wearing stuff around younger children can be interesting as they have lower inhibitions and social filters to begin with. I anm not surprised about the results with IShine. I have heard similar stories from people who have that or IO on in the car taking kids to school. Non-stop high energy gabfest. I guess the good news is that you know exactly what is going on in the 7 year old’s life. Hard part is being at that same place when they are 14 … lol. Reps. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 1:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/3 "2009-02-19T13:57:43Z")
Great report! You might consider a SMALL dose of tuth for bringing out more of the animal in your husband. The ladies can advise on this. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 6:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/4 "2009-02-20T06:37:07Z")
Aww, what a nice report! reps! Gone with the wind, did make a good point about TUTH, it makes things more animalistic 😃 Plus, if you just wait for a little while lam will be back in the store! ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 8:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/5 "2009-02-20T08:21:02Z")
> [@Sugar](#): > > Hi everyone! > > It’s been a few weeks since I’ve been around but let me tell you that I have been busy! > > First off I need to apologize for my very unscientific descriptions of usage. I have not delved into any of the higher end mixes so this should be fairly straightforward! As some of you might remember my original dilemma was social interaction with other moms or women in general. Whenever at a social gathering (even with hubby) the ladies would be openly hostile and rude to me for no apparent reason. They would cling tightly to their darling husbands. After they got to know me they would be much nicer. But at that point the party would be over anyway! Instant Shine fixed that **IMMEDIATELY** The effect floored me! > I couldn’t resist and also bought Instant Sexiness A. My husband is a changed man (always touching me softly or some good old fashioned grab & go) and I also have to attribute this change to some of my self effects from the product. I must really be projecting an alpha/sexy I want what I want vibe with this! One spray to hair, one to chest, one to forearm rubbed to other arm and if I anticipate intimacy one spray to inner thighs or lower stomach. I am finding no OD effect with this one! > > OK! So with that out of the way let me clue you in as to the reaction from the kiddies! I’ll start by saying that my own children are ages 7, 5, and 3 so those are the age groups that I am dealing with… > > **Instant Openness and Instant Honesty** - One spray to forearm rubbed together and one on back of hands rubbed together. Just trying to be careful of self effects on this one! > > My 7 yr old is incredibly open with this one. Asks uncomfortable questions. (Where do babies REALLY come from? etc.etc.) She has told me about the little boy she has a crush on and that she thinks her teacher doesn’t like her and on and on! This seems to have the same effect on her friends. The two little ones show no effects as of yet. > > **Instant Shine -** One spray to hair, one to chest for self effect, one to forearm rubbed together. > > **OMG!! DO NOT - I REPEAT - DO NOT** wear this when you are volunteering at a preschool! The little ones get absolutely WILD with this one! I thought it might be an anomaly but tried again during a play date. Not a good idea. They were bouncing off of the walls as if I had given them soda and pixie styx all day! It had the same effect on the 7 yr old and friends. For me it is strictly for adult interaction. > > **Instant Sexiness A** - One spray to hair, one to chest and one to forearm rubbed together. > > Now most of you would not think to wear this around children and I didn’t think to either but I already had it on for hubby. The calming effect it had on the children was amazing! It turned them into little cuddle bugs coming to mommy for hugs and kisses and declarations of their love! The alpha female vibe is just enough for them. When I wear this one they fall into line and will cooperate with me when needed. They also seem serene and secure with themselves and our lives when I wear it! Makes me feel like the “Mommy of the Year”! > > **Meo-Est** - OK! I couldn’t resist this one with all of the EST talk going on! > Just one dab behind each ear for this mixed with Instant Sexiness A > > Not bad but not great! My husband would kill me for saying this, but he is a very passive lover. This made him more tender and laid back so it didn’t really work for sex. I want him to be a little more aggressive in that area. If I need hugs and kisses this did work. No weird effect from other people though. And I admit I am chicken to really give it a go! > > So there you have it! From a mom! Very nice report. I’d just like to point out that EST and Meo-Est are very different [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). EST is like a woman’s best friend. Wear it and it makes almost any man very loving, tender and cuddly. But it can take away from his game if that is all you use. EST can take a tiger and turn him into a teddy bear - who ONLY wants to cuddle. Meo-Est is different. Some women, like myself, find it makes us feel very sensual. Men generally don’t report the same effects. Meo-Est for me, takes all incoming sensation and slows it way down and makes it sensual. It makes me want to stretch like a cat and move in slow sensual ways. My husband - it makes him have pleasant dreams and it may be a factor in him sleeping more soundly, but I’m not sure. He has sleep difficulties but has been sleeping better since I started wearing Meo-Est on a regular basis. Reps for your report. 🙂 Diane ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 10:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/6 "2009-02-20T10:13:07Z")
> [@msselva](#): > > Gone with the wind, did make a good point about TUTH, it makes things more animalistic So - care to relate any personal experiences when things got “more animalistic” for you using TUTH? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 12:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/7 "2009-02-20T12:00:47Z")
Hey fantastic post, This is a great subject to talk about. Mones and how they effect our kids. A lot of moms here on the forum… and dads for that matter. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Sugar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Sugar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugar)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 12:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/8 "2009-02-20T12:57:07Z")
Thank You all for your kind responses and reps! That is what I love so much about these boards. Everyone is so supportive of each other! I do actually have [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) and have used it on my upper lip for self effect. It worked in that it made me so turned on that I kind of attacked hubby. I think that in turn got him going and maybe he got a little hit off of my lip. I will try a more aggressive approach with it and report back! My next experiment will be on our vacation for the next two weeks (Without the little ones!) in the warm weather! I can’t wait to see how less clothes and heat & hot bodies affect the pheros! Although the hot bodies would affect me anyway! Yeah, I went there! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 4:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/9 "2009-02-21T16:18:33Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > So - care to relate any personal experiences when things got “more animalistic” for you using TUTH? 😃 LOL! Now you better behave well mister! Or else…😮😃 ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/10 "2009-02-21T20:48:03Z")
It’s funny because I was wondering the same thing! I am a stay at home mom and I have one 6 year old little boy (he just turned 6, our bdays are 5 days apart, talk about a double whammy lol ugh). Since my environment is primarily my son and my dad, and of course my BF, I thought maybe Id be limited in my “testing”. Since there wasnt a lot of mention about effects on our children or even other non-SO family members. My father is a very young 76 yo (and Im not even being kind, it’s the truth, I often forget how old he is, to me he’s just dad.), and if he could get some positive hits from the phero’s that would be so awesome, he deserves to smile as much as possible. I dunno if he’d be big on wearing them but Ill try at a later date. I only recently received my pheromones, Im going to try and spray some IO and IS and see what happens. As a side note: I can relate to the passive SO, it’s actually the reason I found my way here! I just received Essence of a Woman, TUTH, along w/IS-A and IH sooo Im excited to try them on the bf this weekend. Seems like a bit of an overload to me lol. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/11 "2009-02-21T21:03:15Z")
> [@msselva](#): > > LOL! Now you better behave well mister! Or else… That’s what I thought … 🙄 😛 ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 12:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/12 "2009-04-14T12:10:03Z")
AGH! Lol.. On passive So’s my boyfriend is driving me nuts. -.- It seems like I’m always the initiator anymore which is leaving me seriously frustrated -.- I don’t mind taking the alpha sometimes but not all of the time. Must find insta horny formula for use on bf. Also I have a soon to be five year old that is normally super energetic I wonder if the is/a would calm him down too. I was so worried I’d od him I was thinking of completely nixing phero’s while I’m around him. ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 12:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/13 "2009-04-14T12:47:11Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > AGH! Lol.. On passive So’s my boyfriend is driving me nuts. -.- It seems like I’m always the initiator anymore which is leaving me seriously frustrated -.- I don’t mind taking the alpha sometimes but not all of the time. > > Must find insta horny formula for use on bf. > > Also I have a soon to be five year old that is normally super energetic I wonder if the is/a would calm him down too. > I was so worried I’d od him I was thinking of completely nixing phero’s while I’m around him. Once upon a time Androtics came out with a Chemical Romance series. There weren’t enough reports on the MX’s though, and they’ve been long gone. Maybe they will bring them back if they get enough requests. This was before my time here, so maybe Tisha can chime in on this one. I’ve done a lot of my test mixes around this issue. Some people recommend [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) to give that push. I like P80 better. I don’t get along well with either Androstenone or P83. P80 + cops is the ticket, along with something to just mellow the edge off of P80, like EST works best for me and my fella. 😛 Diane ---
**Author:** ![TheCentaur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ea5d25/32.png) [@TheCentaur](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheCentaur)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2009, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-a-mommy-point-of-view/26270/14 "2009-04-15T17:59:25Z")
spray him with some ammo for a few days… he’ll get back. cooking in the nude works, too. as for [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) on kids, mine actually calmed down. she’s 3. don’t ever use instant openness in large amounts. she was a chatterbox for hours. enough that my wife asked me why she was still talking.